Have you cheated on your partner?

[sxymnky]

never say never mga sis! cheating is never planned!

i totally agree 
things happens..unexpectedly

[sassyrosel]

one guily here.

[miss resilient]

^ok.

never  pa 

hehe...safe answer..

cheating na bang matatawag if you kissed goodbye to that other man?

[tsabadodo]

emotionally... im so inlove with someone else...

hay, im sad naman about this post. ang hirap siguro ng situation mo, sis.

as for the topic, nope. Never have reason to cheat.

[jelly]

makapagshare na nga din.
Yes..yun unang bf ko iniwan ko for my 2nd bf...di ko na talaga kasi mahal..si 2nd bf ayun sobrang mahal ko. Mali pala yun pag sa mali nagstart ayun...di din maganda ending.
Tagal din namin ni 2nd bf hanggang sa dumating yun araw na na parang di ko na nararamdaman love niya ako dinadaan niya sa pera. Ayun may nanligaw sa akin na fall ako pero nagawa ko lang para magpapansin never sa isip ko na seryosohan kasi mahal ko si 2nd bf. Nung nalaman niya..nahuli niya ako sa cellphone...sabi ko maghiwalay na kami kasi naguguilty naman ako...ayun ayaw niya...so nagresign ako sa work kasi andun yun guy..para kay 2nd bf..pumunta ko ng US para magwork para kay 2nd bf...siya naman nagloko..
I learned what goes around comes around...di mo matatakasan yun mga nagawa mo.
Now i'm married with 2 kids..yun eldest anak ni 2nd bf...pero happy ako kasi mabait yun asawa ko.tinanggap niya lahat...si 2nd bf he asked me nung bago ako magpakasal kay hubby if naisip ko ba na asan kami kung kami nagkatuluyan...sabi ko di ko na naisip kasi nga mas masaya na ako kasi tinama lahat ng mali ko.god's perfect timing tawag ko sa nangyari sa amin.

[graze24]

only in my mind but never will!

[maristela]

   He cheated on me too by the way

 * Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever? - Emotionally, YES.
    * What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons? --i don't know. it just happened.
    * Did you regret it? - Yes
    * Did you confess it to your partner? -Yes
    * What was his reaction? - Hurt
    * Did he forgive you?- Yes
 Are you still together? -Yes
What did it do to your relationship? - I'm considering it as trial. Now, our relaton ship as husband and wife is much stronger makes us more mature in our decisions.
    * Did he not forgive you? -NO. How are you doing now? - Very very happy.
    * What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any- Love your partner. Be contented. Cherish your  time while you're still together. and most importantly, learn to forgive and learn from your mistakes.

[karaj03]

nope.. never ko naisip kahit our marriage went through its worst times already.

[Super_MALDITA]

yes, when we were not married yet. it was vday and he doesn't care about it so i dated another guy. he didn't know anything about it until now. i didn't regret doing it because the guy is a good friend of mine. i just wonder what if he's the one i end up with will i be happier... regrets...sigh

[otherme]

guilty. long long time ago. still haunts me sometimes
now another man is coming on the picture but been telling/convincing myself to stop stop stop...
haaayy hirap pigilin ng emotions. buti na lang kahit papano nanalo pa rin ang utak..

[reese**]

never!... until i met someone i like soo much. i never even though na magagawa ko kasi sobrang eng-eng ako sa hubby ko talaga sa kamartiran, before.. never na entertain sa thoughts ko.

[sexyvamp]

start pa lang ng relationship namin gusto ko sana maging solid, malinis kaso sya na mismo naglagay ng lamat. gusto ko nga din gawin sa kanya yung ginagawa nya e para maramdaman nya na nakakainis pala, minsan akala nya di cheating yung pag tingin sa pic ng kung sino sinong babae, yung mga videochat, sabi nya hanggang tingin lang naman daw, e kung ako kaya gumawa nun, kaya lang thats not my thing,,kaya nga nakakainis di naman ako nag ccheat sa kanya tapos sya nag ccheat, be fair naman

[madelline]

•Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
bf-yes...sa lahat ng naging bf ko from 2nd bf..

•What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
kase when i first got hurt sa 1st relationship ko i made sure na bago nila ako maloko ako muna manloloko so kapag may ginawa na sila i will call it "quits"hihi i know its bad but i was so much devastated with my 1st relationship sobra!

•Did you regret it?
nope never,what ive noticed was when you cheat you get more sweeter and thoughtful the same way that you made him fall for more to you hihi..i'd say it somehow adds up spark in your relationship.

•Did you confess it to your partner?
never and never will...anyway,guys motto din yun "kahit huling huli na never aamin dapat" at may karugtong ako dun "magkaduguan man ng ilong at kung [textspeak!] [textspeak!] pang body parts"

•What was his reaction?
he's way sweeter...guess why?

•Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
•Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?
N/A

•What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
do all the things you know what is right for you for as long as you know your limitations,stay positive and never be influenced by any body...live your dreams,find your freedom,live your life

[wingding]

nope..not yet!! but i probably will when this hot guy comes along..landiiii!!!

[Minakichu]

Before I was always a cheater but now no more. Nakahanap ako ng katapat! Hehe. Pero mas happy maging faithful pala, ang gaan ng feeling. Kakastress Lang magsinungaling and magtago. So I don't believe in the saying once a cheater always a cheater.

[cosmochick]

Have you ever cheated on your bf?
- yes.lot of times like entertaining suitors pa rin. Yeah, I was bad.

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
boredom,the excitement of flirting

Did you regret it?
- no. it was fun.

Did you confess it to your partner?
- no.

What was his reaction?
-

Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
-no, we broke up because he was cheating on me din pala =p

Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?
- he never knew about my escapades. im very happy now.

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
- flirt all u want, just hide it well..haha

[slovy]

To be honest, there was the time na muntik-muntik na talaga. Pero nong panahong iyon, hindi pa kami kasal. Live in pa lang. That time kasi siguro insecure lang talaga ako, her ex arrived from the states, tumawag sa bahay at nagkita pa sila, sa isang mall somewhere in makati. Na misinterpret ko iyon, noong nabasa ko iyong text kala ko may ugnayan pa din sila. Kaya ako din, sabi ko sa sarili ko kung kaya niya, kaya ko din. May workmate na nanligaw sa akin noon, nakipagdate din ako. And sabi ko, wait siya ng 2 days sasagutin ko na siya.

Pag-uwi ko ng bahay, waah nandon ni si hubby, he asked me saan ako galing. Sagot ko pakialam mo? kasi galit ako dahil nga nakipagkita pa siya sa ex niya. Then he told me "alam ko kinagaganyan mo, hindi mo ko naintindihan eh". Sabi ko, sira ka ba? panu kita maintindihan, eh nagsasama na tayo, nakikipagkita ka pa rin?tama ba iyon?kung gusto mo maghiwalay, sabihin mo kaagad. wag ganito! Then he said, no it's not true, let me explain.. so pinapaliwanag ko siya. Iyon pala, obsessed sa kanya iyong ex niya, kasi sa phone lang sila nag break gusto niya personal daw niya masasabi kasi hindi naiintindihan nong girl. Kumbaga wala silang formal break-up noong una, iyon daw pala dahilan niya kaya siya nakipagkita.. Sa sobrang pagmamahal niya sa akin, ayaw daw niya na magulo pa kami nong girl na iyon. Kasi hiondi daw niya kaya mawala ako sa kanya. Umiiyak pa siya that time kasi ako naman may pack up things pang nalalaman. hehe.
Sabi ko maniniwala ba ako sa asawa ko? hindi pa din ako naconvince until sumapit na iyong palugit ko doon sa co-worker ko. Muntik na talaga akong mapasagot.. Kung hindi siya tumawag sa akin na nakapagpabago ng isip ko, naku hiwalay na siguro kami ngayon.
I realized na hindi siya deserving kung gawin ko sa kanya iyon, he loves me so much pala talaga.. Sensya na napahaba masyado. hehe

[iristacey]

^nice one sis..

ako never nagcheat and hope to remain faithful ever

[honey-ecclaire]

Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
-nung bf ko sya,yes i dated with other guys but with no attachments ha,
-hubby ko na sya-definitely NO!NEVER!

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
-kase i know na hindi pa ganun ka-serious ang relationship namin..

Did you regret it?
-yes-pagnamemention na,inaasar nya ako for fun lang naman

Did you confess it to your partner?
-yes,
What was his reaction?
-nagulat at ayun nagtampo.
Did he forgive you?
-yes naman,po he understand na hindi pa kami ganun kaseryoso sa relationship namin eh,
 Are you still together?
-yes
 What did it do to your relationship?
-stronger
Did he not forgive you?
-No
How are you doing now?
-very much fine and inlove!
What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
-just focus on your relationship

[litonglito]

Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever? ~Yes, to my hubby.
What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons? ~lagi kami nagaaway non. minsa nasasaktan nya ako. pero according to him, hindi daw masasabing pananakit yon kasi hindi daw malakas at hindi masakit.
~naging malapit din ako sa barkada. na nawalan na pala ako ng time sa kanya na d ko man lang namalayan
Did you regret it?
~Yes kasi sobrang mahal na mahal ko sya. bakit ko sya nagawang saktan at lokohin

Did you confess it to your partner? ~ NO pero nahuli nya ako

What was his reaction? ~ SOBRANG GALIT. iyak ng iyak. walang ginawa kung hindi sumbatan ako.. nasasaktan nya ako physically. pero tinatanggap ko yun kasi kasalanan ko kung bakit sya nagkaganon. almost 2 months na ngayon pero ganun parin ang status ng relasyon namin ngayon. hindi lilipas ang isang oras na hindi nya ako sinusumbatan. nahihirapan na daw sya. hindi daw nya ako kayang iwan kasi mahal nya ako. pero wala na syang tiwala at hindi nya daw ako mapapatawad at mataggap. hindi din daw sya masaya. pero MAHAL nya daw ako.

in my part, hirap na hirap narin ako kasi lahat ng gusto nya ginagawa ko, lahat ng sabihin nya sinusunod ko. dahil gusto ko mapatunayan sa kanya na sobrang nagsisisi ako. at ayaw kong magkahiwalay kami.

Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship? Yes we're still together pero sabi nya hindi pa nya ako mapatawad. umaasa ako na isang araw magiging maayos na kami.

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any? ~MADAMI. communication is important sa mag asawa. tsaka dapat faithgful ang isat isa.