Girl to Girl Relationships

[odessa17]

@dell:if i were you wag ka na lang mag post dito kasi hindi mo naman thing to... madami pa naman thread na pwede ka magpost so exclude mo na lang to...kung wala ka man din lang masasabing  matino...

diba mga sis!!!

[emo_diztrez]

the mods deLeted his posts na mga sis...

[ilove4th]

the mods deLeted his posts na mga sis...

Serves him right! LOL!

[odessa17]

LOL!!!

[mae23]

elow im 23mae..meron akong babaeng kaibigan na parang naiinlove na ako sa kanya kasi ang trato niya sakin prang kakaiba unlike sa iba naming barkada..since 2nd yr college crush ko na siya pero di ko tinuloy..kya hanggang nitong huli..lagi kmi ang magkakasama kya bumalik yung feeling ko..to the point our friends would say na pra kming mag boyfriend..sweet, mabait, caring, understanding, thoughtful and everything ganun siya sakin pero sa iba nming friends hindi..kya nagdududa ako..may feeling din kaya siya gaya ng sakin?o pareho [textspeak!] kmi nang nararamdaman at di lang masabi dhil s magkaibigan kami..

help me!!!

[MADAPACKER]

^ hi mae. you can try by asking her. but be prepared with any answer from her. swerte mo if she'll tell you that she feels the same way. malas mo kung di pala.  gasgas question though, willing ka ba na i-risk ang friendship nyo? good luck!

[mae23]

thank you madapacker....i can't risk my friendship to her..so hahayaan ko nalang tong feeling ko na 'to for her..at hihintayin na siya ang magsabi sakin...pero im happy na ganito ang feeling ko, mas masaya pala..pero gusto ko rin sabihin pero natatakot ako baka iwasan niya ako o pagtawanan.at malaman pa ng barkada namin ayoko magbago ang tingin nila sakin...hahahai

[mae23]

i still have question..sa mga bi/lesbian, how will you show to that girl na like niyo siya?naguguluhan na kasi ako...i dont know if she likes me or not?

[rychel07]

^^ agree ako sis. you have to ask her, para malaman mo na din and di ka na mahirapan pang magisip about it. goodluck sis!

[mae23]

@reychl07 and fabems, thanks sis for your advice..i'll definitely follow your suggestion and nothing to do but to take the rest.. if i really wanted to know her answer...

[cheaca]

Sis, mae23, sabihin mo lang sa kanya na dati crush mo siya in a very casual way para walang malice. For sure, mag re-react siya non. I did that once pero parang walang reaction yung sinabihan ko non. Kaya friends pa din kami until now. Pero na feel ko din dati or akala ko na like niya din ako. hehe

[lavariel]

I'm your typical girl next door and marami nagsasabi saken na hindi nila akalain na lesbian ako. I only go for butches though kasi I find a combination of boyish and girlish attributes very attractive and sexy. I've had seven relationships with a girl so far and I'm 20. My current gf and me are four months already.

Nagkakacrush pa rin naman ako sa guys or find them attractive but relationship and sex-wise, I'd never go for guys. I'm just not turned on as much as girls.

[mae23]

@cheaca and fabems:

thanks mga sis i will definitely follow your advices...ano ba ang ibig sabihin kung iimbitahan ka niya to sleep sa kanila..hindi naman siya ganun sa iba..tapos ako lang inimbitahan niya para pumunta sa province niya with her family..ano kaya ang ibig sabihin nito?tapos kung makatawag siya sakin parang ayaw niyang bitawan ang phone cause gusto pa niya kami mag.usap...if i talk to boys she always change our topic..minsan tahimik siya sa phone kasi gusto niya marinig boses ko...if this always happen kinikilig talaga ako..

ang saya talaga ng ganitong feeling...

[marge070407]

Right now, I'm in a relationship with a girl for almost a year. Some people i know have problems with it. Ako, kiber lang. I've had bfs and this is actually my first time with the same sex. I already knew and aware I was bisexual back when i was 10. Ngayon ko lang talaga sinubukan because i never had the courage to be with a girl. Now, i'm out in the open. So far, i'm happy and enjoying it.  And sexually, I'm more than satisfied.

Kayo mga sis, anong view nyo sa mga bisexuals at lesbians? Would you fall inlove with the same sex? Any experiences related to this? share share. 

-It depends kung happy ako why not. Basta wala akong nasasaktan na ibang tao

[zerotransfat]

long time no post, but hey i need help! mahaba 'to i'm sorry :/


8 months na kami ni gf and now nagsstart na ang mga problema. both of us graduated sa all girls school so open talaga kami. and since sa all girls nga ako nung highschool, somehow ramdam na rin dito sa bahay kung anong preference ko but i'm not that all out talaga, and also im not giving anything na maghihinala sila mommy na may kaon ako or what... so minsan kikay pa rin ako dito, hahaha.


anyway, coed na ako this college tapos si gf kung saan ako naghighschool dun siya nagccollege now so get madami din akong kilala dun... small world kumbaga ang mga nangyayari with the circle of friends.

ETO NGAYON ANG PROBLEMA. since coed na ako, it's awkward na aminin kong may gf ako so tinatago ko talaga... ngayon nagkabukingan na... :/ nagaaway kami ngayon ni gf kung anong gagawin. ang pinopoint out niya sa akin pagod na pagod na daw siyang tinatago ko siya... okay i get her pero hindi ko naman siya kinakahiya e.. ewan ko ba! kaya i need advices :/ THANKS BIG HELP TALAGA!

[mae23]

@zerotransfat: mahirap yung sitwasyon mo. coz you have to choose if it's either her(gf) or to your family...since coed ka its not acceptable [textspeak!] coz dpt [textspeak!] impression ng iba dpt [textspeak!] morality ng mga teacher ay maganda...alam mo [textspeak!] [textspeak!] s phils. conservative, kung di ko iisipin ang iba sa2bihin ko..pro tinitignan ko rin kc [textspeak!] possibility n mangyari kung sa2bihin ko..dpt mag.usap kayong dalawa at dapat magkasundo kayo sa mga plano niyo...mahirap [textspeak!] ang patagong.tagong relationship..kung ready kna sa consequences n mangya2ri go girl...

[mae23]

 sakin naman...yung mga advices ng iba di ko sinunod mas inuna ko sabihin sa mga friends ko kaysa dun sa girl actually i dont know if girl ba siya o boy..or bi..and they were shock about knowing na gusto ko yung kaibigan namin..they advice me na wag ko daw pagpatuloy tong kalokohan ko..i was upset to hear there reaction. kung ako lang masusunod di ko sila pakikinggan at medyo natatakot din akong sabihin...lol

ayon medyo nagsisisi ako na sinabi ko sa kanila kasi i feel awkward everytime we go out or hang out they always stare at me..parang nagdududa na baka may feelings pa ako dun sa girl...hahahi..what a complicated...ito naman kasi si girl bakit di pa sabihin sakin kung gusto niya dun ako ee obvious naman siya..even our friends would tell na parang yung care niya sakin iba kaysa sa kanila...

i dont know if i need advice but i would be happy to see if you reply girls...

[boojiboo18]

^i think the best thing you can do is ask lang or maybe magkwento ka.. like "alam mo yung dating classmate ko nagkacrush sa girl din.." then tingnan mo reaction nya.. malalaman no naman kung parang irritable sya or hindi.. pati kung curious o hindi.. My gf and I were bestfriends for years and we found out that we were in love.. it was my 1st year in college nun nagkita ulit kami.. nagka-gap kasi before kami mgcollege.. straight pa siya nun, then suddenly nagkita ulit.. text2 every minute.. susunduin ko sya sa school, tapos sya dadaan sa school ko.. it was fun.. tapos naisip ko bakit gnun, parang ang weird naman na gnun yung set-up namin.. at first, di ko inentertain feelings ko for her.. pero sympre bothered ako na baka love na nga ito.. at dahil medyo naguguluhan na ako.. sinabi ko.. "may kasalanan yata ako sayo.. parang love na love na love na kita.." ayun.. at umamin din naman sya.. at yun.. mag4 years na kami
i think follow your instincts na lang.. and pag unsure ka, go lang. take the risk.. at least gumwa ka ng way..

--ang haba nitong post ko.haha

[emo_diztrez]

@zerotransfat, yan taLaga common problem ng mga nasa g2g relationship if hindi pa sila out in the open... i know someone na napagod na sa kakatago ng relationship and she broke up immediately sa ka'on nya na les the moment she found another les na kaya sya ipakiLaLa sa Lahat... sad but true...

IMHO, it's no big deaL, (weLL ok para sa iba it's big deaL)... if you reaLLy want to keep the reLationship then you have to wait for the right time kung keLan kayo dapat maging out in the open.. you dont have to rush, dapat paghandaan nyo Lahat ng consequences...

Let's say ok napapagod na sya, so A.) nag'out kayo... what if -- just what if -- negative yung kinaLabasan?.. hindi kayo natanggap ng famiLy nyo, kaya nyo na ba on your own?... magiging masaya ba kayo?... or B.) napagod sya, nakipag'break sya... magiging masaya din ba kayo?...

try expLaining this things to her... hope everything wiLL be aLright with the two of you...

[xilac]

hehe naloka [textspeak!] ako dun.. hhmm.. ma try nga haha joke,,