Author Topic: Have you cheated on your partner? (Read 107864 times)

greenpease05 · « **Reply #200 on:** June 20, 2010, 02:51:34 pm »

Never say never. I don't know what's going to happen in the future.

I just hope that i could think sensible enough when a temptation arises.

babywasabi · « **Reply #201 on:** June 22, 2010, 03:44:38 pm »

Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
-nung bf ko pa lang siya, yes.
-nung hubby na. not yet

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
-trip lang

Did you regret it?
-yes, at that time

Did you confess it to your partner?
-no

What was his reaction?
-na

Did he forgive you?
-na

Are you still together?
-yes

What did it do to your relationship?
-may times na nagwowonder ako na if i can did it before, i can do it again. bad ko!

Did he not forgive you?
-Nna. hindi naman nya nalaman

How are you doing now?
-were married and he's the man for me but lately napapaisip ako ng kung [textspeak!]-ano. im looking for trouble. haayz

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
-hindi worth it yung sakit ng ulo over guilt and paranoia after cheating

russelle · « **Reply #202 on:** July 10, 2010, 09:42:21 am »

Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
>yes , many times

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
> prng my kulng kc bet smin...den nkita ko dun sa isa...kaya un..

Did you regret it?
> yes super regret..

Did you confess it to your partner?
> nope bt nhuli nya ako sa text

What was his reaction?
> umiyak cia, den he ask me f mahal ko [textspeak!] guy, kung mahal ko daw he'll set me free...

Did he forgive you?
> yup, kc ng explain ako sknya ...sinbi ko lhat bat ko ginwa un..naintindihan nya [textspeak!] ako...

Are you still together?
-yes

What did it do to your relationship?
> as of now were ok n...bat sumtyms i wonder p din..[textspeak!] f tinuloy ko un mag [textspeak!] p din kaya kmi now.. and hapi b ako sa nging dcision ko..

Did he not forgive you?
> he forgive me kasi mahal nya daw ako..and ayaw nya msira rel nmin ...and also d familiy..

How are you doing now?
>were married and were ok [textspeak!]...bt sumtyms napapaip p din...pero cinsabi ko nlng ala [textspeak!] perfect rel db?

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
> ang hirap, kc mrami kng msasaktan...and lumlbas n selfish k..

maxineandreia · « **Reply #203 on:** July 11, 2010, 05:58:56 pm »

* Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever --- YES
* What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons? --- i WANTED TO GET BACK AT HIM FOR MARRYING ANOTHER WOMAN 3 YEARS AFTER WE WERE MARRIED. HIS FAMILY MISTREATED ME.
* Did you regret it? --- IMMENSELY
* Did you confess it to your partner? --- NO AND I DONT INTEND TO
* What was his reaction? --- SANA WAG NA NYA MALAMAN, BAKA PATAYIN NYA ANG LOVER KO
* Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship? --- SO FAR, WE ARE TRYING TO FIX OUR MARRIAGE
* Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now? --- NOT APPLICABLE
* What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any? --- YOU REALLY CAN NOT FIX THINGS BY MAKING A MESS OUT OF ANOTHER THING.

kcjane · « **Reply #204 on:** July 13, 2010, 10:21:30 pm »

Never kahit na bf/gf pa lang kami, napapaisip lang ako, what if i try lang once kaso, naisip ko baka ito pa ikasira ng maganda naming rel at family kaya inaalis ko na lang sa isip ko.

prisma · « **Reply #205 on:** July 14, 2010, 08:57:14 pm »

No I never cheated on hubby but was attracted to some attractive men....heaven forbid if I act on it. Mahirap gawin ang first step na yun.

Once its done, it can't be undone forever.

junetwentythree · « **Reply #206 on:** July 15, 2010, 07:18:53 am »

To those who said they'll never cheat on their partners...I'm just curious...how old are you guys?

honey_iya · « **Reply #207 on:** July 15, 2010, 09:03:05 am »

^Me, turning 30

baby_maryen · « **Reply #208 on:** July 17, 2010, 07:58:19 pm »

Quote from: Msfi on August 04, 2009, 12:55:59 pm

i haven't and i hope na di mangyari...

same here...

kcjane · « **Reply #209 on:** July 17, 2010, 10:03:49 pm »

Why junetweentythree? Whats the connection of cheating and age?

junetwentythree · « **Reply #210 on:** July 19, 2010, 08:50:13 pm »

^ several factors. If you get tied down at a younger age, the tendency to explore further is higher. Also, women who might have never had any other sexual partners othe than their husbands might swing either way. Sexual prime for women is at their 30s and I was curious to see that those who might have readily said they would never cheat, are those who might not have been exposed to temptation yet or at all.

prisma · « **Reply #211 on:** July 19, 2010, 09:13:11 pm »

I married fairly young in today's standard.

Had lots of male friends in the sideline am in, yun iba guwapo/cute/macho but hanggang dun lang, di kaya ng inner conscience ko magtaksil.

Maybe it was the way I was brought up.

But I would feel super betrayed if hubby is having an affair. I expect him to behave like me. I told him, "Hihiwalayan kita agad, no ifs and no buts". Ultimate betrayal kasi ang pagtataksil e, IMO>

honey_iya · « **Reply #212 on:** July 20, 2010, 09:45:28 am »

Me din, kinasal ako ng 23...first bf si hubby, only girl ako sa office...nung nag abroad si hubby andaming tuksong umaaligid pero wala eh, iniisip ko palang na papatol ako eh nandidiri na ako. di ko lubos maisip na makipag relasyon other than my hubby

ebbah · « **Reply #213 on:** July 21, 2010, 02:21:29 pm »

hell NO! hinding hindi ko magagawa yun. not only because i love him so much its just that sa sarili ko tama nakakasuka...actually, i am one of the boys type or boyish type kasi yoko na mabastos in any way. mas maganda na alam nilang hindi sila uubra sken noh. and if hubby cheated on me..HIWALAY TALAGA..because i've been GOOD all this time. he is one lucky guy for having me. LOL

longing · « **Reply #214 on:** July 21, 2010, 03:31:24 pm »

No!!! I have high self-respect and do not want to change that. Even though my hubby cheated on me (hiwalay kami now) I will not get even by cheating on him as well.

sxymnky · « **Reply #215 on:** July 22, 2010, 10:11:56 am »

nope...i can't love two person at the same time

kcjane · « **Reply #216 on:** July 23, 2010, 12:51:40 am »

Quote from: junetwentythree on July 19, 2010, 08:50:13 pm

^ several factors. If you get tied down at a younger age, the tendency to explore further is higher. Also, women who might have never had any other sexual partners othe than their husbands might swing either way. Sexual prime for women is at their 30s and I was curious to see that those who might have readily said they would never cheat, are those who might not have been exposed to temptation yet or at all.

well sis junetweetythree im must agree with you, but basically it depends,different stroke for different folks...

Vera · « **Reply #217 on:** July 31, 2010, 06:13:10 pm »

I don't think I will. Here's why:

I won't cheat because I lack sex. In fact, my husband is, by far, the best lover I've had.

I have to be intellectually stimulated by the other person in order for me to even think about him. The only person who makes me laugh 'til my tummy hurts is my husband.

I am very loyal and my hands are full everyday, there's just no time to mingle with other men, unless it's business.

nadialicious16 · « **Reply #218 on:** August 04, 2010, 09:02:27 pm »

mentally yes !

kettlekorn28 · « **Reply #219 on:** August 04, 2010, 09:55:45 pm »

Nung mag-bf/gf pa lang kami, YUP. I'm kinda young back then at uso pa ang mga textmates.

Nung married na, YUP. It was only an emotional cheating. The affair lasted for a week, that was almost 3 months ago.

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