on wife who cheat...

[bmitch]

Women cheat dahil siguradong may nagawa o ginagawa ang asawa sa kanila.

I did dahil binubugbog niya ako.

[silke]

^ sis buti di ka nahuli?

me naman kahit nambabae na sya at paulit-ulit na ko nasasaktan emotionally, i can't still bring myself to cheat on him. but once he leaves me, i'll start moving on with my life. i can't sit around and wait for him to come back especially since wala naman assurance na babalik siya. siguro naman no one can accuse me na of cheating kung magkahiwalay na kami bago ko magbf ng iba diba?

[laey]

Parang naalala ko tuloy ang Unfaithful sa thread na to. Napatay ni Richard Gere yung Boylet ni Diane Lane dun. Kaya siguro, isipin mo munang mabuti, dear. At yung kalalabasan. But it's still up to you, sabi nga nila.

[spicyangel]

^ favorite movie ko yan sis... watch mo rin yung perfect murder, may kabit din yung babae.. 

[glamorosa_mom]

sis threadstarter, if i may ask, what makes you cheat your husband?  uhm, may problema for sure, may issues sa marriage, okay i know na yan, pero what in particular, if i may ask? sex ba? attention ba? wala nang kilig factor? what?

kasi ganito ang point ko dyan... if your husband deserves to be cheated on, go ahead and do it!!  hello, life is short so enjoy every minute of it.. pero wait, be mindful of "if he deserves so be cheated on" factor ha.  what makes him deserve it ba?  para sa akin, kung sinasaktan ka physically or emotionally, syempre that means hindi ka masaya sa ganun dahil sino ba sasaya dun di ba?  then you deserve some happiness somewhere else, with someone else.  yun nga lang, pipiliin mo rin kung sino yung ka-happiness at the moment mo sis.  in your case, the guy has a wife, and a gf on the side... so that leaves you where?  [textspeak!] tawag sa yo? si gf kasi kabit, ikaw [textspeak!] tawag sa yo?  well, im not sure.. wala pa atang term for that.. okay what's my point?  di ba i said find your happiness somewhere else... e baka naman sa guy mo na yan, pulutin ka lang din kung saan sis.. what if you fall for him totally and he chooses his wife, or the gf na plano pa pala nya gawing ka-live in diba?  if you know kung san ka nakalugar and you are set na sya ay "happiness at the moment" mo lang, good.  pero if you are dreaming na sya ang magsi-save sa sadness mo sa marriage mo, like your knight in shining armor and will bring your happy-ever-after fairytale ending... malabo sis. 

okay let's go back to the husband... kung hindi naman sya deserving to be cheated on, sis maawa ka naman, wag mo na gawin... pero yun nga kasi, hindi naman malinaw kung bakit humahanap ka ng iba.  sa guys kasi, believe it or not, hindi lang din sex ang habol nila sa kabit e... minsan tayo rin kasi nagbibigay ng rason kung bakit naghahanap ng iba... [textspeak!] ba rason mo para maghanap ng iba?  if kaya pang pag usapan, pag usapan.  if kung kelangan sa part mo manggaling ang pagbabago ng marriage nyo, why not?  asawa mo naman yun and marriage nyo naman ang sinasave mo e. 

pero yun nga sis, it's your decision... eto lang ha, kung gusto, gusto.... alam mo yun?  kahit [textspeak!] pang point of view, sharing, advice, etc. etc. ang mabasa mo dito, kung  gusto mo, gusto mo... wala kami magagawa sa gusto mo sis.

[twelvth_goddess]

i really believe that there's no justification for cheating although there are definitely a lot of reasons why either the wife or the husband does this.

[otherme]

super backread ako from page 1. im not cheating (yet!) but i've been thinking of this guy na old friend ko. 15yrs na kami di nagkita then that day when we first saw each other again, sobrang kabog talaga ng dibdib ko, and sya rin hindi mapakali.
since that day we talk on the net almost everyday, kulitan lang naman, mga pasaring and biruan na magdate kami. never happened pa naman. i feel guilty for thinking about him, reviving our conversations, imagining what if magkita kami ulit.
i know kilig factor lang 'to, but i really hope it will pass soon. i love my hubby so much and he loves me so much too i know. wala kami problem and we're happy together. kaya lang minsan i cant help but think about this other guy...
am i cheating already?? haayyy...

[lors1025]

otherme, sabi mo you love your husband so much at ganun din sya sa iyo at wala kayo probema.. well payo ko lang sis, wag kang gumawa ng magiging problema ninyo in the future... ika nga, wag kang lumapit sa apoy kung ayaw mong mapaso!.. wag kang padala sa mga nararamdaman mong kilig factor.. dahil baka di mo mapansin e me nagawa ka na na pagsisihan mo in the end!.. 

[fifigirl]

please watch fire proof. its a beautiful movie. may dvd nyan usually sa omf bookstore. it might save your marriage

[SUTIL]

^i saw this movie, and yeah super ganda nga.

hmm, wives who cheat. bakit nga ba? well, nasabi na nila halos lahat dito. pero pinakanatutuwa ako sa "wag na wag pahuhuli!"

totoo nga na pag may asawa ka na, lalong lumalapit ang boys. i got married 2 months ago and my hubby's abroad...ngayon mas madami nagpaparamdam at lumalapit. it feeds my ego, yes...lalo pa at ang asawa ko e parang hindi na nagagandahan sa akin, parang sa kanya e wala lang.  pero natatakot akong magcheat. i did cheat on him noong mag-bf at gf pa lang kami..kasi he cheated on me too!  pero tapos na yun.  i admit, minsan natetempt akong matukso..pero sana wag mangyari

[ishko]

in my opinion, depende po sa iyo yan.. kasi for me, cheating means having no self respect and lowering yourself as one of the animals, instead of a human being.. animals, with certain exceptions, do not have partners, which means they can have sex with anybody even with their own offspring.. but human being is exceptionally intelligent, that's the way God created them..

[spicyangel]

^mostly women who cheat kase puso ginagamit... hindi utak. just pov

[grumpybear]

para sa akin kapag dumating sa punto na you want to cheat, why not leave na lang?

[luvsophie]

sis miss resilient i've been there... not that I am proud of what I've done but it made me realize a lot of things in my marriage.

To cut the story short, me and my husband are unofficially separated but we're friends... good friends. Pero hindi ako nakipaghiwalay dahil sumama na ko dun sa isa - its more complicated than that actually   

^mostly women who cheat kase puso ginagamit... hindi utak. just pov

I so agree..

[heavensent]

@SUTIL - i agree with you, sometimes kasi yung hubby natin di nila tayo na aapreciate so its really nice to have someone na nagcompliment satin but just like you takot din ako mag cheat, ayoko ng probs.. but i admit its tempting sometimes..

[SUTIL]

^yeah really tempting. 

[hopelessromantic]

sana lang wag naman yung may asawa rin ang pipiliin.kawawa naman yung wife nung guy.walang kamalay malay.usually dahil sa mga kabit biglang nagkakaroon ng marital issue na wala naman.imbento lang just to justisfy yung actions nila...tska naramdaman nila kung pano lokohin ng hubby so better think na rin yun mararamdaman ng wife.dont be too selfish...kung may problem kau ng hubby niyo,better wag na mangdamay ng ibang family...find a single guy.

[laey]

^ favorite movie ko yan sis... watch mo rin yung perfect murder, may kabit din yung babae.. 

Yeah dear, already watched that too. Kay michael douglas at gwyneth yan diba? Kaso kasi mas yummy yung boytoy ni diane lane.  Well, pareho tigok yung boys nila (ata). So be careful, dears. Or if you can resist the tempt, resist it. If someone's going to be dead in the end (and just wish it's not you), it's not worth it.

[miss resilient]

i tried to say goodbye to him..mahirap pero ginawa ko. sinubukan kong kaibiganin lang siya dahil ayoko namang iwan siya sa ganong kalagayan..sabi ko sa kanya..we both know what we feel about each other..kaso may masasaktan lang talaga. kaya sinusubukan ko ngayong wag makipag usap sa kanya. as i said, he broke up with his girlfriend..todo iyak yung gf..according to his kuwento. sa akin ang sabi ko..yan ang tinatawag na carmi martin (karma)..inagaw mo ngayon naagaw sayo (referring to his gf)

[Elle]

^ sis, for me ha, it's not possible to be friends with your ex or soon to be ex. marami ka naman sigurong friends, and you don't need more na magpapagulo lang sa buhay mo. better stop it.

just remember, if he cheats with you, he will cheat on you. tingnan mo nangyari sa gf nya. sa tingin mo di yun posibleng mangyari din sayo?