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heavensent · « **Reply #21 on:** October 07, 2009, 01:42:20 pm »

tama ang mga sisses natin.. its really up to you..

me and my partner of 7 years are having lots of misunderstandings and indifferences, sometimes i think that i dont love him anymore.. maybe because he cheated on me before..

there are some guys na nangungulit eventhough alam naman nila yung situation but never ko sila inentertain, ayaw ko na kasing dagdagan yung prob ng another prob..

miss resilient · « **Reply #22 on:** October 08, 2009, 03:28:32 am »

Quote from: Bamzki on October 07, 2009, 10:52:49 am

what if nagawa mo nang mag cheat? and pure lust lang? do we have to tell our husbands about it? para lang free of guilt ka?

i guess di dapat kasi baka bugbugin ng mister..hehe

sabi nga ng isang expert womanizer, kapag may ginawa kang pangangaliwa, dont ever mention about it. sabihin mo na lang na nagkaroon ka ng affair, ganon.

ang sabi ko lang sa hubby ko we were texting and talking on the phone. i didnt tell that we dated.

naalala ko when i was on my teens, i had a bf na madalas niya ako balewalain tapos sa harap ko nanliligaw siya ng ibang babae...e di another guy courted, sagutin ko nga. nalaman niya tapos sabi ko "pabaya ka kasi eh". ganun ako kaprangka before. kaya nakiusap siya and then i broke up with the other guy. yung original ang pinili ko.

cher.liman · « **Reply #23 on:** October 08, 2009, 03:43:01 am »

miss resilent, temptation will always be there but its up to us to resist. don't get into a situation na mapapasubo ka. as much as possible ikaw na ang umiwas. if it applies, men will always be men and society has its double standards, sabi nga ni partner ang lalaki walang paki if may asawa si babae. i think he meant nothing is sacred na in this time and day.

i have been in a situation na muntik na. my reasoning was sila naman ang lumalapit etc. honestly it fed my ego a lot. kaya lang when i think of my partner na walang kamalay malay i feel guilty. kahit na may mga pagkukulang sya big time i always think that we are married and we must work it out at all costs.

Bamzki · « **Reply #24 on:** October 09, 2009, 04:59:00 pm »

ang lahat ng feelings na nararamdaman natin may it be love, hurt,joy, remorse etc are all part of being alive!

Life is Good and...cruel to me...

miss resilient · « **Reply #25 on:** October 11, 2009, 12:27:23 am »

nakakainis mang isipin pero kahit paano namimiss ko siya.

i'm pretty sure natuloy ang pagliive in nila ng gf niya.

sana lang eh, malimutan ko na ng tuluyan kung anuman ito..if i say yes to him daming complications. maraming involved..maraming sabit.

kaya i chose to stop it. siguro hindi naman worth it ang piliin siya. at this time, im trying to restore relationship with my husband, but up to this time, di ko pa rin feel makipag love making sa kanya.

spicyangel · « **Reply #26 on:** October 12, 2009, 01:02:44 am »

i feel for you sis, minsan din naiisip ko bakit nangyayare sakin to. i can't justyify the fact that i cheated on my hubby kahit ano pang rason mali pa rin ginagawa ko. pero for now, i really can't help it. i dont wanna lose the other guy kase he makes me happy. i admit im really confused if i still love my hubby or what. di ko na talaga alam. maybe yun yung sinabi ng isang sis natin dito na nasa stage kami ng im used ot it na. kase 8 yrs na kami, and yung first 4 years ng relationship namin puro pain and sufferings on my part. kaliwat kanan ang babae nya. na lahat pinalampas ko lang dahil sa ayoko shang mawala sa buhay ko. di ko alam na as years passed by dala dala ko pala yun at naipon ng lahat at bigla na lang sumabog na ayoko na pala. na kahit nagbago na sha dahil di na sha nambababae eh wala ng dating sakin. i know i was wrong to entertain this feelings towards the other guy. pero di ko rin naman sinadya dahil nung time na yun naaliw ako sa kanya dahil he listen to me, he cares and he understand me. na develop kami sa isat isa and now mahal ko na sha. kami ng asawa ko parang magkabarkada na lang. ganon din nya ko itrato, pero alam mo minsan gusto ko ng makipag hiwalay sa kanya. di ko alam kung ano gusto ko in short. dahil complicated at confused ako. oo im weak when it comes to love, and di ko nilabanan yung tukso.

kolinetongue · « **Reply #27 on:** October 12, 2009, 12:54:03 pm »

@ miss resilient: feeling ko may pagkukulang yung husband mo sa yo. kaya ganyan ang actions

tama ba? yun muna ang bigyan mo ng solusyon.

miss resilient · « **Reply #28 on:** October 13, 2009, 04:36:54 am »

@spicy..so you chose the other guy pala...anong mga kinonsider mong factors para gawin yun..nabanggit mo ba yan sa kahit kaninong friend or relative mo..?

@koline..siguro oo. but im getting used to it, binabalewala ko na lang yun. iniisip ko na lang na may commitment kami...

ive met someone in forum na ganitong situation..he chose the other guy and left her husband. sabi niya sa akin, i clear mo muna isip mo bago ka magdecide. dapat desidido ka sa sarili mo para walang sisihan sa huli. ok naman yun eh. pero paano kung di ka nga desidido?

spicyangel · « **Reply #29 on:** October 13, 2009, 06:45:05 am »

i didnt chose the other guy. im still with my hubby but in love with the guy. you know! its been 2 years and my hubby didnt find out.

miss resilient · « **Reply #30 on:** October 14, 2009, 08:00:23 am »

so, its still ongoing...hindi ba nakaobvious ang hubby mo?

spicyangel · « **Reply #31 on:** October 14, 2009, 08:55:09 am »

hinde sis.. 2 years na kami... di ako nahahalata ni hubs. pero sha madali ko shang mabuking. LOL

Shopao · « **Reply #32 on:** October 14, 2009, 09:24:16 am »

YIKES!oh no.. your falling out of love with ur husband.. lam mo hindi din maiiwasan yang mga guys na lumalapit eh. sometimes sila din ang pahamak eh... pero in the end.. nasaatin padin yung last call kung kakagat tayo sa mga temptations nila.. diba?

miss resilient · « **Reply #33 on:** October 15, 2009, 09:06:40 am »

@spicy...ganon, baka di lang siya nagsasalita. at least ikaw malakas ang loob mong gawin yun.

curious tuloy ako sa siggy mo..para ba yan sa hubby mo o sa bf mo...hehe

@shopao..thanks for the input.

mami violy · « **Reply #34 on:** October 15, 2009, 10:04:45 am »

may I asked lang po di ba kayo nakakaramdam ng guilt kahit sabihin pa na niloko kayo ng hubby nyo but it doesnt mean na gagawin na din di ba. kung di nyo na talaga loves ang mga hubby nyo I think they deserve some respect di ba tell it to them na ayaw nyo na at pagod na kayo, mas ok na yung hiwalay kayo at least medyo di na ganun kakumplikado yung mga sitwasyon nyo. IMO lang naman po

miss resilient · « **Reply #35 on:** October 16, 2009, 04:35:55 am »

^wow, holier than thou comment ah..well..siguro ganun talaga, kanya kanya lang weakness ang tao..nagkataon siguro na ito yung naging weakness namin..

in the first place, i posted this concern to ask the opinion of other gt-ers..kung itutuloy ko ba o hindi or anong masasabi nila sa situation na ito...para naman magkaroon ako ng iba't ibang pov in this scenario.

at any rate, thanks for the post...

super bratinella · « **Reply #36 on:** October 16, 2009, 09:10:52 am »

I remember my old me! way back 2000 lasted until 2003. Masaya pa ang first two years, feeling long hair talaga, kumukulot hanggang Japan!LOL

Walang guilt feeling sa orig na bf ko, saya pa nga eh! sobrang exciting since LDR si orig bf at ang 2nd bf trip trip lang.

I came to a point that I need to choose, at that day, sobrang para akong tinutusok ang heart ko at namamanhid ang whole body ko (literally) dahil sa sobrang sakit na I need to let go isa sa kanila.

In my case my I need to choose orig bf since we have a daughter (we are not married, pero blessed sa religion nila which is Islam), pero sobrang gusto ko si 2nd bf dahil ibang iba siya sa orig bf ko.

But in this case, I chose 2nd bf kahit may anak pa kami ni orig bf. Dahil he far better than the first.

Right now, we are married ni 2nd bf and promise not to that cheating again. Kasi sobrang sakit ng may nasasaktan kang tao lalo ng pagmahal mo ang nasasaktan mo.

SIs, if you still have the chance to save it, please do. It is not worth trying.

God Bless you sis.

graze24 · « **Reply #37 on:** October 16, 2009, 04:12:09 pm »

maybe we all hve the reason why we may feel na fafallout of love na tayo sa mga hubby natin..minsan pa nga parang magigising ka na [textspeak!] isang araw ayaw mo na pala and you'll ask yourself why

but i will never cheat..i maybe fed up on all the fights and pain we had..but then again i will still choose to love him..AGAIN..

spicyangel · « **Reply #38 on:** October 17, 2009, 10:51:27 am »

i told myself that i will never ever cheat. di ko gagawin ang ginawa nya sakin. pero eto ako at nagmahal ng iba.worst is mahal ko yung guy, yung asawa ko nag cheat sha just for the sake na may babae sha may ibang ka sex at walang feelings. but not me. sabi nya may malaman lang sha sakin wala ng usapan hiwalay na daw agad. pero so far wala pa shang nalalaman.

miss resilient · « **Reply #39 on:** October 18, 2009, 07:34:55 am »

thanks for all the post..wala na rin akong balita kay L up to this time... when i informed my friend about this..she just told me she would let me realize and learn my lesson on this matter...

anyway, if you still have stories in regards to this, just post na lang..thanks again..

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