Falling for a much Older Guy!

[slovy]

waahh! sobrang nakakarelate ako dito.. 

magsishare din ako.. my hubby is 20 yrs older than me. kung pano kami nagkakakilala, yun ay napakahabang kwento. niloko nya ko before eh about sa age nya. sa simula kasi sa text lang kami nagkakilala, and it took us 5 months ata bago kami nagmeet, at dun ko na lang nalaman age nya talaga. Pero sa mga panahong yung, nainlove na ako sa kanya. tas nung naging kami kasi galing ako nun sa napakasakit na break up kaya parang naging sandalan ko sya..

basta, it's a long story talaga. it's true nga na older men are more mature, magaling mag handle sa relationship at sobra ang pagka caring at understanding kaya di ako nagsisi na sumama ako sa kanya. at kami ni hubby, we have the same characteristics din, halos lahat ng bagay, nagkakasundo kami. Ang tanging ayaw ko lang sa kanya is gusto nya all the time, lagi sya ang tama. and maybe may kinalaman dun ang age gap namin..

[footstep]

di ako attracted sa mga guys ka age ko. mas gusto ang medyo matured ng konti sa akin. mga 3 to 5 years older.

[summerchic]

i don't get attracted din with younger guys. baka ako pa-magturo sa kanila haha. sila pa yun mayayabang, show-off, ma-gimik etc.  older guys kasi have less issues. stable and settled. plus they know what they want.

[beatrize zuri]

Ang tanging ayaw ko lang sa kanya is gusto nya all the time, lagi sya ang tama. and maybe may kinalaman dun ang age gap namin..

i totally agree! pareho tayo sis, tapos pag hindi ako nakinig sa kanya at palpak ang desisyon ko sasabihin niya sakin "ayan kasi, di ka nakikinig sakin sinabi ko na sayo yan eh, tigas talaga ng ulo mo" kabisado ko na, pano madalas kasing hindi ko sinusunod ang desisyon niya. 

[poetrytoprose]

Even before as I kid lahat ng crush ko older guys .. as in older celebrities. I really have daddy issues so that's why ang lakas ng appeal nila sakin. hahaha! Ngayon, I couldn't fall for guys who are younger or in the same age as I am. I just like guys who are mature and responsible; and yes they are sexier and classier.

[Lady Blue]

^ So true.

[mharickar]

ako din, yung naging ex ko way back in college, both of them 3-4 years ang gap sakin..
ngayon yung crush ko 9years ang gap namin.. sakin ok lang.. mas feel ko din ang older guy..
siguro gang 10 years gap lang for me,, hehe.. 

[Beng01]

Hi sis pinkberries, pareho pala tayo, bf is 6 years older din, actually 6.5 years pa nga. Pero katulad ng ibang sis dito, i prefer yung much older din sakin na lalake.

looking back, never talaga ako naging attracted sa mga ka-edad ko.     my bf is 6 yrs. older than me at mas nagkakasundo kami compared sa exbf ko who was 1 yr older lang.   Pero parang di ko din carry ang mga 10 yrs plus na age gap.

[BebieLuvs]

hi! mine was 10 yrs older hehe...as much as possible i try not to argue kase ang kahahantungan ako ang talo kaya minsan nahahasa ako sa reverse psych eh hehe

[cess]

dati I never accepted suitors which are 3 yrs older than me. Medyo naiilang nako nun.. then this guy came along. naging good friends kami and nalaman nya yung issue ko with age kaya he pretended na 2yrs older lang sya sakin nung niligawan nya ako.. nagiging close na kami pero siguro na-guilty, while having dinner, he handed me his driver's license, mega compute ako ng age haha, it turned out he was 7 years older than me. I was silent for 30mins or so while finishing dinner.
todo sorry sya, eh like ko talaga sya, wala tinangap ko nadin and naging kami after awhile..

4yrs later, I married him na and it's the greatest relationship I ever had. We do have our ups and downs pero I really learned alot from him-life, love, career experiences.

[KaraVT]

I define "older love" as 7 years or more in age gap.   

It has its advantages,  specially if he has the capacity to spoil you.  But everything comes with a price:   Lousy sex; boredom, too many demands; eventually you get osmosized & turn old faster than  your friends; etc.

If the price is right, fine. But if he is married, the older ones usually are didn't you notice? , then it's: Laughable!  Break your heart, but don't cry to me.

[stameygirl]

I define "older love" as 7 years or more in age gap.   

It has its advantages,  specially if he has the capacity to spoil you.  But everything comes with a price:   Lousy sex; boredom, too many demands; eventually you get osmosized & turn old faster than  your friends; etc.

If the price is right, fine. But if he is married, the older ones usually are didn't you notice? , then it's: Laughable!  Break your heart, but don't cry to me.

Is it necessarily lousy sex? Shouldn't he be more experienced than the younger guy and, therefore, knows the right buttons to push?

[MalditaNgaAko]

I will definitely fall for a HOT older guy. Take note, the operative word here is HOT. haha

[pinkbubbles17]

for me i won't fall for a much older guy..it's okay if he's 1 or 2 years older than me..an older guy kasi mostly puro miscommunication,i don't know..syempre iba yung paningin nila sa buhay,matured..

[Lady Blue]

I define "older love" as 7 years or more in age gap.   

It has its advantages,  specially if he has the capacity to spoil you.  But everything comes with a price:   Lousy sex; boredom, too many demands; eventually you get osmosized & turn old faster t

Have you ever been in a relationship with an older guy? Sex with an older guy is definitely not lousy. More so with younger ones.

[poetrytoprose]

^^

Sis, you're lucky that guys in those age range get attracted to you where as I, wala (for now bwahaha!). ka-frustrate.

[physicaldump]

Opposite naman ako. Im attracted to younger girls. Minsan nga lang sobrang childish nung iba. Pero kaya pa rin ihandle

[imyourangel]

^Because guys would definitely want to show their knight-in-shining-armor side sa mga girls, yung tipong hindi sila masasapawan

[junetwentythree]

Might be going on a date with a guy who is 11 years my senior (He's 46, I'm 35 this year). I'm not sure what it's going to be like as my ex was 8 years my junior. So this is a whole new ballgame for me. Getting burned by a young guy made me wanna see what it's like to be with an older gentleman. He seems to be real established, has had his own practice for the last 15 years (he's a chiropractor) and owns an apartment in Manhattan Looks good on paper so far. Let's see how it pans out next week.

[ABC516]

I had a boyfriend who's 10 years and 11 months ang age gap. He's the best thing that I had yet I failed to handle. Ang ending, wala na kami. Kahit pa we have similarities, almost same birthday. But then again, I FAILED. And wishing to win his back again!