do you read your hubby's text messages?

[sarsingkit]

^in relation to protecting the national security ba yung work ng asawa mo or staff sya ng upcoming blockbuster hollywood movie? sorry, i just do not buy the confidential thingy.   

[xadie28]

once in a while i read his text messages

[miss ira]

I do read his sms once in a while then since hindi siya palagamit ng cp pag andito sa bahay. Then I checked the statement kapag malapit na due ng bills. Kapag may unfamiliar number akong nakikita I see to it kung ilang beses tinext.

[bucketsale]

yes. mahirap na malusutan.... jan usually nahuhuli ang mga tinatago eh

[hedonista]

yes.

[abbina]

Nung di pa kami kasal, nahuli ko sa phone niya na may text ng ibang babae. Sobrang nagaway kami nun, considering na ikakasal na kami that time in 2 weeks at buntis pa ako. Nagpromise naman siya na walang iba and I believed haha

Now that we're married na, minsan I have this desire na icheck phone niya kaso natatakot ako sa pwede ko makita and mabasa. So deadma na lang. Sabi ko nga sa kaniya, if feel niya magcheat, e konsensya na lang niya yun. Mukang good boy naman ... sana hehe

[tsutsat]

man lang. Messages na galing sa kin din lang naman usually nababasa ko so I dont open his phone kung hindi lang nagriring or may message na hnihintay sya and he cant attent to his phone agad.

[stylishmomy]

I do nothing wrong naman, as I also got no problem if he reads mine.

[mishyewarians]

yes, but that was before..nagsawa na ko, kaya wala na kong pakialam now..pag may nag text and kaharap nya ako, he reads it loud..

[palamig]

oo dati hinahayaan nya ko basahin ngayon nakupo maryosep marimar,, todo tago..at naka silent dati talagang dinig dinig pag may nagtext ngayon naku talaga naman oo kaka hi blood.

why nya tatago kung wala sya ginagawa masama?

[JazzJewel]

Yes po, normal sa amin..cp ko ay cp nya, cp nya ay cp ko...so wala pong kaso

[enitsirhc]

I get to read his messages and view anything and everything in his cellphones without any qualms or objections. He would even ask me to read an sms or reply to it or answer his phone for him.

After all, sabi nga ng husband ko, wala naman dapat itago in a marriage.

 

[JazzJewel]

Truelalo sis

[gridiron babe]

nope, unless he asks me to. wag lang niya ako bigyan ng dahilan to be suspicious, or baka magkaroon ng surprised tactical inspection siya!

[sonia62]

no

[weweng20]

NO !

[katrinac]

Yes i do; but only if he asks me to pero sabi nya sakin, okay lang daw basahin ko cp nya, pinapahiram pa nga nya sakin, pero ako nalang ang may ayaw.

[JDC168]

Very informative pala magbasa ng mga ganitong sites. 

At least now, alam ko na na hindi lang husbands/guys ang nag-spy sa phones ng misis, the other way around din pala.

As for me sa perspective ko as a husband, the reason I tend to check on my wife's phone is because of "kutob."  I feel something's fishy I just have yet to find solid evidence.  Saka lagi syang nagde-delete ng inbox/sentbox and reason nya mabilis mapuno dahil wala kasi sya memory card sa phone. 

[enitsirhc]

^bilhan mo ng memory card. 

if burado pa din yung mga messages... 

[JDC168]

^

Saka dati hindi sya nagsa-silent ng phone sa gabi, ngayon nagsa-silent na sya.  Sabi nya kasi para wala na istorbo sa pagtulog na mga texts galing sa work.  Kasi sa line of work nya kahit 1am may texts minsan.  Kaya lang I find it weird na dati hindi naman nya gawi mag-silent pero now silent sya lagi sa gabi.  Pag tulog sya binabasa ko laman phone nya wala pa naman akong nahuhuli so far.  Problem ko yung gut feel ko o yung kutob ko tells me may ginagawa sya.  I've relied heavily on my instincts ever since and most of the time kasi tama ang instincts ko eh.  Saka may development pa sa situation namin only yesterday na parang lalong nagva-validate ng kutob ko.  I posted it in the thread "On Cheating Wives"