Mga magandang gawin after ng Breakup

[tawnylee]

Ang dami hahaha!

Right now general cleaning my house

[Juricks]

I avoided people who preferred to hold on than to move on..

From then, nagsimulang luminaw ang isip ko.  Tapos I have this kikay officemate who pushed me na mag-ayos.  I shifted my focus sa work, family, friends, travel, finances, new hobbies, etc.

Temporarily, iniwasan ko muna common friends namin.  I reconnected sa mga friends ko before maging kami.  Then new set of friends naman. They really helped me a lot kasi sila ang aking naging travel buddies and taga-cheer up ko.

Took things one step at a time.  If nami-miss ko siya, i just let myself feel it for a few minutes, then pinipigilan ko na tapos magpapakabusy na ako ulit.  Hanggang sa dedma na talaga ako sa kanya.. hehe.

Then, I start seeing other guys na.  Natatawa nga ako sa sarili ko kasi late ko na nare-discover na marami nga palang guys.. hehe.. Its been two years and I have fallen in and out of love again and fall in love again since then.   

[Sisa16]

- discover places
- hit the gym
- do something adventurous
- go out with your girlfriends
- read a book
- revive your spirituality

[mirandaKERR]

Pray..

This is the time to strengthen your relationship sa TAAS.

You have to thank HIM na nawala na ang iyong mahal na lalake pero SIYA ay hindi pa din nawawala.

[tsutsat]

go out with your family and friends
make over!

[spitfire]

1) Nag paka addict ako sa korean drama! LOL! kinilig ako, umiyak, na hype.. helped me to forget nakalimutan ko dahil nabusy ako sa pnunuod..

2) Snowboarding every weekend (winter kasi nugn nag break kami).. Now im learning diving,, next surfing naman todo na to!!!

3) Full hair make over!! shopping

4) Went out with my friends (new set of friends) karaoke all night, clubbing all night.. sleepovers na parang HS

5) Travelled a lot (domestic nga lang)

In short,, nag ubos akong pera...pero hola!! im enjoying my new life and my new hobbies

[Parissydney]

Mga sis, ang pagkakaroon ba ng fubu makakatulong yun?

[Parissydney]

^^ Kung may mahahanap kang arrangement na hindi kayo magkasama, gawin mo na ASAP. Masasaktan at masasaktan ka lang dyan. Hindi ba parang slow torture 'yun?

Magiging magkaibigan kayo in time. Pero now na nagmomove on kayo.. sobrang labo nyan. Stay away from him lang talaga katapat nyan.

Thanks sis pero di ko pa kayang paalisin sya. Natatakot kasi ako mag isa saka di ko kaya huhuhuhu

[pret_ty68]

Mga sis, ang pagkakaroon ba ng fubu makakatulong yun?

Sis lalo mo lang sisirain ang buhay mo kung gagawin mo yan.

Thanks sis pero di ko pa kayang paalisin sya. Natatakot kasi ako mag isa saka di ko kaya huhuhuhu

Sis kailangan mo naman mahalin ang sarili mo. Nababasa ko kasi ang mga post mo pati sa ibang thread and I know that you are really having a hard time. Sis hindi lang naman ikaw ang dumaan sa ganyan. Habang hindi mo sya pinapakawalan hindi ka ma kaka move on lalong bababa ang self esteem mo. Kaya sis kung di mo sya kayang paalisin ikaw na lang muna ang lumayo nang sa ganun ma ka umpisa ka na mag move on. Isa pa habang nakikita at alam nya na hindi mo kayang bumitaw sa kanya lalong di nya makikita ang halaga mo. Kaya ipakita mo sa kanya na kaya mo na wala sya.

[bangs29]

1) Nag paka addict ako sa korean drama! LOL! kinilig ako, umiyak, na hype.. helped me to forget nakalimutan ko dahil nabusy ako sa pnunuod..

2) Snowboarding every weekend (winter kasi nugn nag break kami).. Now im learning diving,, next surfing naman todo na to!!!

3) Full hair make over!! shopping

4) Went out with my friends (new set of friends) karaoke all night, clubbing all night.. sleepovers na parang HS

5) Travelled a lot (domestic nga lang)

In short,, nag ubos akong pera...pero hola!! im enjoying my new life and my new hobbies

tama!

[lenjeearroyo24]

that's it you don't want to be alone. your feeling lonely that drives you to seek unsatisfying relationship that end disastrously. lahat naman tayo lonely at some point in life so you know what it can do to you. takot ka lang na mawala siya kaya you make a decision to stay and stick it out in a bad relationship. or siguro pinili mo to be in a relationship with someone truly wrong for u. being with someone it leads into desperate need. ang hindi maganda dun eh ok lang sayo to cause you pain and heartache in the long run. matuto ka maging masaya ng mag-isa and take care of your health.

[ettevyvi]

Mga sis, ang pagkakaroon ba ng fubu makakatulong yun?

in a short while perhaps? sa iba siguro, more so sa guys. they can separate love and sex.. or so they say. pag girls ang nagfubu, lugeng luge.

[phoebe1811]

love yourself again. pamper it.when you feel good ..you'll be prettier and then saka ka na humanap ng kapalit hehe

pero hayaan mo sila lumapit sayo don't look for them. 

[crazy_krizsa]

For me i spent more time with my friends and family. Nag focus din sa career.
What happened to me was different, i went abroad after a break up. mejo long story. pero i was jobless then broken hearted. saklap di ba? pero i was so motivated to have a new life with out him. new place, meet new people and eventually new job came. so nagpaka busy ako ng bongga sa job hunting. basta focus ka lang sa self improvement. its okay to be sad for a while pero bear in mind na di pa katapusan ng mundo.

[krnmprl]

mga plano kong gawin:
1. switch jobs after passing the ibm exams
2. review for the JLPT this year
3. lose weight
4. catch up on my reading

e andami naman palang kelangang gawin. sana makayanan ko.

[dca201]

in a short while perhaps? sa iba siguro, more so sa guys. they can separate love and sex.. or so they say. pag girls ang nagfubu, lugeng luge.

Why lugi?

[mirandaKERR]

Naku, enjoyin mo lang ang pagiging malungkot. LOL

dahil lilipas at lilipas din ang "pain"

[nicoletta]

Plan ko magpa color ng hair ko.  Worry ko lang medyo sensitive ang scalp ko so I don't know kung papano gagawin ko   Gusto ko rin palagay ng tattoo.

[manilyn17]

just enjoy..

[tawnylee]

Learn to focus on yourself.

Yung time na spinend mo with the other person, now it's time to pamper yourself