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Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #100 on: March 03, 2012, 04:47:22 am »
yung 3rd yaya ng baby ko mas matanda sa amin. medyo nahihiya ako minsan mag-utos sa kanya though 1 week lang naman siya nagstay sa amin.

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Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #101 on: March 07, 2012, 09:56:24 pm »
nagkaroon ako ng maid na mas matanda sa akin before, umalis kasi ayaw magpautos eh ako pa naman madalas magutos sa tindahan bili ng ganyan bili ng ganito, tas sa bahay pag kita kong walang ginagawa at marami pang gagawin inuutusan ko.

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Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #102 on: March 08, 2012, 07:50:54 pm »
When I was looking for help/yaya, I was very specific with my request na ayoko ng matanda. Mahirap maging kasambahay ang matanda because:

1.) Usually feeling nila mas magaling sila sayo and di nakikinig pag may specific ako na i-nuutos/i-u-utos nung nasa house pa ako ng parents ko

2.) Matigas ang ulo nila (refer to #1)

3.) Usually may family na and shempre ang daming baggage na nyan (like kelangan umuwi parati, may asawa or anak na umaasa therefor mas malakas ang propensity to make abuso)

4.) Mas dis-respectful sila kasi feeling nila bata ka lang and kaya kang kaya-kayanin.
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Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #103 on: March 08, 2012, 08:32:07 pm »
true lahat yan sis...

sobrang maiinis ka. akala mo lahat napagdaanan na. iba na kaya ang generation ngayon. :)

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Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #104 on: March 09, 2012, 12:13:11 pm »
Knock on wood but maswerte ako sa aming Manang  :)  Napagaan nya ng lubos ang trabaho sa bahay. Hindi mo na kailangan pang sabihan kung ano dapat nyang gawin, may kusa kumbaga. Sobrang sipag, kami pa ang nagsasabi sa kanya na magpahinga muna. Napapagkatiwalaan ko pa sa mga gamit ko sa bahay.

Unang dating nya sa amin, mga isang buwan ko din syang na-train at tinutukan kung anong gusto kong pamamalakad sa bahay. Sa awa ng Diyos, mag 5 years na sya sa amin. Kung pwede lang forever na sya sa amin. We love our Manang!  :)

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Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #105 on: March 16, 2012, 09:44:47 am »
we have two helpers at home - one is older and the other one is younger than me. the older one is the designated yaya of my toddler but she is also in-charge of cooking. and the younger one is our all-around help in-charge of cleaning, washing clothes, etc.  Frankly, ayaw ko ipagkatiwala sa mas bata na yaya ang anak ko kasi madali sila madistract. ang sama ng experience ko sa mga early 20s - ma-cellfone, malakas kumain, madahilan, kailangan turuan sa maraming bagay, tapos minsan sumasagot pa. hay...

Yon nga lang, yong mas matanda sa kin e medyo moody. pero, she takes care of my toddler very well. sa aspect na yon, e satisfied ako. kaya, sa mga bagay na pwede naman palagpasin, pinapalagpas ko na lang.

our yaya has been with us for 2 1/2 years now. and hopefully, mag-stay pa sya sa amin longer. admittedly, we don't agree all the time. pero, mas mahirap kasi na iwan mo ang anak mo sa isang tao na hindi buo ang tiwala mo habang nasa trabaho ka. so kung ano man ang pagkukulang ni yaya, tinatanggap ko na lang. and i make it a point to talk to her everyday. i would ask her questions on what my toddler did while i was away to make her feel that her work is appreciated. 

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Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #106 on: May 11, 2012, 03:59:32 pm »
^^ same tayo mama squeak! we love our manang (ate) din. hahaha.

she is not too old, ate lang, older than me ng 10 years yata so kahit sa province di pa sya work samen here, manang talaga tawag ko sa kanya. we've known each other since then, isang village lang kami, naks, isang baranggay pala. hahaha.

yun lang hirap lang minsan magutos at magturo kasi syempre kasi ate mo nga pero so far ayos naman. dinadaan lang sa maayos na kausap.
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Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #107 on: May 11, 2012, 05:14:25 pm »
mas prefer ko kung mas matanda ako kasi dyahe naman mag-utos tsaka gaya ng nasabi ng iba, they have the tendency to be know-it-all kaya matigas ulo. hindi rin ako magaling makisama sa mga older people. i find it hard to relate with them. tsaka baka mas maging close pa sila ni MIL eh sya pa ang sundin imbis na ako. hehe.
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Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #108 on: April 26, 2013, 02:19:26 pm »
Na-experience namin to. Maid#1: Mid 30s, I was 27 then. Ang hirap utusan kasi kapag sa akin hindi sumusunod agad, pero kapag mama ko sunod agad. Tapos laging may katwiran kapag napagsasabihan namin. Umalis din sya sa amin after a month, hinayaan na namin kasi hindi naman namin gusto kung pano sya magwork.

Maid#2: 45-50y/o, last year lang. Hindi mahilig sa bata, e isa sa task nya yung paliguan ang anak ko, nagaaway sila. Hindi kasi marunong mambola ng bata. Ok sana kasi marunong sya magluto pero kung wala syang hilig sa bata, hindi namin sya kailangan. Kaya namin magtiis na puro prito ang ulam. hehe. Tapos pinagkakalat pa nya sa village na ang mga anak ko daw makulit at makalat, kulang daw sa disiplina. Iniisip ko na syang paalisin nun eh, tapos may nagawa na naman sya. Nalabahan nya yung step counter ko. Ang sabi nya, nahulog lang daw, e pinasok na ng tubig yung loog ng gadget, pano nahulog lang yun? Pinaalis ko na sya.

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Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #109 on: April 28, 2013, 08:27:26 am »
Hindi din issue sakin yan lalo na kung bisaya yung maid, i had na kasi 2 maids na matanda na one was from somewhere in visayaz bata pa ako nun and yung isa from zamboanga naman. Both are great super sipag mas emotional nga lang sila kapag may edad na. Pero ma aamaze ka sa sipag nila.
Yung second ko mas naging close kami nun, as in para kaming mag nanay lagi pa kaming tawanan ng tawanan, and keber langsa kanya kapag may inuutos ako.

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Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #110 on: June 12, 2013, 07:07:19 am »
My 2 yayas are older than me.
My all around is younger

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Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #111 on: June 24, 2013, 11:17:27 pm »
yaya is mabait naman, very trustworthy but at times she's disrespectful and most of the time nagmamagaling, nagmamaganda pa, haha! she's also quite sensitive when you correct her even when done nicely... kaya lang kelangan makisama. so deadma na lang yung negative traits nya. importante i can trust her with my kids and my house.

she's older than me by 5 yrs.

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Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #112 on: June 25, 2013, 07:40:46 am »
never ever ever

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Re: Maid older than you?
« Reply #113 on: July 05, 2013, 10:21:38 pm »
our 1st kasambahay was older than me,ok naman sya,may kusa sa work at super sipag,gusto nya lagi may ginagawa,maybe dahil stay-out sya so sinusulit nya..yun nga lang she has 4kids & a husband na palipat-lipat ng location ang work(construction) so parang sya na ang nanay at tatay most of the time kaya madaming reasons sa mga absences nya..at madalas mag-advance..hirap lang ako tumanggi or pagsabihan sya kasi nga older,pero in the end i had to let her go na din..
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