praying for your partner in life

[carmilina]

^ako hmm...dapat kusang dumating , pagod na maghanap..im soo tired...for always giving love to someone....

--agree ako syo sis bubblin, friends forever!

[kikayako]

pagod na maghanap..im soo tired...

Ako rin. I'm so tired. I'm tired of waiting...and praying as well...

Ika-29th Valentine's Day ko ng single. (I'm 30) I started feeling lonely. Then the other day, I rcvd a forwarded msg from a friend that says something like "2 realities in life: the patience to wait for something & the acceptance of realizing that you've waited for nothing" (or something to that effect). I was deeply affected by this msg. It dampened my spirit.

What did I do to be unworthy of being loved by someone??? I've been single almost my entire life. I don't want to grow old alone. I want to feel loved. My family has showered me with the love the I need but I still feel empty. I'm really getting tired of praying, of believing that He will grant my prayers, of thinking positive...

[feisty_angel4]

Don't be disheartened Sisses, I married at 30. Most of my friends are 35 and not even married yet, but when they involved with organizations that was where they met their partners, but in my case it was different because I had been in the relationship for 6 years before we tied the knot.
My point: Enjoy life, travel and meet new friends. Who knows, it might be one of them. ^^

[hearty_flakes]

just pray, in God's time he will give the one to US mga sis!!!

[feisty_angel4]

Agree... just have faith. A strong one at that. ^^

[princessrio]

my fiance and I were in a relationship for 11 years, going 12 this year. nakakaloka lang kasi from the very beginning of our relationship, sinabi ko na sa sarili ko na he is the one. naku! ke tagal namang nagpropose! nakakainip but i kept on praying and praying..and last year, he proposed. nakakainip but worth it.

pray lang mga sisters. and keep your eyes wide open

[gorgeous_gj]

Ako rin. I'm so tired. I'm tired of waiting...and praying as well...

Ika-29th Valentine's Day ko ng single. (I'm 30) I started feeling lonely. Then the other day, I rcvd a forwarded msg from a friend that says something like "2 realities in life: the patience to wait for something & the acceptance of realizing that you've waited for nothing" (or something to that effect). I was deeply affected by this msg. It dampened my spirit.

What did I do to be unworthy of being loved by someone??? I've been single almost my entire life. I don't want to grow old alone. I want to feel loved. My family has showered me with the love the I need but I still feel empty. I'm really getting tired of praying, of believing that He will grant my prayers, of thinking positive...

Sis you are worth loving, waiting and praying for! wag na wag mong iisipin  na hindi, ok?

pray for a vision from our Father sis.. vision na you can hold on to para sa mga moments na sad ka or nafifeel mo na wala ng pagasa.. that vision kasi is a vision of HIS plans for you diba.. to motivate you that what you are doing now is in preparation for the married life..

ako i'm praying for the ff traits sa magiging h2b ko:
1. God fearing
2. a complete person
3. good leader  --> matigas kasi ulo ko and mejo disobedient so gusto ko yung taong kaya akong ilead lalo na sya yung magiging head ng family diba?
4. loves kids
5. believes in marriage and the sanctity of it and that it is a commitment at hindi phase lang sa buhay ng tao  --> galing na ako sa broken family kasi naniniwala sila na papel lang yung kasal so hindi nila winork out ng mabuti and they were both not ready when they got married.

meron pa akong nakakatawang natutunan lately na true naman--> when you pray for patience daw.. itetest ka ni God para malaman mo na binigay na nya sa'yo yung patience na hinihingi mo.. kaya ako now.. lage ko na lang pinagppray na maging prepared na ako and that vision din para i can hold on to that pero hindi na patience takot akong itest hahaha=))

[kikayako]

Sis you are worth loving, waiting and praying for! wag na wag mong iisipin  na hindi, ok?

pray for a vision from our Father sis.. vision na you can hold on to para sa mga moments na sad ka or nafifeel mo na wala ng pagasa.. that vision kasi is a vision of HIS plans for you diba.. to motivate you that what you are doing now is in preparation for the married life..

ako i'm praying for the ff traits sa magiging h2b ko:
1. God fearing
2. a complete person
3. good leader  --> matigas kasi ulo ko and mejo disobedient so gusto ko yung taong kaya akong ilead lalo na sya yung magiging head ng family diba?
4. loves kids
5. believes in marriage and the sanctity of it and that it is a commitment at hindi phase lang sa buhay ng tao  --> galing na ako sa broken family kasi naniniwala sila na papel lang yung kasal so hindi nila winork out ng mabuti and they were both not ready when they got married.

meron pa akong nakakatawang natutunan lately na true naman--> when you pray for patience daw.. itetest ka ni God para malaman mo na binigay na nya sa'yo yung patience na hinihingi mo.. kaya ako now.. lage ko na lang pinagppray na maging prepared na ako and that vision din para i can hold on to that pero hindi na patience takot akong itest LOL=))

Wow naman, sis. Sobrang gumaan ang loob ko sa post mo (at sa mga posts ng sisses natin). It made my day. Dapat pala pagdasal ko na mabigyan ako ng PATIENCE. Palagi ko kasing pinagdadasal yung THE ONE pero hindi ko man lang mapagdasal na bigyan ako ng patience habang hinihintay ang THE ONE. Thank you, sis gorgeous_gj, for your advice. Thank you rin, mga sisses!

[gorgeous_gj]

^ welcome sis:) basta kapag dumating na yung sa'yo sis share the story ha!:)

[kikayako]

^Sure, sis! In the meantime, let's continue praying. I-print ko yung msg mo para ma-remind ako lagi na 'wag mawalan ng pag-asa tuwing malulungkot ako.

[douxmadchen]

awwe, ang ganda ng thread na 'to mga sis. ako rin. i think i have waited for quite some time. i wish dumating din sya. though, di ko naman sobrang minamadali pa. naniniwala ako na ginagawa muna syang perfect ni God para din sa kapakanan ko. sabi nga nila, "In God's perfect time" 

[gorgeous_gj]

Mga sis i'm reading this book, When God writes your love story, grabe it is soooooo encouraging:) mas nagkakapatience ako to wait! I'll share points later on, aayusin ko muna and magnonotes ako

[orange rose]

'm 32 and NBSB.  i'm praying for a life partner sporadically.  nung mas bata ako mas fervent ang prayer ko na sana magka-lovelife na rin ako.  now parang i already give up on that.  hindi na ako makaramdam ng kilig or kahit spark sa mga new "guys" na nami-meet ko.  eto na yata ang sign na i'll be a matandang dalaga just like my aunties.  so my prayers now are for acceptance of my vocation of single blessedness. naisip ko kasi baka hindi para sakin ang pag-aasawa.   

[princessette]

'm 32 and NBSB.  i'm praying for a life partner sporadically.  nung mas bata ako mas fervent ang prayer ko na sana magka-lovelife na rin ako.  now parang i already give up on that.  hindi na ako makaramdam ng kilig or kahit spark sa mga new "guys" na nami-meet ko.  eto na yata ang sign na i'll be a matandang dalaga just like my aunties.  so my prayers now are for acceptance of my vocation of single blessedness. naisip ko kasi baka hindi para sakin ang pag-aasawa.

Hi ate orange rose, I understand what you are going through, I'm turning 29 this year and same as you NBSB din.  Honestly my friends or my family doesnt get me everytime I told them I'm looking forward to my 30th birthday, because I know for a fact na by that time at NBSB pa rin ako they will then accept na i'll be single for life.  I'm being reminded daily by my co-workers and room mates of my being NBSB na para bang its a single being virgin and all that crap not being experienced yet.   Before I would only endure that pressure of being committed to someone pag umuuwi ako sa family ko but now pati sa work pressured din.  I really wish they will start to understand that hindi naman kakulangan kung NBSB pa rin ako hanggang ngayon at hindi rin naman yung dahilan para gawin ko ng miserable ang buhay ko.  That is what I prayed for that the people who surrounds me should find there in their hearts to be happy for me right now and need not to be worried about me getting old and alone because I know for a fact I am not alone or who knows I may turn up along but I don't think I will be lonely  because being alone doesn't mean you are lonely too.

[hearty_flakes]

Mga sis i'm reading this book, When God writes your love story, grabe it is soooooo encouraging:) mas nagkakapatience ako to wait! I'll share points later on, aayusin ko muna and magnonotes ako

i finished reading this book 2 years ago... yes, very encouraging and inspiring... it enlighten you that you are worth it, that God will give you who is best for you, not just second best..

[hearty_flakes]

'm 32 and NBSB.  i'm praying for a life partner sporadically.  nung mas bata ako mas fervent ang prayer ko na sana magka-lovelife na rin ako.  now parang i already give up on that.  hindi na ako makaramdam ng kilig or kahit spark sa mga new "guys" na nami-meet ko.  eto na yata ang sign na i'll be a matandang dalaga just like my aunties.  so my prayers now are for acceptance of my vocation of single blessedness. naisip ko kasi baka hindi para sakin ang pag-aasawa.

talaga sis, maybe God has plans for you but not now... i hope you will find the reason for it, your purpose in life...

[blackgreen]

ako rin. siguro im destined din to be single forever

[patrizziamarie]

such inspiring stories..

[pret_ty68]

Confessions of an impatient bride by rissa singson-kepweng is also a nice read for singles. 

[basya]

Ako nga, I'm already 29 years old & I never had a boyfriend. Although I go on dates parati, but it never always worked out. & I got frustrate for awhile....until last Nov. I was abt. to take a break muna from dating (since I was getting frustrated na) when I met my 1ST boyfriend. Gosh it was such a HUGE MIRACLE for me kasi I never thought that it would happen...just before 2010 ended. I was so happy talaga.

Although we are no longer together (because of the long-distance thing. it's not for us ), my point is that....DON'T LOSE HOPE. We just keep on praying to God for the right partner. Although I waited for a really long time for this to happen, nangyari siya. Yung nga lang, it didn't worked out talaga (but we are on good terms when we broke up).  & kahit ganoon, I'm still HOPEFUL pa rin that love will come back someday....at the right time  & I'm OPTIMISTIC abt. that.

Let God TAKE CARE of our love life & you'll surprise na lang 1 day that the right guy will suddenly knock to your heart. HAVE FAITH lang