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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #20 on: July 01, 2009, 03:52:00 pm »
oo nga sis korek ka jan!! kahit nga sa kamaganak minsan malalaman mo nalang na kasal na pala sila..kaya nagdadalawang isip din ako kasi di naman din ako naimbitahan nun...sayang naman [textspeak!] mga gusto ko pa invite..i mean [textspeak!] mas close sakin ngayon and lagi ko nakikita mas ok na imbitahan kesa yung mga ang tagal mo na hindi nakikita..
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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #21 on: July 01, 2009, 04:14:15 pm »
ako nga immediate and first degree family ko lang ang invite ko. sabi rin ng lola ko ok lang wag na yung family ng sisters nya kasi nga pamparami lang sa guests although close naman yung family namin sa kanila.  mahirap kasi talaga pag nag-invite ka ng isa, kailangan lahat na invite.
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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #22 on: July 01, 2009, 04:21:28 pm »
sis sinong pastor mag officiate ng kasal niyo?? from ccf din ba??
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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #23 on: July 01, 2009, 04:36:02 pm »
ninong ko na taga-victory  :)  btw, my dad is also a pastor pero syempre hindi pwede sya ang magkasal samin. LOL
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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #24 on: July 01, 2009, 04:42:28 pm »
wow pastor pala dad mo :) ako wala pang kilalang pastor na pwedng mag kasal sa amin kasi hindi ako nagpamember sa ccf. nag aattend lang ako every sunday dun. ano pala mga kailangan gawin/requirements? like yung tinatawag nilang discovery weekend nagaapply din ba sa christian wedding yun?

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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #25 on: July 01, 2009, 04:48:19 pm »
ninong ko na taga-victory  :)  btw, my dad is also a pastor pero syempre hindi pwede sya ang magkasal samin. LOL

hahaha..oo nga naman syempre,,dad mo na yun eh..mas ok na iba ang magkasal sa inyo..pero do you watch 7th heaven? hehe..yung dad nila ang nagkasal din sa hehe..la lang..

ako iniisip namin kung si pastor sarthou since friend siya ng mom ko..or maybe pastor from CCf alabang din..
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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #26 on: July 01, 2009, 04:51:57 pm »
wow pastor pala dad mo :) ako wala pang kilalang pastor na pwedng mag kasal sa amin kasi hindi ako nagpamember sa ccf. nag aattend lang ako every sunday dun. ano pala mga kailangan gawin/requirements? like yung tinatawag nilang discovery weekend nagaapply din ba sa christian wedding yun?

i'm not sure if there are christian churches here that requires the couple to go through a discovery weekend. as far as i know, counseling sessions lang with the officiating minister/pastor.

my dad officiated a lot of weddings na rin, yung iba pa nga hindi rin member ng church namin. he only requires the couple to have at least one counseling session with him. 

as for requirements, actually i've yet to ask him for a list pa  :D basta ang alam ko minimal lang compared to catholic weddings. birth certificate and marriage license lang alam ko but i'll ask him pa if there's more.
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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #27 on: July 01, 2009, 05:03:01 pm »
samin counseling sessions lang din.. ;)
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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #28 on: July 01, 2009, 05:11:49 pm »
yehey! nice to find this thread. christian wedding din kasi kami. it will be on Good Samaritan UMC in Quezon Ave.
ask ko lang po, allowed ba na kumuha ng principal sponsors na hindi Christians? kasi we have few sponsors na hindi eh though some one told me that its not an issue naman daw.

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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #29 on: July 01, 2009, 05:18:36 pm »
nope, it shouldn't be an issue. my h2b's tita is not yet a christian and we still had her as our ninang.  we also got some of our officemates as principal sponsors hindi rin sila christian. sakin mas ok nga yun kasi we're building relationships with them d ba?
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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #30 on: July 01, 2009, 05:40:13 pm »
aaah so mas less pala requirements natin kesa sa catholic weddings. kala ko kasi same eh. hehe

sis pa ask na lang sa dad mo kung ano pa mga requirements ha :) thanks!

sis batch, member ka sa Good samaritan? okay ba church dun? naghahanap kasi ako ng church eh. May church sa new manila sa loob ng school. mukhang okay din maliit lang pero nice sa loob :) yun nga lang hindi pa ako nagtanong kung pwede ako dun :)

sis cassiopela, ilan sessions ang counseling? :)

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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #31 on: July 01, 2009, 05:44:23 pm »
ok lang sis kahit hindi sila christians malay mo,,sa pag invite mo sa kanila and sa pag witness nila sa union niyo maging way yun for them na to get to know and have deeper relationship with God..it shouldn't be an issue though pag mga ninangs and ninongs kasi sila ang tumatayong pangalawang magulang natin kaya dapat ma set nila yung examples of christlike attitude..pero since hindi pa sila christians i think its ok ,..ikaw nalang din mag invite din sa kanila..in this way you also serve them and bring them closer to God..that's what God  wants naman talaga..to make disciples of all nation..

@bitt3rswit: usually it takes 8 sessions lalo na kung group kayo..maraming couples..pero samin kasi since couple on couple kami yung nagcocounsel samin magasawa din tapos kami lang din dalawa ni hubby ang couple na counsel nila..6 sessions kami..
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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #32 on: July 01, 2009, 06:00:14 pm »
aaaah okay thanks! sis kailangan ba magasawa ang ninong and ninang? my ninang kasi is single pa din. gusto ko sana siya din ang ninang namin sa wedding.

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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #33 on: July 01, 2009, 06:18:31 pm »
ok lang kahit hindi mag-asawa. kami rin may mga ninong and ninang na single, yung iba naman hindi kasi namin kaclose yung asawa nila. walang naman prob dun.
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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #34 on: July 01, 2009, 06:22:56 pm »
yup ok lang sis,,imo lang ha,,mas ok kunin yung mga ka-close mo and kilala ka or yung magiging asawa mo kesa yung kukunin na ninong or ninang dahil may kaya o mapera..pero hindi naman kilala..like ex. kunin na ninong yung mayor..etc..

i mean..diba ??mas ok yung kilala tayo personally para naman may connenction and special din yung day na yun..
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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #35 on: July 01, 2009, 06:32:09 pm »
pwede pala single. kasi may nakapagsabi sa akin before na hindi daw pwede single ang ninong or ninang kasi wala daw sila sa position na magadvice sa inyo kasi sila mismo wala asawa or family.

tama kayo dapat yung kaclose kasi pag hindi parang nakakailang din baka isipin nila na kaya sila kinuha kasi mayaman :D hehe

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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #36 on: July 01, 2009, 06:38:57 pm »
kung single siya at tingin mo naman eh she's matured enough to handle situations and give advice not only for problems niyo as a couple but also as mother narin sa inyo dalawa..ok din yun siguro..although may point yung nagsabi sayo na wala nga sila sa position dahil hindi pa sila kinasal..pero kung ang thinking mo naman sis eh kung sa pagbibigay niya ng support and understanding on both party (wife and husband) i think ok lang yun..it all depends on you na rin sis...pag guide niya sa inyo sa iba pang aspects of life na pinagdadaanan ng mga magasawa pwede naman niya ibigay din yun kahit hindi pa siya kinasal..
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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #37 on: July 01, 2009, 09:44:55 pm »
i agree.  and there are certain persons kasi na very close sa couple.  although hindi man sila makapag-advise about marriage because they're still single, they can give sound advise about other matters like careers, money problems, spiritual growth etc. they will be our second parents so it's good to get those who are mature in other aspects as well.
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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #38 on: July 01, 2009, 11:48:42 pm »
aaah so mas less pala requirements natin kesa sa catholic weddings. kala ko kasi same eh. hehe

sis pa ask na lang sa dad mo kung ano pa mga requirements ha :) thanks!

sis i just confirmed it with my dad, marriage license lang raw ang requirement. to get a marriage license sa city hall, we'll need a birth certificate and then they'll schedule a family planning counselling session. the marriage license is valid for only 120 days so you don't have to get it until 4 months before the wedding.

other than that, wala ng ibang documents na required.
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Re: Christian Weddings
« Reply #39 on: July 02, 2009, 01:57:48 pm »
thanks sis! :)

 


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