hmmm i really dont know where to post this, but this thread is best that i could find. I used to have a typical family, im the eldest and i have 2 siblins, my dad used to work in a stable company, my mom at home or sometimes doing business and we the children went to good school. It started when my dad got sick because of his longterm smoking and drinking. he has anxiety attacks, sleepless nights etc.
he started to have mood swings which we can easily handle, oftentimes he's fine staying at home or going to thr province for vacation. one time, he started to be dillusional, he said that he feels like someone is watching him, the entire house were arranged and even RENOVATED because of his dillusions, the family thinks that its just an andropause stage for my dad, but then it got worst, i cant talk to him and get a serious answer, sometimes he will not talk for a day, the worst is that he is always thinking negatively about my mom, having an affair, he went with my mom anywhere even inside the bathroom, he wont allow phonecalls, one night he hurt himself with a knife...that was an eye opener for me, hindi na to biro, hindi totoo na toh, and hangang ngayon, its really unacceptable, our family is fine, why does those have to happen, last weekend around 2am to pee to the kitchen's comfort room, my dad followed her, and to her surprise, he accused her of meeting her 'other guy' there and will be having sex, so my dad strangled her near the faucer, stripped her panty and wash her genetal, shouting "ang dumi dumi mo, malandi!" i wasnt there and its only my youngest brother who told me the entire story, he was scared, there were in laguna and im here in mandaluyong, working, i dont know what to do, where to go, if we leave, my dad will surely come to my mom's relative, it will result to a bigger problem, i am checking mom, but she just keep saying she's ok and we just have to understand our father, i really dont what to do
