Author Topic: Maid older than you?  (Read 32048 times)

GabBeaMariz

  • lovely wife of joe, cool mom of gabbeamariz
  • Junior GirlTalker
  • ***
  • Posts: 259
  • just perfect!
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #20 on: October 08, 2008, 11:32:29 pm »
as much as possible ayoko ng matanda saken na maid  ::) laging feeling nila dahil sa matanda sila magaling at alam na nila lahat  ::)
“I'm tough, ambitious, and I know exactly what I want. If that makes me a b****, okay.” -madonna
blog

GORDON-BAYANI!

Frenzied

  • Superstar
  • Super GirlTalker
  • *****
  • Posts: 4630
  • It's either you'll love me or hate me...
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #21 on: October 08, 2008, 11:58:35 pm »
^depende din kase sa pag uusap nyo yun tsaka siguro your personality din. I have a very strong personality and I never give them a chance na isipin na dahil as bata ako eh kaya nila ako kayan-kayanin. My maid now is older than me, but she knows who's the boss and magalang pa nga eh.

Joycy

  • Living life with integrity and order...
  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 571
  • is in love with Kakashi Hatake
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #22 on: October 17, 2008, 12:06:02 am »
Nahihirapan ako sis. Di ko kaya. Parang nag-aalangan akong utusan.  ;D
God tied u and I together by our little fingers with a long red string. This bond of destiny cannot be seen and there is no map leading to u. So i will fall in love with u when i meet u.

follow me @ www.twitter.com/Venus914

Frenzied

  • Superstar
  • Super GirlTalker
  • *****
  • Posts: 4630
  • It's either you'll love me or hate me...
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #23 on: October 17, 2008, 02:28:18 pm »
^kaya mo yan. Just say it in a nice way with paki- or please. :)

tisay4476

  • I'm a PROUD MOMMY , WIFE and
  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 167
  • my family, my life, my everything
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #24 on: December 10, 2008, 06:37:20 pm »
Hindi ako kumukuha ng yaya na mas matanda pa sa akin usually kinukuha ko mga early 20's at least  isang dekada ang tanda ko sa kanila. pag matanda pa sa akin eh mahirap na mapagsabihan baka ako pa ang mapagsabihan nun!  hehe ;D
I am what i am... NO pretentions...I'm REAL.
When i'm GOOD.. i'm really good but when i'm BAD, i'm even better!

prisma

  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 521
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #25 on: December 29, 2008, 09:40:15 pm »
Nagkaroon na ako ng early 20s to late 20s maids...hay naku, eto sila:

1. telebabad
2. nanliligaw or inaakit ang gardener, maintenance or guard namin
3. mahilig gumawa ng rason para mag day off lang kesyo masakit ipin, need to stay with tita...sus mariosep...sa "BF's home" lang pala ang punta, and dami excuses grabe!!
4.  They get my stuff
5. text ng text ng text
6. ma cop\mplain
7. Maingay

Kaya sa above 30s na ako!!  A-ok!!!  Tahimik na efficient pa!!

hapi_prego

  • ♥ ♥ ♥
  • Super GirlTalker
  • *****
  • Posts: 1026
  • my mIRC buddy
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #26 on: January 03, 2009, 12:17:55 am »
my baby's yaya is younger than me, ilang ako sa matanda sakin, since im nicey-nicey, better nalang kung san ako comfortable  :P

but regarding sa house hold chores dito sa house, i dont mind older than me, but no to my baby's yaya since super dame kong utos, bilin sa kanya  ;D
"rockin' his last name"

pinkypop_30

  • I love you my little princess
  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 82
    • Join me here.  Please add/upload 1 pic of yours and add at least 1 school/university you have attended. Thanks.
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #27 on: January 19, 2009, 11:24:07 am »
Hi mga sis  :)

Katuwa naman mga experiences natin dito.

Currently, older sa akin ... or better yet sa amin ni hubby [textspeak!] yaya namin. Hay naku.. correct kayo mga sis ... mga "feeling" talaga sila. Itong asa amin ... ok siya ... as in masipag, maalaga, maasikaso, may kusa and everything that you've dreamed of in a maid-yaya .... ang siste, mausisa masyado ... A+ to the max. Na there are times na go beyond the limit na siya and super nakakairita.

One thing I don't like about her is yung "feeling" kamag-anak or something siya namin. Biruin nyo ba namang sitahin ako na kesyo "dapat ganito" or "dapat ganyan" .... hinaan si ganito .... the nerve!!!

Tsaka whenever I want to have sometime alone with my daughter .... para ko siyang anino. Kainis susulpot nalang bigla and mega comment na "Oy, si baby ganito ... ganyan" Susme, pede ba hindi kita tinatawag!!! Maigi nalang mahaba pa pisi ko .... pero sis kita naman sa mukha ko yung pagkaasar ko. Kasi ako yung tipo ng tao na if ever hindi ko feel ang isang bagay ... thru facial expression ko malalaman na agad.

I hate her being so ma-epal, mausisa, matanung, ... ano pa? name it at baka may nakaligtaan pa ako .... Yun lang bawasan-bawasan  niya and she is definitely fine. Lumugar naman siya sa dapat niyang pagkalugaran. Hayz ....

With younger yaya's naman ... [textspeak!] ng [textspeak!], skimpy kun magdamit, maliit ang pasensya sa bata lalo na kung may ka-[textspeak!] or kausap sa cellphone, mainipin at hindi mapirme sa bahay tapos may pagka-innocent effect pa yun pala "keng-keng"

Kainis ....  may ugali both pag older or younger yung yaya natin. Kanya-kanya .... swertihan lang talaga. Hayz  ???

Kady_14

  • Nanay ni Abudayday at Kutchikoy!
  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 721
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #28 on: January 19, 2009, 12:26:31 pm »
Hi mga sissies, Wala namang perfect na "yaya or maid" based sa mga nakasama ko nang maids sa bahay. Talagang mgttyaga na lang tayo kung sino ang kasama natin. Kasi mahirap na humanap ng maid ngayon.

sxyfreak

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 138
  • Men exist to make women look good
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #29 on: January 22, 2009, 05:01:58 pm »
ok lang...wag lang mashado matanda. kakahiya namang utusan :)

sofibanofi

  • a li'l bit of everything, all rolled into one
  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 70
  • my li'l kuningning..
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #30 on: February 08, 2009, 04:12:41 pm »
^ i so agree. yung helper namin ngayon nasa late 40s na. parang nakakahiya naman utusan na bumili ng ganito at ganyan. actually di naman din siguro sa age eh. nasa pagkatao naman ng yaya and how we treat them din naman. eto from my experience:

downside ng batang helper:

burara, mali-mali, sumusunod kahit di alam inuutos, careless sa mga gamit sa bahay (yung water heater nga nakatatlong palit kami, huhu buti yung microwave muntik lang masira..), may kalandian, text addict kaya  hindi namomonitor maigi yung bata (minsan hawak lang sa dulo ng damit pag me hawak na cp), palpak minsan mga trabaho (dami kong bagong damit na namantsahan, nasunog, pati damit ni hubs and ng baby ko) at bruhang yun, sinasampay pa din sa closet kahit nasunog ha! o di ba naman?

pero namimiss ko lang dun sa dating helper ko na bata, nalalambingan ko yun kung gusto ko magkape, nakakakwentuhan ko, nahaharot, nakukulit, nauutusan ko ng madaming beses kahit pabalik-balik, naisasama ko sa out of town gimmicks namin ng family ko.

yung helper ko ngayon na older sakin:

 kabaligtaran lahat ni younger helper. ok ang trabaho. problema ko lang, super epalushi, nagmamarunong kahit di maganda (uy, joke lang to ha), saka ipinipilit ang kanya. pag sinabi ko na wag na lagay sa ref yung tirang ulam, pagbukas ko ng ref nilagay pa din nya. dati nga sabi ko palitan na yung bedsheet and comforter sabi ba naman bukas na lang. dun ko lang ata sya sinagot na "mamaya namin tutulugan, bukas nyo pa papalitan?" saka wala kaming kulitan at di ko sya nauutusan timpla ko coffee, huhuhu..

syempre mas relieved ako sa helper ko ngayon in terms of trabaho sa bahay. tiis lang nga ako kasi may ilang factor sa pagutos at minsan feeling nanay (nanay na makulit at minsan nakakainis, hehe)


http://happymommyako.blogspot.com/
http://happyfourlife.blogspot.com/

my LIFE isn't PERFECT..
but it's so close to it!
and ME ♥ it to bits!

happynes

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 79
  • To God be all the glory!
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #31 on: February 11, 2009, 01:18:47 am »
correct kayo mga sis! Dati pgnagpapakuha ako ng yaya or maid I prefer older ones thinking they'll be more efficient, masipag, at mas maingat sa bata. But after having several misfortunes of their kind (like merong isa bibili lang daw sa tindahan hindi na bumalik LOL) at hirap utusan at pagsabihan, I now prefer someone a few years younger than me but trainable. I have a yaya before na pati pagpapanuod ko ng tv at bukas ng aircon pinapakialaman. Binilin daw kasi ng lola ko ako sa kanya (kasi nga she's from lola's province and used to help clean our farm before). Ayun nag feeling naman na nanay ko. Kaloka talaga buti nagpaalam din after 3 weeks kasi pinapauwi na ng asawa. Kaya ngayon ayoko na kumuha ng sobrang older sa akin.
For we walk by Faith, and not by sight.   (2 Corinthians 5:7)

nhess

  • is a coffee addict,shopaholic; a lady gaga; panic worrier; a good friend and demoted again as
  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 80
  • I never turn my back without winning
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #32 on: February 11, 2009, 01:58:21 am »
^^ correct ka sis!

 ang mga bata buraraand minsan may pagka maarte or malandi..pag oldies naman ang hirap utusan sabi nga ng mga sis natin dito and sensitive pa sila.. that's why mas prefer ko yun mga nasa late 20's and tinatago ko ang age ko sa kanila, say 28 sya sasabihin ko I'm 30 na thensasabihin nya bata ako hahaha d nya alam bata talaga ako sa kanya.. para igagalang nya padin ako..haaayss.. sayang aalis na yun yaya ko this April..may makuha sana ako,,,
Wash the plate not because it's dirty nor you're told to wash it, but because you love the person who will use it - Mother Theresa

kool_diva

  • nobody does it like ME!
  • Junior GirlTalker
  • ***
  • Posts: 478
  • "The BEST revenge is a GOOD life"
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #33 on: February 11, 2009, 10:15:09 am »
may nag-apply sa akin before na maid, 56 lang daw sya, i keep on asking kung kaya niya pa work OO daw...same age sila ng mother ko na maliksi kumilos...afraid ako kasi baka maya may sakit pa yun, di ko na lang tinanggap..hehe
GOD will operate but you must cooperate.

It is not enough to have a good mind, the main thing is to use it well...

alinkshel

  • now behaving...
  • Super GirlTalker
  • *****
  • Posts: 1787
  • chosen to be otherwise c",)
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #34 on: February 11, 2009, 11:17:34 am »
it doesn't matter to me. nasa pagha-handle na lang yan. que matanda or bata, if you make the rules clear from the very start pero may katigasan talaga ng ulo, pasasakitin talaga ulo mo.

my baby's first yaya is 10 years older than me that time. i could say she's the best i've ever had. malas lang at nagkasakit ng TB so i had to let her go. mahirap nang mahawa.

then recently, i hired someone close to her age (mid 30s). aba, daig pa yung 18 years old na yaya ko kung makipagtext at telebabad. mind you, tatlo ang asawa! ok sya sa bahay, malinis. but i didn't hire her for that. i made it very clear that she'll be the yaya of my youngest kaya bata talaga ang priority nya. she has five children kaya siguro sumawa na sa bata. nawawala din ang mga undies ko and some kikay stuff. i thought na-misplace lang so di ko masyado pansin. tapos uwi nang uwi every weekend. kesyo naaksidente daw yung anak nya, etc., etc. nun pala, nakipag-date lang sa kabit nya.

after a month, napuno na talaga ako. pinaalis ko na. dun pa lang nag-squeal yung isang yaya. nilalagay daw pala sa kapitbahay isa-isa yung mga small things na kaya nyang bitbitin. pag-alis nya dinala nya lahat. kainis talaga!

kung bata naman at hindi pa masyadong trained, para naman nag-hire ka ng bakasyonista.

kaya ngayon ang main requirement ko, dapat mabait at heart. under probi muna for two weeks then observe lang. kasi pag likas na mabait ang tao, madaling turuan. hindi mao-offend at pipilitin nyang umintindi. no worries ka pa na gagawan ka ng masama. yun nga lang, medyo mahirap talaga malaman kung mabait ba sya talaga. background check would help... and of course, prayers...
~=lost star=~ :)

kaiya_mama

  • Probationary
  • Posts: 5
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #35 on: February 14, 2009, 08:33:44 pm »
share ko lang mga sis yung dati kong maid, she's in her 40s na (though she looks a lot older) pero kung gumamit ng celphone parang teenager na text nang text buong araw. mahilig din maglalabas and makipagchismisan kahit na kanino, kahit yung basurero go sya! she wakes up at around 5 am para makipagchismisan sa labas ng more than 1 hour. bugnutin rin sya, wala man ng lambing sa kids ko to think meron din syang mga anak sa province. when she left, sabi ng husband ko - automatic washing machine lang ang katapat nyan. wala naman kasi syang gaanong nagagawa sa bahay kundi maglaba, kaunting linis coz small lang naman house ko. anyway, between her at yung dati kong kasambahay na teenager, dun na ako sa bata. i suppose wala naman sa edad yan, nasa attitude [textspeak!]. natatawa ako while reading your posts kasi sobrang nakaka-relate ako sa mga kwento ninyo.

alinkshel

  • now behaving...
  • Super GirlTalker
  • *****
  • Posts: 1787
  • chosen to be otherwise c",)
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #36 on: February 14, 2009, 08:54:32 pm »
^sis parang yan din yata yung yaya na nakuha ko na tinutukoy ko sa post ko. magka-ugaling magka-ugali sila promise! haha!!! yun nga lang, mid-30s pa lang yung sakin.

kaya nasa tao talaga. wala sa age yan. iba-iba naman kasi ang priority natin sa pag-hire ng mga helpers. talagang swertihan kung makatyempo ka ng mabait at maayos magtrabaho.
~=lost star=~ :)

loveforall

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 175
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #37 on: February 20, 2009, 03:22:48 pm »
i have 1 manang(which is older sa akin at sa hubby ko) and 1 yaya(na lumayas na ngayon and only 19y.o.) at first ayoko ng mas matanda sa akin kasi nahihiya akong utusan. so far ok si manang.basta sinasabi ko lang sa kanya ang ayaw ko. laging ganito tandem ko sa kasama. isang di katandaan at isang bata. mahirap preho edad,minsan nagkakakutsaba or nagkakainggitan.

satya

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 192
  • pretty :)
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #38 on: February 21, 2009, 03:51:39 pm »
my maids are mostly older than me..at first nakakhiya utusan but what to do :)

a man would just be someone to complement you...not complete you :)

val

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 57
  • I have the best job in the world!
    • Valerie Caulin-  Travel and Lifestyle Writer
Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #39 on: February 24, 2009, 06:48:33 pm »
I've read in an article sa Working Mom na dapat your yaya should be younger especially if toddler. Older yayas dont have the energy anymore.

And base on my experience, kaloka and oldies. My older yaya didn't take a bath for 3 days!!! I even begged her to take a bath, use warm water if she feels cold...kawawa ang anak ko..

but I just made a good decision to send her home...

I think they are better as "caretaker" ng bahay kaysa yaya or maid..
www.valcaulin.com Travel and Lifestyle Writer

 


Latest Stories

Load More Stories
Close