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Have you cheated on your partner?
« on: March 01, 2007, 06:15:40 pm »
Ok. NO judgments please. Definitely no "name-calling". We're all mature people here. We use this forum to LEARN and not to bash other people.  If you are sensitive to this topic, just leave. Generally they say men cheat for seks and because they're a$$. Women has other reasons. They also say, before a woman cheats, she knew in her life she would never do it until she has done it. Let's try to understand it.

  • Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
  • What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
  • Did you regret it?
  • Did you confess it to your partner?
  • What was his reaction?
  • Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
  • Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?
  • What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?







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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #1 on: March 02, 2007, 01:26:22 am »
    * Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever? - bf, yess many times! ;D

-hubby- no no no :)


    * What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? - wala lang 


Reasons? asar ako kay bf dahil nangaliwa din cia  >:(


    * Did you regret it? -kay ex bf/ nku walang ka regret regrets >:(


    * Did you confess it to your partner? -nope


    * What was his reaction? -nun nalaman ni bf ( na ex ko na ) syempre nagalit pero fair na kami that time ;)




    * Did he forgive you? -nope

Are you still together? -wala na

What did it do to your relationship? -nag break kami ng tuluyan  ;)


    * Did he not forgive you? -dnt care kung na forgive nya ako ;D

How are you doing now? kami na nung pinalit ko sa kanya (6yrs na kami with 2kids and happy) ;) :D


    * What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any? wala naman, pero thanks din dahil na meet ko si hubby :D 8)
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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #2 on: March 02, 2007, 06:40:53 pm »
Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?

Bf --- yes (very ironic since we got back together and  ended up married)
Hubby --- NO!!!

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?

He cheated first. Although it may look like that i did that for revenge, it was not. I feel in love.  :P

Did you regret it?

No. I loved the guy and he's a good person.

Did you confess it to your partner?

Yes.

What was his reaction?

Hurt, siyempre. But he can't condemn me 'coz he did it first.

Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?

Yes, i think so. We got married. I think it strengthen our relationship.

Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?

Im okay.  :-*

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?

That whatever happens, i will be okay. That someone will come to sweep me off my feet. That knowledge boost my self-confidence. Im no longer as clingy as before.  ;)



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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #3 on: March 03, 2007, 04:42:09 am »
Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
-yes
What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
-he physically and verbally abused me
Did you regret it?
-no
Did you confess it to your partner?
-no
What was his reaction?
-I asked this question to him-if ever-and he said, forgive and forget
Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
-even without confessing, I ended the affair and started anew. I appreciated my hubby more. I loved him more.
Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?
-we are so okay
What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
Love conquers all. And I thought I can be happy dahil nakaganti na ko sa kanya. Pero sobrang imoral ito. Naging masaya lang ako nung tinigil ko na ang mali at nagsimulang naging matuwid.
« Last Edit: March 03, 2007, 04:44:36 am by bmitch »
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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #4 on: March 04, 2007, 09:47:31 am »
Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?

-yes..but just one time and it was not even an affair.

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?

-trip!kissing someone is still considred cheating, right? :P

Did you regret it?
-oh yes!nahuli ako eh! :-[

Did you confess it to your partner?
-yes

What was his reaction?
-he went mad!

Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
-yes. he is my hubby now. i guess we just both learn to forget and forgive

Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?
-we're fine

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?

-funny kasi im a real faithful girl.ngyari lang noon is lasing kami ng friend ko then i saw my friend kissing this guy taz she dared me to do it. just a smack lang [textspeak!] and so, i did. super immature ako nun! hmm..lesson?pagsisihan na lang natin if may nagawa tayong mali!  ;D hahaha!

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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #5 on: March 06, 2007, 05:40:32 pm »
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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #6 on: March 07, 2007, 08:49:34 am »
Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
> bf - yes (dating others whom you know are interested in you is cheating, right?)
> hubby - no (hanggang text lang)

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
> loko-loko din sya that time e! lagi nya ko di sinasama sa gimik nya kaya gumagawa ako ng sariling gimik.

Did you regret it?
> no. it was fun! ;D

Did you confess it to your partner?
> no. there's nothing significant to confess anyway. he just saw me with the guy while we're out.

What was his reaction?
> he was furious! nahuli ako e. he stalked us from the resto until we went home. kasunod pala namin yung kotse nya. he knew the guy (his friend) and even cut our way to make sure i was really the one inside. tapos humarurot na pauwi.

Did he forgive you?
> yup.

Are you still together?
> yup (he's now my hubby)

What did it do to your relationship?
> it has been a turning point of our relationship. parang naglolokohan lang kasi kami nung una. this circumstance led us to move into a higher level.

Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?
> answered ^^

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
> that i can do what he can do, that he could be so furiously mad when truly jealous... i actually got to know him more through this. but most importantly, i saw how a third party can badly ruin a relationship.

ay... nag-cheat din pala ko sa ex ko, as in sabay sila ng naging hubby ko. yan ang totoong cheating. but that's a different story :-X
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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #7 on: March 14, 2007, 12:38:46 pm »
Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
> bf - yes many times
> hubby - no comment LOL

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
> hes busy kase sa pagrereview, no time for me
Did you regret it?
> yung iba lang,yung iba naman it was really really fun

Did you confess it to your partner?
> no. inisqueal ako ng friend ko  :'(
What was his reaction?
>galit sobra, binereyk nya ako  :'(
Did he forgive you?
> matagal, sobra tinataguan nya ako

Are you still together?
>  he's now my hubby

What did it do to your relationship?
>
naging mas caring and sweet sya nung time na mag bf kami, naging mas understanding ako sa kanya.

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
> lessons????akala ko di kami magkakatuluyan after all na narinig nya sa friend ko,its really below the belt yung kinuwento nya,but in end kami pa rin ni hubby nakita nya how sorry iam, how sincere iam, at kung bakit ko nagawa sa kanya yun.

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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #8 on: March 16, 2007, 05:50:54 pm »
never pa miski with my ex'es,i dnt knw bt i have no time noon perhaps [textspeak!] alwys sa work before [textspeak!] na masyadong social life ;D...no rily its my prerogative lang talaga to be faithful.,thats hw i am,boring hahaha......

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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #9 on: March 17, 2007, 01:49:17 pm »
nope!
my hubby is my first bf so wala pa talaga
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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #10 on: March 19, 2007, 10:45:56 am »
    * Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever? i cheated on him nong magbf pa lang kami.

    * What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?

no time for each other. we are both busy.

    * Did you regret it? nope.. dahil kasi sa nangyari mas nakilala ko siya at nalaman ko din talaga na siya pala talaga ang gusto ko.

    * Did you confess it to your partner? yes

    * What was his reaction? nagalit but he understand.

    * Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship? yes he forgive me. we are married for 4 years now. it makes us closer.

   
    * What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any? totoo pala ang sinabi nila na mas malaman mo ang halaga ng isang tao sayo kapag nawala na.. so yon ang natutunan ko, i'm just happy na naging maayos din kami.
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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #11 on: March 24, 2007, 07:01:06 am »
i couldnt seem to begin to imagine how i could cheat with someone i love and am in love with.  and in no way will i subject my kids to such a situation.. I respect my husband period. i cant even bear the thought of texting anyone or get kilig if some guys text me..heck, i dont even give out my number other than for business purposes.:)  but i dont judge those who may have..iba iba din naman kasi mga situations natin :)
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« Reply #12 on: March 26, 2007, 11:14:30 am »
> Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever? Yes

> What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons? - I was swept away by another guy.
- I was frustrated coz he kept on repeating what i did... i took refuge from the other guy.
- I was hopeless & felt unappreciated!
- I wasn't HAPPY anymore.

> Did you regret it? Only regretted the 1st time.

> Did you confess it to your partner? Yes

> What was his reaction? Mad ofcourse, kept on calling me, kept on asking what happened -- how did it happen -- when did it happen, he was very heavy on me but then... he stopped coz he knows how much he cant live without me.

> Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
Yes he forgave me many times. We are not together anymore for reasons that are more grave & severe than cheating.

> Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now? N/A

> What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
Never admit the truth... never leave any evidences!

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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #13 on: March 26, 2007, 11:20:51 am »
Nope.  I don't plan to cheat either. 
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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #14 on: March 31, 2007, 03:22:11 am »
* Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever? I don't have a husband yet, but yes, I emotionally and physically cheated on my former lad before.

* What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons? I got tired of all our arguments and all intricacies of our relationship. I thought I needed a short break.

* Did you regret it? No. It actually made me realise what a catch he was. (Although, after a couple of months, I ended up realising that he's still a catch but he's just not for me.)

* Did you confess it to your partner? No. He never asked so I didn't tell.

* What was his reaction? He has always been paranoid and possessive. Feeling ko nga ang ganda ko nung boyfriend ko siya. Hahaha.

* Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship? We're not together anymore. He didn't give me any closure so I guess that's my karma.

* Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now? I'm still waiting. I told myself that I'll give him a year to change his mind and come back to us before I start dating other blokes again. I'm not a martyr, but I do have a child to consider. 

* What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any? It's alright to cheat, as long as you don't get caught. Kidding! :D
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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #15 on: April 03, 2007, 09:58:51 am »
I haven't done it. Pero if i would do it, i would only have one reason.  I am not happy anymore (he can't make me happy na).

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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #16 on: April 08, 2007, 03:36:03 pm »
I can't say if this is considered as cheating since we're only textmates but we already saw each otrher on friendster. We never got the chance to meet . WHe used to call me on my sun cellular na sim since its unlimited. I iknda regret it later on since I know its wrong. Kaya bigla na lang hindi ko ginamit yun sim na yun up to now, The reason maybe is because he kinda takes me for granted since we're on Long Disatance relationship and super higpit sya.
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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #17 on: April 15, 2007, 01:40:59 am »
I haven't and i don't plan to. I love my partner so much and he's so good to me, i'm not going to do anything that would hurt him.
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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #18 on: April 19, 2007, 03:57:34 am »
kahit pala gaano mo kamahal partner mo pag may dumating na ibang guy na feel mo eh ma aattract kapa rin sa iba. well, attracted ako sa isnag guy now, kababata pa sha ng asawa ko, lagi kami magka chat sa gabi, and i cant explain how i feel pag kausap ko sha, even asawa ko rin pinag uusapan namin.. am i cheating?  ::)
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Re: Have you cheated on your partner?
« Reply #19 on: April 19, 2007, 09:49:55 am »
no
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