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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #300 on: December 28, 2013, 11:47:35 pm »
no. never.
alam kong madali sya gawin.
i know i can take revenge.

pero no. never.
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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #301 on: January 04, 2014, 08:33:48 am »
Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
bf, yes. hubby, no. never.

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
he was so neglectful talaga. sa feelings ko and buhay ko. parang hindi ko boyfriend. when we first started, hindi sya ganun. i stayed for 3 more years hoping things will change pero wala.

Did you regret it?
the cheating part, yes. always. kasi regardless of the reason, i know nobody deserves to be cheated on BUT i don't regret that we fell apart. i am glad nagkahiwalay kami kasi right now, i am happy. i am very happy with someone who truly appreciates it.

Did you confess it to your partner?

my hubby now? no need. kasi he was my bestfriend. we've known each other for a decade and he knows everything as it happens. lol. pero dun sa ex ko, yes nalaman nya. he tried to make it work, kaso mas naging worse lang situation namin.

What was his reaction?

hurt. he kept quiet. naging withdrawn sakin. he never wanted to talk to me about it.

Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?

I guess he never did kahit sinasabi nya oo. nope, and i am so glad we're not together anymore. it broke us apart.

Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?

He did. After namin maghiwalay he blames himself for everything kahit sinasabi ko na it's not entirely his fault. I'm doing absolutely great sa buhay ko right now. Thankful for all the experience.

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?

There's no justification for cheating. If you're not happy, just leave. Hindi na kailangan manloko pa.

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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #302 on: January 04, 2014, 04:08:27 pm »
point of clarification lang, what do you mean by cheated here, was it had sex with or just romantic affair? we know na parehong cheating yan but to some degree they're different depending on guy's point of view and principle. paki clear naman mga nag post ng comment nila dito.

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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #303 on: January 07, 2014, 06:02:49 pm »
^May point ka dun.There are one off flings, romantic liaisons, etc...Ang tanong eh ano ba mas masakit yung one-ff and purely sex o may kasamang romance?

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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #304 on: January 07, 2014, 07:58:18 pm »
No, never.. i don't have a heart to hurt my husband (parang kanta lang, hehe). Pero seriously, I am so blessed to have him. He's the most loyal, patient, loving, caring guy I've ever met. Wala na kong mahihiling pa.  :)
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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #305 on: January 09, 2014, 11:39:59 pm »
^May point ka dun.There are one off flings, romantic liaisons, etc...Ang tanong eh ano ba mas masakit yung one-ff and purely sex o may kasamang romance?


for me, mas masakit yung may romantic feelings. sa tingin ko yan ang ang mas mabigat na problema kesa sa nag cheat thru nakipag sex. kung nag cheat sya by having a romantic affair sa iba it only means that she/he is losing some interest or feelings on me which if left unresolved might lead to separation. i believe i can deal pa if she had sex with another guy just as long as she doesnt have any feelings sa guy and that she was just tempted to do it.

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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #306 on: January 10, 2014, 08:38:39 am »
Twice. As revenge or shoulder to lean on, both  ;D.

But that was 5 or 6 years ago. When we were still bf/gf and in LDR.

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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #307 on: September 04, 2018, 09:11:44 am »
HI! I'm back after 7 years hehe nag post na rin ko dito before ewan ko lang kung andito pa.

Have you cheated on your partner? Yes! last 2010 then naputol na until last year 2017 oct. i started cheating to him since naka chat ko elementary classmate ko and then last May 2018 umuwi siya he is ofw and nag kita kami ok naman kaso nag adjust pa kami sa isat isa and then another guy chat me he is also my elementary classmate he live in japan pero pinoy siya then umuwi lang siya last August 2018 nag kita din kami then 2x palang kami nag kita medyo adjust din.

FYI I'm married but my husband is ofw hehe i know madaming mag bash about cheating my husband given na yan mang bash I'm just sharing lang :)
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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #308 on: September 06, 2018, 11:00:16 am »
^ why sis?  I mean bakit mo yan ginagawa?
Do you have problem ba with your hubby?
Given na may problem kayo ng hubby mo..wala na bang ibang way like pag-usapan yung problem or make things final like sige we are not happy anymore maghiwalay na lang tayo..parang ganun?
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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #309 on: September 06, 2018, 11:32:43 am »
^^May nangyayari ba sa inyo ng nakakameet up mo? May kids ba kayo ng hubby mo? Mukhang bored ka sis kaya nagagawa mo yan. Try to divert your attention sa ibang bagay para di mo naiisip makipagmeet sa iba lalo na kung wala naman kayo issue ng hubby mo.
If a girl understands your b******t, stick through your mistakes, smiles even when you've done nothing for her , it's obvious she's a keeper. But it's also obVious that you don't deserve her...

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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #310 on: September 06, 2018, 11:44:49 am »
^^^ayos ah parang masaya/proud pa si girl cheater na nagcheat sya sa ofw husband nya. Habang nagpapakahirap si husband sa ibang bansa kumita lang ng malaki..
Kung alam mo lang siguro kung gano kahirap ang mga ginagawa nila dun. Try mo magbakasyon ng 1-2mos dun sa husband mo. Ofw din asawa ko kaya alam ko kung gano kahirap. kaya kahit may mga pagkukulang sya sakin biglang asawa, di mawawala yun tampo or galit pero yung magcheat.. Ewan ko lang ha kahit siguro may manligaw sakin na gwapo at mas malaki ang kita sa asawa ko..yung karma ang kinatatakutan ko dyan hehe. Iba kasi pag tinamaan ka ng karma, kahit sinong santo ang tawagin mo mahirap icounter attack yan. Kaya prevention is better than cure/solution. 😀
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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #311 on: October 11, 2018, 12:13:16 am »
I did cheat nung kami pa ng ex-bf ko. Masakit man sa puso kong nagawa ko yun pero I just feel like I am trapped sa kanya dahil na puro lang siya pasarap sa buhay.

Medyo nanghinayang lang ako sa tagal ng relasyon namin pero just this year,we broke up. Iba yung feeling na ready to love again sa isang tao na mahal mo talaga.
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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #312 on: October 22, 2018, 05:05:48 pm »
I don't think I have the stomach to cheat on my husband. I grew up with very strict upbringing, I can't do that ever.

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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #313 on: October 23, 2018, 10:08:21 pm »
In a relationship, dalawa ang di ko kayang gawin. Mangaliwa at maging mistress.
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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #314 on: October 24, 2018, 06:36:15 am »
No.
If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. :)

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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #315 on: November 01, 2018, 08:02:28 am »
NO. Never. Not just because my husband is the most caring and hardworking and smartest guy I know and I truly respect him, but also because I can't do that to myself. I can't stand myself if I become a 'cheater'. Because once you do it, you can't erase it.  I don't think I can forgive myself lol!

I was cheated on by my ex-bf mga 5yrs kami and I know how destructive it is. Tagal until na pick up ko self-worth ko. Looking back, my husband just doesn't deserve that kind of hurt.

But I'm glad to know I'm a loyal person. I found values which are important to me.

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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #316 on: March 08, 2019, 02:25:13 pm »
Yes, and after 8 long years ngayon lang natapos.At natapos siya hindi dahil sa gusto ko kung hindi may iba na siya at close friend ko pa. Lahat kami may asawa at may mga anak. ngayon ang nasasabi ko na lang, "I lost the battle and time to go home to where I really belong." Which i know is very selfish, kasi iniwan lang ako. Pero kung hindi nangyari yun, I think tuloy pa rin kami.

Everyday, I've been praying na makaalis ako sa situation. kahit anong sama ng tingin sa amin, nakokonsensya pa rin naman kami. unexplainable, pero ang hirap talaga iwanan. Like in my case, wala naman ako nakukuha sa guy. Sobrang mahal ko lang talaga.

sana eto na yung chance na makaalis na talaga ako. I've been praying for this for a long time. Kahit sobrang sakit ng nararamdaman ko ngayon, sana makaya ko at makapagbagong buhay ako.

Tagal ko na rin niloloko ang pamilya ko.

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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #317 on: March 10, 2019, 12:41:55 am »
Nope.
If a girl understands your b******t, stick through your mistakes, smiles even when you've done nothing for her , it's obvious she's a keeper. But it's also obVious that you don't deserve her...

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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #318 on: March 11, 2019, 02:30:53 pm »
Nevah! :)

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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #319 on: March 11, 2019, 05:50:15 pm »
Yes, and after 8 long years ngayon lang natapos.At natapos siya hindi dahil sa gusto ko kung hindi may iba na siya at close friend ko pa. Lahat kami may asawa at may mga anak. ngayon ang nasasabi ko na lang, "I lost the battle and time to go home to where I really belong." Which i know is very selfish, kasi iniwan lang ako. Pero kung hindi nangyari yun, I think tuloy pa rin kami.

Everyday, I've been praying na makaalis ako sa situation. kahit anong sama ng tingin sa amin, nakokonsensya pa rin naman kami. unexplainable, pero ang hirap talaga iwanan. Like in my case, wala naman ako nakukuha sa guy. Sobrang mahal ko lang talaga.

sana eto na yung chance na makaalis na talaga ako. I've been praying for this for a long time. Kahit sobrang sakit ng nararamdaman ko ngayon, sana makaya ko at makapagbagong buhay ako.

Tagal ko na rin niloloko ang pamilya ko.

dati kasi para ka lang nagdadasal sa pader, walang gustong makinig at walang nakakarinig. good luck sa pagbabagong buhay mo. hopefully this time, pakinggan na yung mga prayers mo.
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