Have you cheated on your partner?

[scorpiowolf]

no never. I cant imagine cheating on my husband I wouldnt be able to live with myself. Even during the times were separated di ko kaya.

Funny thing is he's sp convinced that Im sneaky and capable of cheating. He is as paranoid as can be. Maybe bec thinkers are doers

[beaupink]

nope. malaking kasalanan yan.

[nightingale]

oo...bakit naman kasi kung ano yung bawal eh yun ang masarap!

[aaron]

hahaha!...taray....

[joden]

nope...and i never even dream of doing it.

[smartmom]

Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever? yes when he's still my bf

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons nasasakal na ako and the harsh treatment that i get from his closet gay brother...

Did you regret it? partially

Did you confess it to your partner? yup when he ask me about it

What was his reaction? nagwala

Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship? yup he did, we already have a family of our own, i think it's really meant to happen inorder for us to grow and understand each other deeper.

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any? huwag gawing reason ang treatment ng family ng other party para lumabas sa isang relationship. you can both survive without them.

[ReservoirDogs]

I can confidently say that I haven't and I never will.

It's not because I love my boyfriend so much, blah blah, but for me time is gold.  I hate wasting my time.  I also hate emotional complications, that's my Achilles' heel.  If I juggle my time between two guys, sayang ang oras ko sa sarili ko.  Plus, kapag nagaaway kami ng bf ko, sira buong araw ko, paano pa kaya ang dalawa ang umaaway sa akin.  And lastly, gastos lang pag dalawa ang boylets ko.  E kung single ako, at least sa akin pa lahat ng pera ko (selfish, I know).

My reason for not cheating is practicality, not based on emotions.

[angeleigh]

Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
**hmm well...i dont consider it cheating since wala naman kami nung nagkaron ako ng iba...but hindi niya alam yun...so cheating pa rin ata yun? hehe

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
**hmm wala lang. mabait at super sweet kasi yung isang guy. siguro namiss ko lang yung ganung feeling. d na kasi sweet si bf nun e.

Did you regret it?
**nope. it was a memorable experience. tho i may not say it was commendable...sumaya talaga ako nung time na yun.

Did you confess it to your partner?
**nope. takot ako e.

What was his reaction?
**---malamang magalit yun.

Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
**hmm i would like to believe that he will forgive me kung malaman niya, since wala naman kami non. pero malamang mabawasan ang confidence niya sa relationship namin. hehe

Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?
** ---

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
**that other man can make me happy maybe for a day, month or even a year...but only one man can make me really happy for the rest of my life, and that is my h2b.

[baby_blue]

A big NO.

[bona_shell]

NO... sana siya din sakin..

[snowberry]

I guess it's easy to say "Never" due to many factors. When a girl gets married almost 100% of the time, cheating is not even a part of their vocabulary. They want a happy ever after with the one they're marrying with. 

Another very important factor is the opportunity. Lots of wives would say no just because wala namang temptation, wala namang nanliligaw na iba, wala namang nagkakagusto, ofcourse it's a given, cheating will not cross their minds kung wala namang ibang lalaking papatol. Nothing to fight with. Walang temptation. Walang pag-iisipan. Just business as usual type of life. As in "no" "no" "no" to cheating.

Now if a wife is abused in many aspects by a husband and this wife is beautiful, charming and the type, na nililigawan pa rin kahit may asawa na, and yung mga nanliligaw has a lot more to offer,  and the wife chose to be faithful, this is extra admirable, kasi mayron talaga siyang nilabanan. Meron talaga siyang pinanindigan.

just my humble opinion. hindi lang ako nagpapa-ka-hypocrite and I'm being realistic.

Admirable pala ko heheh. Modesty  aside,  I encountered such guys . Sometimes they didn't think that I am married with 2 kids . But I am a straight woman..( no offense meant sa iba )  never sumagi sa isip ko lokohin asawa ko kahit na marami akong dissappointments sa kanya.

[funhacker]

Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
**hindi siya cheating e. hindi kami nun pero we were fixing things. natempt ako e.

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
**confusion and depression.

Did you regret it?
**yes.

Did you confess it to your partner?
**yes.

What was his reaction?
**don't do it again..

Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
**yes. he cheated on me din kasi. so we agreed na, playing time is over.

Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?
**yes. not really okay.

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
**THINK FIRST..

[anziaski]

i haven't... napapatingin at napapaisip but my hubby outweigh anybody who comes along the way. 

[ayrise]

Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
yes, the works but no sex involved, not even torrid kissing.. just romance

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
we have been experiencing problems, i believe kasama na ang weak spirituality. i told him many times about it which would always lead to arguments but now he claims i should have said something to which i did naman talaga

Did you regret it?
mixed feelings.. i somewhat agree with the quote at the top. i feel guilty for succumbing but i know id feel guiltier if i didnt take the risk.

Did you confess it to your partner?
yes, i couldnt live a lie, some people can, but i couldnt. hes so good to me, he deserves to know. i do feel bad telling him but it would be worse if he heard it from another person.

What was his reaction?
he cried, he said he's split in half. he still loves me (so do i) but he is hurting

Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
he did, i couldnt forgive myself. we were supposed to start anew then i realized we needed time apart to asses our feelings for each other. i feel his anger towards me, the self respect was an issue too.

i decided that we should take time apart to which he tearfully agreed in hopes that all will be well soon enough, he said he will wait for me, i promised to come back but i dont know when. he said hes hoping before christmas, i dont know when il be ready to forgive myself.

Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?
he did forgive me, its me.. i cant forgive myself. im crushed and lost, i feel i dont know myself anymore (im crying as i answer these questions)

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
to live a life without regrets, everything happens for a greater purpose, we all have choices and decisions to make.

i was lurking on this topic for days now .. and i came across this post by sis cher.liman .. we have the same situation .. sis do you think you can still find your way back to him?? ..

kasi im asking for time away from him din .. to think things out .. kasi i have developed a deep feeling for the other guy already ..  but we ended things eventhough pareho kaming hirap kasi we both knew we had to do the right thing..

[ayrise]

hmm i think i would like to answer this post.. 

Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?   yes ..


What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
 Long Distance Relationship, no communication with my hubby, patong patong na marital problems.. the guy swept me off my feet.. i found with him what was missing with my relationship with my husband..


Did you regret it?  no .. because i was very happy that time..


Did you confess it to your partner?  no.. he didnt ask. my hubby was oblivious to our marital problems since we are on LDR. and he was too busy with other things.. until now that he felt im drifting away ..


Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship? i ended the affair.. my hubby and I are trying to work things out but i ask for space.. kasi i really felt that i am falling out of love for him .. maybe its because of the affair .. maybe because of LDR and our marital problems but i want to think things out .. i am not happy anymore.. i dont want to live a lie and pretend to still love him just for the sake of our kid.. of course i will try to fix it.. but i wont settle with him just because we are married if there is no love at all.. 

[princessmia08]

Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?

When we were still going out, not yet married, I did. It was with my first love pero communication via text and email lang kasi he's abroad

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
He was my first love. I didn't know he loves me back. Pretty Pathetic but it was like, "grab that chance, see what it feels like, if you don't you'll end up speculating for the rest of your life"

Did you regret it?
no. hubby knows naman. hindi lang siya nagrereact kasi malayo naman daw, haha

Did you confess it to your partner?
yes, my hubby is my bestfriend, magswiswitch mode muna kami pag may kailangan akong sabihing secret sa kanya and I tell him the other guy's text and messages. Sabi niya, I'm your Chandler, He's your Richard (from FRIENDS)

What was his reaction?
haha, keber lang siya, kasi nga he knows I love him more. It was just an unfinished business between my first love and me

Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
He got me pregnant, loko loko haha, so we got married, no regrets.

Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?
Am ok, first love and me are friends again, hubby's ok with it

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
Chandler and Monica have the greatest love story of all.

[nightingale]

Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?   yes ..

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
must have gotten bored with the 6-year relationship, I found somebody much, much exciting. I felt wonderful and happy and important and beautiful.

Did you regret it?  no .. he made me very very happy.

Did you confess it to your partner?  no. He asked me once, but I denied it. However, I think he suspected, otherwise he wouldn't have asked. 

Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship? Not anymore. after nine months in the affair, I realized I fell out of love with the old guy, and that I fell in love with the new guy. So I left the old relationship to start a new one with the new man in my life.

It has been 8 months since I left my old relationship, 1 yr & a half with the new guy. I do not have any regrets, I have never been happier.
Whenever I look back, I think about how reluctant I was to leave the old relationship, and how unsure I was that I would be happy with the new guy. Now, my only regret is that  didn't leave the old relationship earlier.

[Lady Shiva]

never did...never will. ayoko kasi gawin sa kin yun.

[plainhw]

never

[glarivethjolema]

nope, not yet...