Falling for a much Older Guy!

[louise1]

yes, i did.
he's eight years older (hope that counts).
gwapo, intellectual, and nice. he seems to be a good guy too.

i guess im already falling for him now.

[iamlili]

I prefer older guys. Madalas, stable na sila in life. Pero ayoko naman yung parang tatay or worse, mukhang lolo na. Haha 

[justin3]

aba, aba, aba, halos lahat ayaw ng "lolo" ah.
pano na lang ako? literally "lolo' na me pero hindi naman ako mukhang lolo oy. at wag na wag nyo akong tawaging "lolo", magkakagulo tayo nyan.

but hey, kanya kanyang hilig lang yan eh.
kung ayaw nyo ng mas mashonda sa inyo, aba, mas lalo na ako!   
on my part, mas masabaw naman talaga kasi pag barely legal. at taon-taon naman may nagde-debut.
pero pag si Phoebe Cates at 50 o Demi Moore at 51, ok lang. hala bira!
sa local, kapatol-patol pa rin si Dina B at 53 o si Carmi Martin at 50... pwedeeeeee! 

i once knew a gurl who really prefers older men. as in >3x times her age. actually nung pumasok ako sa buhay nya, kakakamatay lang ng amoy lupang abogadong bf nya.  her friends know of her past relationships kaya nagtaka nga sila as i was the "youngest" daw.
(her 2 septuagenarian BFs di rin tumagal kasi naging baldado na. nagnanasa ang utak, di naman nakaya ng pusong Jurassic. ayon, nga-nga, tulo-laway habang nakaupo sa wheelchair. ipipilit pa kasi eh. )
at first i thought she was simply looking for a father figure, kasi nga natepok erpatz nya in her early teens. pero hindi eh, she had BFs her age naman kaso nadedismaya lang sya because of their lack of "wisdom and experience" daw.   

[katrinac]

My husband, he's 7 years old than me. Fortunately, sobrang baby face nya. Napagkakamalan kaming mag ka edad. As in age ko.  Though minsan na offfend ako. haha! kasi parang mas matured pa mukha ko sa kanya. lol

[romantico]

is a 16 year age gap too big for you girls?

[Lady Blue]

^Not for me. My ex was 18 years my senior. And before him, an ex 25 years older than me (and he's going to be a boyfriend again real soon)

[supergirl01]

I fall for a guy who is 3-10 years older than me. Boys are like wine, it takes a long time for them to mature, or to become a Man.. I admit, as guys get older, lumalakas din talaga lalo ang appeal. 

[sacred cow]

^ unfortunately, women are like milk...hahahaha. masarap kapag fresh pa, kapag luma na puro na preservatives

[sexykha]

^ ganun talaga ang description? Ahaha kaloka!!
Fresh or may preservatives huh?

[danielle07]

May ex is 15 yrs older than me,i love him so much,until now,umaasa parin akong magkabalikan kami

[danielle07]

is a 16 year age gap too big for you girls?

Depende sa babae yan,ako ok lang,ever since puro mga oldies mga type ko,sabi ko nga my ex is 15 yrs older than me,for me kaso mas gusto ng mature,mas mahaba ang pasensya sa katulad kong may pagka immature din

[sacred cow]

kapag matanda nagpapabotox na at kung [textspeak!]-ano nang treatments/surgery para magmukhang bata

[romantico]

I think I need to rephrase my question. hehe. If you're a 23 year old girl, would a 16 year age gap too big?

[queenteaser]

same here mas attracted ako sa mas ahead ang age sa akin. pero hindi naman "lolo" type na. para kasing mas matured sila mag isip and mas maalaga. (caregiver lang ang peg) hehe. kaso may mga cons din. like di ko makasabay sa trip nila. like yung panonood ng renz verano nung valentines. haha kinabag talaga ko. ayaw manood ng avril ang gusto renz. yahoo!

[simang]

^haha oh my goodness lakas ng tawa ko dito sis! Hahahaha!

My ex was 9 yrs older than me, i was 16 nun he was 25, we broke up when I was 23.

Masarap kausap ang mga mas senior sayo, dami talaga matututunan. Romantically, hmm mahirap. Our main problem then was he didnt realize i was already maturing. Kala nya 16 pa din ako so when i started talking back and defending myself pag pinapagalitan nya ko, he would always say "nagbago ka na". Sa isip ko, oh my god syempre nagbago na ko i'm effing 23 now. He fell in love with a 16 year old me and nafixate na sya dun.

[x-y]

I prefer older men. Masmalalim ang conversations, masinteresting. Yun nga lang, at my age, most of them are committed/married na. Hehe

[queenteaser]

^haha oh my goodness lakas ng tawa ko dito sis! Hahahaha!

My ex was 9 yrs older than me, i was 16 nun he was 25, we broke up when I was 23.

Masarap kausap ang mga mas senior sayo, dami talaga matututunan. Romantically, hmm mahirap. Our main problem then was he didnt realize i was already maturing. Kala nya 16 pa din ako so when i started talking back and defending myself pag pinapagalitan nya ko, he would always say "nagbago ka na". Sa isip ko, oh my god syempre nagbago na ko i'm effing 23 now. He fell in love with a 16 year old me and nafixate na sya dun.

^ahaha sis simang ansarap ng feeling na binebeybi ka. yung tipong hindi mo na kailangan humiling matic na bibigyan ka ng flowers ganon. kaso nga pag kampante na pagagalitan ka na na parang anak mo ba ko? pati pag piga ng toothpaste dapat ituro mo sa akin sa dulo ng tube pipisil? nakakairita din pag palaging nasisita. experience wise, veteran ika nga. nakaka helicopter na. haha kaso pag matagal na nakakaumay din pag di nagkakasundo. parang pati isusuot mo papakialaman na. masaya din naman. kasi nga maalaga at sweet. malambing kala mo maya't maya de3x. yun padin naman ang preference ko kung magkaka bf pa ako. yun lang pag mas matanda ata mas babaero.  18yrs gap namen. happy nadin sa mga natutunan. hahaha

[simang]

^oo naman, no regrets. dami ko talaga natutunan sa kanya as in. sabi ko nga even sa present bf ko na half of me now is what I became while my ex and i are together. dami ko talaga natutunan sa kanya.

siguro hindi ko naenjoy yung bine-baby in the long run, kase as I matured naging independent talaga ako. i grew up without my parents so hindi ako sanay na may nagfifilter sa mga ginagawa ko so nung naging kame, sya yung gumawa nun. at first yeah masaya pero eventually i felt he was keeping me from growing. oh well.

[t_r_i_s_h]

Why not? I think dating someone older is better. The older the better. parang wine lang yan, mas matanda mas masarap!

[lovemeagain30]

ideally mas maganda sana ang mas matanda kasi mas financially stabled and matured ang pag iisip. however, seldom you could find a guy in their 40's, 50's or 60's na talagang binata. most of them were separated, divorced or have children that's already in college. yung iba nga may apo na on their late 40's.

Most of these older guys din seldom look for women the same with their age. ika nga ni Vic Sotto, 'kung ka edad nga naman kukunin niyang gf, eh di lola na yun!' it doesn't mean they will not marry women of their age, unless mahal talaga din nila si lola.

anyway, in my own personal opinion, if you would like to build a family like have kids, raise them, and grow old together with this older men, you wouldn't have them for a long time. Plus, there are older guys who doesn't like to have kids anymore. kung malalaki na ang mga anak niya sa dati niyang asawa, at their age, graduate na yan sa diaper life!  hindi na nila papangarapin magka anak pa sayo. swak nalang kung pareho pareho niyong ayaw magkaanak.

ask yourself din on 'how do you see your future with this older man in the long run?' love ba talaga eto or dahil financially secured ka? luho, pangangailangan or pagmamahal?  kung balak mong magkaanak sakanya, think twice kung buhay pa etong lalake to parang tulungan ka niya magpalaki ng anak niyo. pede malakas pa siya ngayon but after a year or 2 years ganun parin ba? are you ready if he becomes very ill, and will you be a good caregiver? I've known a cousin who married an old Canadian who became sick of cancer after few years. it was really tough for her with kids pa to raise. matanda na si lolo, and ending nagloko pinsan ko at nagkaron ng kabit na mas bata.