looking back at my post 2 years ago (page 10, the_analyst)
I already forgot my mail and user account hehe
im here, 2 years after and might say happier with my hubby.
From the comments I have read, YES its so EASY TO JUDGE, men or women it does not matter. all are asking WHY? HOW? as if its the most sinful act of all. But yes, Cheating is yes indeed a SIN.!
Cheating is a SIN if you are COMMITTED, either with papers or just words, as long as you have your partner whom you told that "you are my only one, the only one that i'll love"
Ok, i think most of the words are said here.
Lessons I have learned?
We are all capable of cheating (or maybe any form of sin), and these are all destined to happen.
Humans are made to do good things, and bad things as well.
But here's the catch, bad things happen. or in this case CHEATING issue, happens to test the couple. Are they really meant to be or not? If they pass the test..may be they were meant, if not, then they dont.
Hindi madaling magsalita, lalo na if hindi mo actually pinagdaanan. The problem here is, kahit isang mali lang ang nagawa ng isang tao, its human nature na forever cheater na yung isang tao, as if wala na siyang ibang nagawa na maganda sa buhay niya, RIGHT?
Another thing na naglalaro sa isip ko, if you really end up with your TRUE LOVE, i guess, kahit anong tukso pa dumating sa buhay mo, you will never ever dare.
Now, i can say na happy na ako, and if there come a time na si hubby naman ang magloko? I wont be mad, why? kasi pinagdaanan ko na, and i can talk to him siguro ng mahinahon.
Im happier not because hindi na kami nag aaway, or dahil napatawad ako ni hubby ko, or dahil buo pa rin family ko.
Im happy because i've learned to understand that this is God want me to do, to have, at this moment. Whatever life gave, embrace it, either good or bad.
Yung mga partners natin ngayon, we are never 100% guaranteed na sila na forever, but while we are with them, DO WHAT IS RIGHT
BASTA ANG POINT!
CHEATERS, LIERS,SINNER, ITAWAG NA LAHAT NG ITATAWAG.
ACCEPT YOUR MISTAKE
FORGIVE YOURSELF
BE PROUD, NOT BECAUSE YOUR A CHEATER, BUT BECAUSE YOU WERE ABLE TO HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO BE TESTED BY GOD, FOR WHATEVER REASONS HE HAS FOR YOU TO BECOME A BETTER PERSON.
LOVE YOURSELF AND TRUST GOD!
good night
