Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?

[Pretty_ava]

too early to answer the question.  we are married for almost a year pa lang, young couple din kame,  pag nag aaway kame, naiisip ko na sana hindi na lang sya,  epro pag nawala na ang galit ko, grabe, i have so much to be thankful na sya ang asawa ko, kahit maaga kame nag asawa, kumbaga, hindi nya na enjoy yung sweldo nya na s kanya lang, kase nag asawa kame eh di pa sya grad nun,so now na my work na sya, lahat ng sweldo nya saken or samen ni baby napupunta.  kahit nagbago figure ko, i'm still the sexiest and hottest girl for him.  he brings the best in me, I became a better person because of him and dahil na rin sa baby namen.  sya din naman eh, sinasabi nya saken na love na love nya ang life nya now.  too early to tell pero as of now, i never regret that I marry my berto.

[proudmama]

9 years na kami ni hubby sa april and i can say na nope i don't regret marrying him. i can't imagine marrying someone other than him. we've been through a lot. yun tipong gusto ko na siya isoli sa nanay niya pero di naman dumating sa point na sana di ko na lang siya pinakasalan.  wala naman perfect na pagsasama pero  he has proven his loyalty to me and he is a responsible father and husband.

[aquacharly]

Before July 2006,  I regretted marrying my husband. 

Financially, we were more than okay, but life was not good.  Mahabang kwento.  But if you are curious, or want a glimpse of how bad life can get --  go read the posts in the Support Group for Abused Women... something like that ...

Given all those years,  dyan ko napatunayan talaga na money isn't going to make you happy -- BUT not having enough will also make you unhappy.

Now, we are more than we have been okay/happier than ever.
But there are still times I regret -- coz I could have been so much more; I could have achieved so much more.  But then,  life lived in regret is stupid.  So I snap out of it en punto.

God bless.

[madhel]

i never came to a point na i regret for marrying him
siguro its more on the regretting na sana di na lang kami nagpakasal
i liked him more when we were not married pa
maraming nagbago, i myself siguro ive changed a lot din
what i miss was the old times we have

[kaiz]

Before July 2006,  I regretted marrying my husband. 

Financially, we were more than okay, but life was not good.  Mahabang kwento.  But if you are curious, or want a glimpse of how bad life can get --  go read the posts in the Support Group for Abused Women... something like that ...

Given all those years,  dyan ko napatunayan talaga na money isn't going to make you happy -- BUT not having enough will also make you unhappy.

Now, we are more than we have been okay/happier than ever.
But there are still times I regret -- coz I could have been so much more; I could have achieved so much more.  But then,  life lived in regret is stupid.  So I snap out of it en punto.

God bless.

good for you sis. hopeully malampasin ko din to.. i mean namin pala

[crybaby05]

di pa kami kasal ni bf, preggy ako before he left for taiwan..
pero pagbalik nya magpapakasal kami.. sometimes napapaisip ako 

[xiayou79]

yes kung minsan....bakit pa ako nag-pakasal sana hindi na lang muna...or sana kung maibabalik ko pa yun nakaraan sana yun other guy na lang ang pinili ko baka mas masaya ako....

[shelski]

never. he's such a blessing. although we've been through a lot nung mag-bf pa lang, bawing-bawi now na married na kami. he's so supportive when i was pregnant and really took care of me and our baby.. he's always there for me.. he's my half

[jyrrel]

oh yeah... sobrang regret talaga... hahaha...

after lang siguro a couple of months after marrying him, nagsisi na talaga ako.  i was not sure when i married him and my friends were telling me not to pursue with the wedding kasi i was telling them na hindi nga ako sure.  i married for wrong reasons.  nakakalungkot lang pero yun ang totoo.  i married him kasi i want to get out of our house kasi feeling ko at that time na pinagkakaisahan nila ako sa bahay. i was only 23 then...

the problem is, he doesn't work and from the beginning, suportado na kami ng mommy ko, as in mommy ko ang nagbibigay ng allowance sa amin. we're both unemployed for more than a year.  and then nung magkababy kami, binigyan ako ng mommy ko ng puhunan to start a business.  so nagbusiness ako.  si husband naman, inihanap ng mommy ko ng work sa company ng friend nya so nagwork sya dun for a couple of months pero nagresign din kasi mahirap daw. yung business ko naman, nag-prosper and medyo lumaki na sya and lahat ng gastos namin eh dun na kinukuha kasi nag-stop na rin ang mommy ko sa allowance.

to make the long story short, he was never a good provider and ako pa yung gumagastos lahat-lahat sa amin.  name it: food, his clothes, kids stuff, tuition fees, mga katulong, lahat ng bills, kids baon... everything....

tapos ang yabang-yabang pa niya lagi and bossing pa dun sa business namin na pinaghirapan kong palakihin.  alam nyo yun? yung wala ka naman ni singkong duling na nai-share pero mas mayabang ka pa? hay naku talaga naman...

kayo ba hindi magsisisi kung ganito ang situation nyo? grabe talaga mga sis...

[xiayou79]

^slight similar tayo sis....after 1 month nagsisi na ako...umuiiyak ako every night...kasi, wala siya plan na bumukod kami....till now naka-stay pa rin kami sa parents niya, no plans to have a baby (takot ata sa responsibilities), then wala siya iba gusto kung di mag internet after his work....forum to the max....imagine nauuna pa ako matulog sa kanya...at nauuna pa ako magising...the differences lang natin dalawa, sila yun may family business and ako naman kaka-alis ko lang from my work. sad to say, nagsisi rin ako why i avail the redundancy. sana hindi na lang kung alam ko lang din naman na hindi pa pala kami bubukod. her mom gave us an apartment pero, naku parang ayaw pa niya ibigay kasi additional income daw niya yun. hay, how i wish i could back the time. madami rin kasi friends ko and sort of co-officemate na huwag na muna ako mag-pakasal baka kasi umiyak lang ako....and now its happening already. tama sila, di ako magiging masaya sa buhay ko right now.

pero, as per my mom advise it's part of marriage life....pero, till when ako magtitiis sa paging immatured niya. minsan parang i want to believe na late ang pagiging matured ng mga guys.....

[witch]

minsan. lalo na pag sinasabihan nya akong bobo. nasasabi ko sa sarili ko na sana hindi ko ipinilit dati. akala ko kasi dati it's all about my love for him. akala ko kasi kaya kong tiisin lahat ng dadating na problema at imperfections nya dahil mahal ko sya. akala ko kasi dati mahal niya ako ng sobra gaya ng sinasabi nya.

[JINJIN:*]

My relationship with my husband is down the drain. He is my biggest disappointment pero hindi ko naman masasabi na I regret marrying him. Im still holding on and thingking there are still something left for us in the relationship. I just hate my husband so much, kahapon ka chat ko siya and nakapag mura ako sa chat sa sorbang galit ko sa kanya. Pero kahit nagkaganito kami, I never regret, yun naman ang motto ko, don’t regret anything just smile and be thankful because things happens for a reason. Isa pa if things don’t really work out, pwede naman kaming maghiwalay eh, alang makakapigil saken. I love myself more than anyone and I don’t like people who only hurts me and who is not contributing to my  well being.

[miss resilient]

just my pov..

parang wala ka namang paninindigan pag sinabi mo ito.

siguro pag masama lang ang loob mo sa kanya....o r pag nag aaway kayo.

[mrslovebunny]

No, I have no regrets marrying my husband... we got married too when I was 23 and people keep on saying i'm still young and all but it felt right that time. It was a year of wedding prep... nag ka-cancer pa sya nun. Buti he is ok now.


I am not saying our marriage life is perfect. We are now married for 4 years I know it's not that long pa pero I am making the most out of it. Madami din heartaches saka arguements pero it is normal for couples to fight over something-- financially, emotionally, basta wag lang physical.


I am sad to hear sad marriage life... tama nga sabi ng matatanda, and I try my hardest to keep God as the center of our relationship. Atleast try to pray at night together, go to church... and eat together kasi while eating you resolve family issues.


I hope you can resolve your issues mga sis. God bless!

[happy_content]

do i ever regret? ................

sometimes,,but at the end of the day Love still prevails.we're in a long distance relationship..most of the time we argue like 3x a week.....pero after nung arguments, okhei na kami ulet...

he made me somewhat mature in other ways....yung tipong hindi ko kayang intindihin before sa past relationships ko sa kanya bigla na lang ako naiiba...
 

[jyrrel]

siguro you'll feel this way lang if you don't really love the man you married...

[blushydamsel]

oh yeah... sobrang regret talaga... LOL...

after lang siguro a couple of months after marrying him, nagsisi na talaga ako.  i was not sure when i married him and my friends were telling me not to pursue with the wedding kasi i was telling them na hindi nga ako sure.  i married for wrong reasons.  nakakalungkot lang pero yun ang totoo.  i married him kasi i want to get out of our house kasi feeling ko at that time na pinagkakaisahan nila ako sa bahay. i was only 23 then...

the problem is, he doesn't work and from the beginning, suportado na kami ng mommy ko, as in mommy ko ang nagbibigay ng allowance sa amin. we're both unemployed for more than a year.  and then nung magkababy kami, binigyan ako ng mommy ko ng puhunan to start a business.  so nagbusiness ako.  si husband naman, inihanap ng mommy ko ng work sa company ng friend nya so nagwork sya dun for a couple of months pero nagresign din kasi mahirap daw. yung business ko naman, nag-prosper and medyo lumaki na sya and lahat ng gastos namin eh dun na kinukuha kasi nag-stop na rin ang mommy ko sa allowance.

to make the long story short, he was never a good provider and ako pa yung gumagastos lahat-lahat sa amin.  name it: food, his clothes, kids stuff, tuition fees, mga katulong, lahat ng bills, kids baon... everything....

tapos ang yabang-yabang pa niya lagi and bossing pa dun sa business namin na pinaghirapan kong palakihin.  alam nyo yun? yung wala ka naman ni singkong duling na nai-share pero mas mayabang ka pa? hay naku talaga naman...

kayo ba hindi magsisisi kung ganito ang situation nyo? grabe talaga mga sis...

sis, why hindi mo iwan?

[jyrrel]

sis blushydamsel... iniwan ko na... LOL...

another kuwento uli yun... mas complicated dahil ayaw talaga humiwalay...

hanap na lang ako ng thread na appropriate ang kuwentong yun... hehe...

[mehriels]

Sobrang Hindi! I love my husband and i have improved so much because of him,

[janjohann]

Never ako nagsisi na ang asawa ko ang pinakasalan ko. 6 years kami mag boyfriend before getting married and this year, 8 years na kami married by May. Ganun ko na siya katagal kasama, ganun ko na sya katagal kakilala.

Sa almost 14 years namin together, we never had a major fight. Importante talaga sa kahit anong relationship ang trust, respect and love.  Hindi pwede mawala ang isa.

Now that i'm a sahm at siya naman ay may magandang career na talaga, I once told him na malayo na talaga tayo because ako natapos na ang corporate career ko 2 years after namin magkababy and ikaw you're still up and climbing the corporate ladder. Ang sabi nya, he would never achieve whatever he has achieved now kung wala ako every single day in his life. Masarap talaga ang feeling kapag may appreciation from your better half.