Have you ever felt soo ALONE? [Thread 2]

[piatos]

sa ngayon namimiss ko nanaman siya..heto nanaman ako

[jenny.babe]

Yes. Tapos ang hirap kapag may problem ka tapos wala ka namang masabihan. Pero nasanay na din ako, minsan kasi mas ok pa kung sasarilihin mo nalang.

[lesters_gal]

Yes... all the time...

[jenny.babe]

Yes. Nobody understand what my situation is. My one and only bestfriend umalis pa kaya wala na talaga ko masabihan.

^same tayo sis, layo niya na sakin.

[purpleice]

Yes, most of the time.
Sa totoo lang hindi ko rin alam kung bakit hindi talaga ako madaling magkaroon ng kaibigan. Minsan I feel so insecure to initiate friendship sa iabgn tao, kasi sa totoo lang naman, kung maganda/mayaman/popular for whatever reason ka, hindi mo naman na kailangang mag-effort sa pakikipagkilala dahil tao ang lalapit sayo. I am not conventionally pretty, nor rich so kailangang ako ang um-effort kung gusto ko ng friends. But well, I am too shy to do that. Isa pa, hindi talaga ako nagta-thrive sa barkadahan. Yung big groups. I tried being a part of one when I was still a freshman in college pero lumayo din ako after 1 sem. Nakaka-drain kasi ng energy for me yung maraming maingay na kasama hehe. Mas feel ko kung 3 lang kami sa group ganyan.

Ayan, so ngayon certified loner talaga ako. I have a few friends pero di naman kami magkakasama palagi. Tamad pa akong sumali sa mga social events sa school noong college so wala talaga.

But hey, being a loner has its perks din naman. You learn to become independent. Minsan kasi kung -titingnan mo yung mga magkaka-barkada in public parang ang immature noong iba. Di mapag-decide kung saan gusto kumain, di maka-kilos ng walang tulong, etc. Kapag loner ka, wala kang aasahan kundi sarili mo so you have to learn how to stand up for yourself. So yeah, masaya na rin naman ako in a way.

So for other loners out there, cheer up!

[ziontrec]

i do.
even when in im in a crowd.

[kinkytinch]

Yes. I have my own barkada but I'm the one who pleads for a get-together 90% of the time (Take note: "pleads"). I don't feel that they want me around that much that it would make them initiate inviting me to anything. Kakapagod..yung bang feeling mo lagi kang nagiinvite ng mga guests of honor..Di naman ako basagulera or anything. Baka socially awkward? I don't know what's wrong...

[young_maiden]

yes. sanay na ako

[insanelypurpleprincess]

Had this episode when our Dad died. Even if I knew that my family was around and so were friends and even the guy who I used to be with at that time... I still felt alone. Perhaps because I was very close to our Dad, so I really felt like all was lost when he passed away. It's been 8 years, so I have come to accept that he's gone - but doesn't stop me from missing him everyday!

[pumpkin13]

@purpleice: Ganyan din ako sis. Di ko na eelaborate kasi nasabi mo na. Haha! Ayoko din ng big groups. More than 4 people in a group is already a crowd for me. Kelangan ko lagi magrecharge pag big groups. Tamad din ako sa social events. Have few friends, mabibilang sa daliri, di ko din nakakasama madalaas.
And yes, I'm independent. 

[ahl28]

  madalas, lalo na pag malapit na ang period ko..

[jenny.babe]

Ok din ang loner. Like what purpleice said. Mas makakapagdecide ka, focus, independent. Plus nakakatipid ka pa. Hahaha. Nagagawa mo pa gusto mo.

[insanelypurpleprincess]

I do right now because I am torn whether I should head out or stay in.
If I do decide to just stay in, I will be literally alone for a good few hours since S has to be at an event!

[fionaapple]

Madalas. Kasi only child ako.

[t_r_i_s_h]

YES! I think this is very normal.

[cassidyheidi]

Yes napi feel ko yan. Like now feeling alone ako. Gusto ko ng makakausap kaya lang no reply yung mga tinext ko. Yung mga close friends ko kasi may mga family na at yung iba nsa abroad. Nakaka miss yung feeling happy and contented. 

[fionaapple]

Yes, most of the time.
Sa totoo lang hindi ko rin alam kung bakit hindi talaga ako madaling magkaroon ng kaibigan. Minsan I feel so insecure to initiate friendship sa iabgn tao, kasi sa totoo lang naman, kung maganda/mayaman/popular for whatever reason ka, hindi mo naman na kailangang mag-effort sa pakikipagkilala dahil tao ang lalapit sayo. I am not conventionally pretty, nor rich so kailangang ako ang um-effort kung gusto ko ng friends. But well, I am too shy to do that. Isa pa, hindi talaga ako nagta-thrive sa barkadahan. Yung big groups. I tried being a part of one when I was still a freshman in college pero lumayo din ako after 1 sem. Nakaka-drain kasi ng energy for me yung maraming maingay na kasama hehe. Mas feel ko kung 3 lang kami sa group ganyan.

Ayan, so ngayon certified loner talaga ako. I have a few friends pero di naman kami magkakasama palagi. Tamad pa akong sumali sa mga social events sa school noong college so wala talaga.

But hey, being a loner has its perks din naman. You learn to become independent. Minsan kasi kung -titingnan mo yung mga magkaka-barkada in public parang ang immature noong iba. Di mapag-decide kung saan gusto kumain, di maka-kilos ng walang tulong, etc. Kapag loner ka, wala kang aasahan kundi sarili mo so you have to learn how to stand up for yourself. So yeah, masaya na rin naman ako in a way.

So for other loners out there, cheer up!

pareho tayo sis.

[lilvanity]

@purpleice, pumpkin13 and fionaapple, pare-pareho pala tayo. I feel so alone right now pero no big deal na. malungkot pero I'll get over it. hindi rin kasi ako mahilig sa big crowd or big group of friends. hindi kaya mga introverts tayo? 

[insanelypurpleprincess]

I do since we're not at peace. LQ mode sucks!

[phurple0515]

i am a loner.  malungkot ngayon kasi medyo me iniisip lang tapos walang matakbuhan coz i am overseas.  pero, kakayanin ko to, been to worse