Getting Pregnant at a Young Age

[vanessas]

^ days delayed palang ako alam na niya. his reaction when we finally cofirmed that i am preggy, was steady? haha. as in wala lang, medyo nagulat siya pero he was expecting it naman daw. wow db. ako mega hagulgol na siya himas2 lang sa back at kakayanin daw namen.

[novembergirl]

Wow, i'm imagining that must be hard nga talga... what more... panu mo sasabihin sa parents mo?

[mald1ta]

ako weird yung way na nisabi ko sa hubby ko..

bigla ko pumunta sa kanila middle of the night, nakikipagbreak.. eheh sabi nya why, buntis ka noh.. sabi ko oo.. tas yun ayaw nya pumayag makipagbreak saken... lol

ako naman it was just a test kung papayag sya.. kasi nga both were not ready to have a child eh.. tas nung gabing yun naconfirm ko kung pano nya ko kamahal.. hehe

mas mahaba pa kwento kaso i don't wanna go into great detail about it na..

[theotherjeckay]

i got pregnant when i was 19. i was in 2nd year college. good thing  is that hindi kami catholic school. i was 5mos. preggy when my family learned about it. nag LOA ako ng isang term. 8mos preggy ako before ako mag-stop then went back to school after 3 mos. when my professors learned that i was preggy, pinagreport pa ako about teenage pregnancy, haha!


i got pregnant again when i was about to graduate. i gave birth a few days before i had to march. practicum ko nun and may subject ako na 730AM na laging absent ako pero mataas pa grade ko kasi pumapasok ako kapag exam, hehe!


i became a mom at a young age. and a single mom until now.

life was never easy and never will be...but i can proudly say i've survived it and still surviving single motherhood.

[boracay2862]

I gave birth at the age of 21. Di ko pa alam kung handa na me that time to be a mother. Pinapile me nang Mom ko tuloy ko at mag trabaho ako, or hinde ko ituloy at mag cocontinue me sa studies ko. Pinile kong ituloy kasi flesh and blood ko and I know na di ako pa babayaan nang Diyos sa desisyon ko. When I saw my baby ako na ang pinaka masayang tao sa balat nang lupa. For me she was heaven sent and God's will. I found a good job to survive kami nang baby ko, AND i NEVER REGRETTED MY DECISION HAVING HER IN THIS WORLD. Now she is engage and have a good job wow ha para ko na rin na achieved ang hinde ko na achieved. 

[mkasj_rn]

ang weird ng feeling mga sis but honestly excited na ko mag ka baby hahahaha.

[happie]

so the otherjeckay you got pregnant twice with the same dad?  

[theotherjeckay]

^sis, i got pregnant 3x by 2 dads.

[AmbersMom]

i was 23 when i got pregnant but finish nako mag school and by the time i got pregnant we were 3 months married na...

[lyn cheema]

dark_phoenix

4th year college na din kami nun, meron ko mga classmates na pumapasok pa din sa school kahit mga preggy na sila, as in kitang kita na yung tummy nila, hindi naman maiiwasan na pag-usapan ka ng mga co-students mo pag dumaan ka sa harap nila or makita ka nila..
Pero lam mo wala sila care, pasok lang sila, hindi nila pinapansin yung mga makakating dila,  mas iniisip nila yung future nila ni baby,hindi naman makakatulong yung mga tsismosa sa school para sa inyo ni baby.. hindi ka nila bibigyan ng pambili ng gatas pag jn c baby nyo at hindi ka nakatapos hindi makahanap ng work.

ngayon lam mo kung asan sila?  yung isa nasa prestigouse mobile company, yung isa marketing manager na...  malalaki na baby nila... o diba...? 
go kalang sa school kahit preggy ka.. mas isipin mo kayo ng baby mo...aja!!!

[lyn cheema]

hindi ko nagbabasa ng maayos..toink. , buti na lang false alarm, kaya kung active kaw sa sex maging wise ka...use condom,pills, or injectable..para hindi ka ma preggy..

[mdy]

I got pregnant when I was 19 and it was planned LOL. Really. After 2 years I went back to school. Graduating na sana ako next year but I got pregnant again last year (not planned heehee). Catholic school ako nag-aaral and they know that I'm married kaya okay lang sa kanila na pumapasok pa din ako. Tinapos ko lang yun 2nd sem kasi due ako ng July so next sem nalang ulit ako papasok.

I'm just lucky na supportive and responsible ang husband ko. Yun parents ko, sila pa din nagsshoulder ng schooling ko. Ako, i dont have any regrets whatsoever because I am so blessed and I'm happy 

[periwinkle617]

i graduated at the age of 19, got my first job by 20 and got pregnant by 21. funny lang yearly may nangyayari sakin na mahalaga. LOL. sana next year may bago na akong work since i decided to resigned when i learned that im pregnant. ang reason ko kasi mawalan na ako ng work wag lang anak. tapos pinipilt kami ipakasal eh sabi ko ayoko kasi di naman reason yun para ipakasal kami noh besides may plans kami after 5 yrs we will get married. eh 3yrs na kami so we still have 2yrs to prepare. eto pa twice na ako na deny sa US visa talagang ayaw ako paalisin. btw, my baby carries the name of his father.

[yinandyang]

being pregnant was one of the things na i was scared of durting my college years. actually when i reflected one time, itsa reason kung bakit virgin pa din ako. nagkataon din na may classmate ako nun na buntis at living in na. i realized that shew as lucky because her parents were well off kaya nama maintain nya yung bonggang lifestyle nya.

i have to admit my catholic university's marriage and planning subject was real deal breaker.

[happie]

^sis, i got pregnant 3x by 2 dads.

That must be something, to get pregnant with many kids at a young age.  You are a strong woman, definitely

[dark_phoenix]

yung childhood friend ko is pregnant again (2nd child same dad)...she's 20...got pregnant with her first child when she was 18....and yung mom nang guy tried to separate them....haayyyy....i'm happy (child is a blessing) at the same sad for her coz na delay na naman yung plan nya to go back to school and it's not easy to be a mom especially in such a young age....she said after giving birth sa second child she'll look for a job para meron siyang ibayad sa yaya nang mga anak niya...

[aquacharly]

I got married early, but held off getting pregnant until I was done with my education.
It was a full-knowledge/both-eyes-open  decision we went into, that we would marry, I would study and then he would go start a business for us.

Sex is enjoyable, sure, but like any sport that gives one an adrenaline rush --  one must protect one's self from accidents with the right and reliable equipment.
Birth control is a woman's responsibility, to protect herself. 
IMO, Abstinence is not a reliable b/c method. 
A firm "NO" at the proper time, is better, but also... not reliable in the sense that it underestimates the persuasive power of "the heat of the moment".   

So there, enjoy but do not put yourself in harm's way.
It is a woman's responsibility to take care of herself. 

Now, why did I marry when I could take care of myself and enjoy the sex without the gamble of a marriage?
Coz, I had this personal assessment of how far and how much sex I could indulge in outside the context of a marriage before I wake up feeling used or  less cherished, or unable to look at myself straight in the mirror.   A girl has to play her cards right.  And I say that in the context of taking care of one's self, and minding one's conscience.

[carmilina]

well,forme Imstill sad,i got pregnant by 24 but unfortunately,Miscarriage sya...

sadly hndi me sinusoporthan nun daddy ni summer ( I named my baby like that), [textspeak!] sa sad din yun baby ko kasi ndi sya mahal ng daddy nya,nun una ayawko talaga sa baby ko..

later on,,andami dami ko na pangarap for her..i assume kona nga girl sya ,na masarapdamitan etc.eh,.,,\
hays miss kon sya, sobrang stress din kasi ako nun pinagbubuntis kosya eh,,,[textspeak!] God's will na rin ..

my baby Summer Angeline will watch over me   =(

[dark_phoenix]

my other friend is pregnant and sadly she has plans to abort it. My other friend (kami lang two sinabihan niya about it) and I kept telling her not to. I really hope she wouldn't do it. =(

[vanessas]

my bestfriend aborted  her suppose to be first baby. i told her not to pero matigas talaga ulo at desidido talaga na hindi ituloy. that was 2 mos ago. so far ok naman siya no health problems, naabort na niya baby. hay grabe.

grabe ang lakas ng loob nilang pumatay. i thought of it many times while i was pregnant but i just cant do it. may takot ako sa Diyos at alam ko magiging ok padin ang lahat kahit may baby na ako.