Have you cheated on your partner?

[mitch03536]

No. And i dont have plans on doing so.
     Remember the golden rule, dont do to others what you dont want others to do unto you.

[seagirl]

so far nope, but im not sure what will happen in the future, sana hindi pa rin.
I'm not good in lying if i did something definitely ill confess it to him.
Besides im not sure if i could bear the consequences of cheating.

I've had my naughty days, ive done this ive done that, pero si bf lang ang naka sama ko sa bed. maybe nagsawa na ko sa ganung life.

[bzmom]

no, and no plans at all

[irish_pearl]

hindi pa..ayoko rin kasing gawin skin yun eh..

[acee]

never...i value myself and i dont want to loss such respect for myself..and also i dont want to put my family into shameful circumstances.

I have been cheated, but i dont want to commit same mistake for it will forever haunt you.

[paulka]

Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
Ive been to 2 serious relationship, and in both rel, yes i did.

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
with the first bf, out of anger bec. he lied when i had complete trust on him
with 2nd bf - im no longer happy or in love with him but he doesnt want to let me go.

Did you regret it?
in all the things i did in life nasty or bad, i never regret it.
Did you confess it to your partner?
1st bf - No, sumbody told him (which is 2nd bf)
2nd bf - No, for me he doesnt need to know. But he suspects.

What was his reaction?
They both call me names, like im a selfish b****.

Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
first bf - he still loves me up to now though 3 yrs n kme seperated. 
2nd bf - yes we are patching things up but it'll take a very very long time

Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?
obviously yes

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
I learned that there are times that i will have relapse on being bratty and bitchy though im already mature and that i need to still used my head above all.

[rhei_coolmom]

I was just soo like you guys.. I knew I will not cheat on my hub, not in my wildest dreams.. I was raised with my morality intact..  I am a good and God-fearing person..

but recently, I got involved with someone.. although walang physical intimacy.. I knew I loved the guy.  I keep on brushing off my emotions but it just stays there.. I just know that I am happy coz he loves me din despite of the fact that I have sabit na.  I got married early (coz I got pregnant) and I am still young.. I am only 26.  My hub cheated on me a few years back.  But please don't get me wrong.. I did this not because I want to avenge myself.. I love my husband soooo much and I love him more than the guy, but I know I love the other guy din kasi and it saddens me na I know, no matter how good his heart is, no matter how good our relationship is.. I know I couldn't keep him.. Others may not understand.. others may view me as as a low-morale woman.. others may curse me.. but i know, i did it because of love and of other things..  being a woman is really so difficult because of how society views and expects them to act.. I feel guilty all the time, I feel horrible.. but I know.. I am happy because someone is loving me unconditionally.. though short-lived.

[kramyoj30]

layoan mo na lang sis! mas mahirap kung ipagpatuloy mo pa yan. lalo ka lang masasaktan... 

[23and14]

yes.. one time sa ex ko before. pero ngayon good girl na ako. graduate na ako sa ganyan.

[rhei_coolmom]

yep.. it's hard lang talaga because of the friendship we have na.. abandoning this feeling may affect everything pero I know it's the right thing to do.. [textspeak!] when I grow old.. i will always have a smile on my face everytime i remember this guy.. actually may GF na rin sia and may plans na to settle down in 3 years time.. i have no plans naman of ruining their relationship kaya we never attempt to go farther.. cgro we'll always have this special bond pero hanggang dun na lang cgro.. thanks for listening.. really appreciate it.. sympre wala naman ako masabihan na iba so dito na lang..  Ãœ

[hubsch]

    * Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
yes. once. twice? blahblah.

    * What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
long distance relationship

    * Did you regret it?
absolutely yes.

    * Did you confess it to your partner?
yes..

    * What was his reaction?
he got mad, but we talked about it. i apologized.. and he said okay lang kahit anong gawin ko..mahal niya daw talaga ko e..

    * Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
yesssssssss. and yesss. infact 2 years na kami sa march.. it made our relationship STRONGER!

    * What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
never do it again..hahaha.

[lesters_gal]

Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
-yes with my ex bf

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
-i dont love him anymore.

Did you regret it?
-NO.


Did you confess it to your partner?
-NO.i was caught in the act.LOL

What was his reaction?
-he cried of course and curse me.

Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
-i dont know kung napatawad nya na ako.wer no longer together.we broke up


Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?
siguro before nung bago palang,but i think now napatawad nya na ako.tagal na kasi nun.he has a new gf now.im perfectly ok now.im happy being single.

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
do what ever you think that will make you happy and dont regret anything.

[angelspawn]

Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
~ yes...

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
~ nasira trust nya sa kin... we're still working on it. pero since nagkalamat na, hindi ganun kadali ibalik yun. i'll do anything mabalik lang yun.

Did you regret it?
~ no.


Did you confess it to your partner?
~ no, he saw our pictures. tapos na yung affair nung nalaman nya.

What was his reaction?
~ he cried, asked me several times why i did it. he cursed the guy...

Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
~ yes, he forgave me. we're still together. just like what i mentioned, nagkalamat ang trust nya sa kin ngayon. we're more open & now he knows pwede pa ko mawala sa kanya & pwede din syang mawala sa kin. kaya double time kami sa pag work on making our relationship work.

Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?
~ he forgave me na, pero of course, hindi naman ganun kadali na makalimutan yun. we're doing fine... mas sweet kami ngayon sa isat isa...

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
~ i'm weak... nasaktan ko si bf. hindi na dapat maulit kung ayaw kong mawala sya sa kin. sobrang sakit ng ginawa ko sa kanya, pero nagawa pa rin nya kong tanggapin at bigyan ng second chance.

[-riarz-]

Never. Ayokong makarma.

[hapi_prego]

nope, not even in my dreams 

[caron]

no. mahal ko hubby ko eh.

[mitch03536]

no and i never will.

[cati]

nope....I don't even think about it

[junetwentythree]

^^ Excellent points, sis cristeen.

I often wonder how women are able to quickly respond a "never" when questioned about the possibility of straying from their current partners. I mean, no one knows what life will bring, nothing is infinite and nothing stays the same. Even love can't save some relationships. That's just a fact. The world is not black and white, and one would never really know how to answer the question of infidelity unless you're actually in that situation.

And karma? I noticed that in all of these types of threads, there's always quite a bit who mention it. These so-called karmic forces that have people afraid to live their lives somehow, inhibiting them from exploring options that one might have outside of their comfort zone -- I mean who governs these forces? And who in the world said there's such a thing? When things happen, they happen for a reason. Not because you're getting what you deserve from having done something horrible, because if this is the case, then we all should be suffering the consequences somehow since none of us are guilt free.

[joy.0116]

The question is ... Have you cheated on your partner?
The answer. no.

If the questions were different, the answers would have been different too.
E.g. 
1. Are you cheating on your partner?
2. Have you even thought of the possibility of cheating your partner?   
3. Will you cheat your partner?