Getting Pregnant at a Young Age

[hallerness]

Mga sistahs..Good news...I just had my mens last night.

@hallerness: Naku parang ako yata paranoid na din. I was thinking magkakaroon bah din ako next month?

Let's just continue sharing about the topic nalang.

wow! that's good to hear dear.. o di ba nakahinga ka na ng maluwag 

kaya ingat-ingat din.. ngayon nalampasan mo yan, so better be careful next time gurl..

[dark_phoenix]

Thanks sa mga replies niyo. Yup, I'll be more careful na..meaning abstinence!

Thanks din for sharing your experiences. Inspiring.

Share pa kayo.

[CHRiS†iNE21]

Anyone? Like you are still in college and you got pregnant..Did you still continue going to school while you are pregnant? How did you deal with it in general?   

ako sis got pregnant mag 2nd yr college (17y/o...lol) plang,stop ako for 1 yr., den aftr ko manganak nag aral ult ako kc ndyan nman un dad ng baby ko and my parents para mag alaga sa baby.

oo nga sis abstinence muna.haha

[mooncake and leaves]

not my experience but i had classmates in college who got pregnant. the first one, sayang, isang sem na lang, di pa niya natapos. but ang rule kasi ng USTe you have to be married ata to enroll and she didn't want to get married pa. UST is like, hey, not gonna have an unmarried pregnant woman in this campus. so ayun. the other one, she got married so ayun, pumapasok siya na malaki tiyan hehe. actually, parang lucky charm niya baby niya. she got really good grades despite the situation. saka grabe, ang stressful nung senior year- thesis, papers, readings, sleepless nights. so ang galing. natakot nga ako for her kasi iniisip ko baka maka-apekto sa baby.

so nung graduation, standing ovation talaga kami haha. we were cheering talaga for her because nakakatuwa naman talaga. seeing this girl prove that you can do and be many things all at once and that it's not the end of the world, getting pregnant at an early age.

overall, they both turned out ok. i'm sure it was very difficult but things have a funny way of working out in the end. ganun naman talaga eh. no matter how bad you think a situation is, it somehow gets resolved in its own way. don't worry too much. posibleng delayed ka din kasi you worry about it. ganyan ako dati eh. takot na takot kasi worry nang worry din. if you are indeed pregnant, congrats. if not, mag-ingat na lang from now on.

[GabBeaMariz]

i got pregnant when i was 19 turning 20, isang sem na lang di ko pa natapos, natapos ko 1st sem without the nuns na nakapansin  i studied in an exclusive/catholic school. I returned sa school mga  8 mos after kong manganak. the school accepted me kasi married naman kami sa church  buti na lang nakagraduate ako

[mrs.jack sparrow]

oh well matanda na ako when i had my panganay. 26 na. but i know peeps highschool pa lang nabuntis na. college pa lang nabuntis na. hindi lahat naging matino. some ended up sagutin pa din sila ng magulang nila. un pinsan ko nga e 24 or 25 yrs old na hindi man lang nakaranas magwork pa until now. may 5 yr old son na sya huh.

[hallerness]

huwel, this is what I am afraid of.. nangyari na.. hays.. my 23 year old sis is pregnant.. juskoh! hindi namin alam kung paano ipapaalam sa parents namin.. I'm so worried, my mom is undergoing depression pa naman ngayon.. hays talaga.. 

[dcccxxi]

ako na yata pinakabata . I was 16 when i got pregnant;D I finished hs pero di muna ko nagcollege. nung nag turn 1 yr old na yung baby ko saka ako ulit nag aral. 

[LOVEmyLIFE]

^^ What state of depression? Nag-uundergo ba ang mom mo for  psychotherapy? Or thru medication? Regarding your sister, Why not consult your mom's doctor about it. He/She will know better how/when you should tell your mom. The best way is to support your sister. Don't make her worry since hindi lang siya ang pwede maaffect, pati yun dinadala niya. I'm not advicing but just parting my experiences with you. You and your sister still have the options. I'll be praying for you both though!:)

[knohrhyn04]

my bestfriend nabuntis siya nung 19 years old siya,,kakagrad niya lang ng march, then april nagapply siya ng work sa bank, so may physical examination, nung nag-PT sya ayun sinabe nung nurse  na positive,,,wala siyang kamalay malay na buntis na pala siya and wala siyang idea,,, hindi siya natanggap sa bank na yun, nagwork siya ngyon sa ibang company pero medyo hirap siya...pero I know it will get better for her

[luvluv]

i am currently in college and i just gave birth a week ago. i plan naman to go back to school once i get all settled na, one year pa naman e.

i have nothing against those who got pregnant at an early age. ang against ako is yung hindi nila pagiging responsible for their children, yung pagpapabaya. pero kung ok naman sila, if naaalagaan naman nila mga anak nila at the same time nakakapag-aral, bow pa ako dun sa ganun.

[lastborngirl]

^ congrats! tama ka. dapat maging responsible parent ka no matter what age ka nagkaanak. ayoko din ng nagpapabaya sa bata. ginawa mo yan kaya dapat panindigan mo.

[mald1ta]

i couldn't agree more!

naaasar din ako sa mga ganung nanay lalo na yung iba na naaasar sa babies nila kasi iyak ng iyak sa gabi tas papagalitan pa na tipong "ano bah ayaw mo bah tumigil sa kakaiyak!? ibabato na kita jan eh!" grrrr.. alam naman nyang yun lang means of communication ng babies, ang umiyak pag mei needs... hmmp!

ganun kasi sis-in-law ko sa anak nya.. tas ayaw na ayaw nyang bantayan.. kesho hirap daw sya kasi malikot anak nya.. oh diba to think she was 30 na when she gave birth..

[LOVEmyLIFE]

^ Hahaha! Naloka ako sa sis-in-law mo. Sana hindi siya nagpabuntis if that way siya mag-isip. Well, wala naman bata ang hindi malikot e. It's part of their childhood. Kaya nga bata. Parang hindi naging bata ang sis-in-law mo ha! And of course, tama naman si luvluv na hindi excuse na ayaw or hindi mo alagaan ang anak mo kasi bata ka pa. Sabi nga ni lastborngirl, ginawa nila yun e. Panindigan nila.

[lyrahs]

may kakilala akong 13yo buntis, pangalawa na nya yun. Yung una nalaglag daw. Ewan ko sa batang yan, tambay kasi eh. Yung nanay naman nya at lola, proud pa sa lagay nya. Hay grabe

[vanessas]

^ oh my sa 13. hindi pa ko dinadatnan niyan ha. grabe.

hay i feel guilty sa papabayaan ang anak, though i really dont want to leave my child. pero i plan to work abroad kasi. 

[lastborngirl]

13?! aga naman nun. to think na nalaglag pa yung nauna.

^ sis i dont think pagpapabaya yung magwork ka abroad. wala ka nga lang sa tabi nya to guide your child but you will be away to secure your kids future di ba. siguro just make it a point na may communication pa din kayo ng bata.

[niru_iiv]

im 21 and i wanted to be a young mom (siyempre gusto ko married and all) kaso ngayon parang malabo kase single ako hehe [textspeak!] kaya gusto ko rin kasi mom ko married late na [ pinanganak niya ko at the age of 36 though kahit malaki age gap namin we're like best friends naman sobrang cool pa rin niya =) ]

but then only God knows when is the right time

[hallerness]

^^ What state of depression? Nag-uundergo ba ang mom mo for  psychotherapy? Or thru medication? Regarding your sister, Why not consult your mom's doctor about it. He/She will know better how/when you should tell your mom. The best way is to support your sister. Don't make her worry since hindi lang siya ang pwede maaffect, pati yun dinadala niya. I'm not advicing but just parting my experiences with you. You and your sister still have the options. I'll be praying for you both though!:)

uy thanks girl ha.. my mom is not yet undergoing psychotherapy, but she's under medication.. tama ka, kailangan ng sis ko ng support. when i first learned about it, napaiyak talaga ako. hays.. thanks for the prayers sis! 

[ebosh]

Question lang.. How did you say it to the father of the child? I mean how was the reaction?