Have you cheated on your partner?

[xtinebaya]

big NO NO!

[loveden]

Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
- yes.

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
- i had a male chat-mate na naging labasan ko ng loob k hubby, nung times na we can't (because he doesn't want to) talk over simple things, even about our day, our problems and arguments. lagi pa mainit ulo ni hubby, konting ano [textspeak!], walang pinalalampas. hanggang sa [textspeak!] labasan ko ng loob, developed into something deeper than just online buddies, and he went here in phils. at kasabwat ko pa mom ko, dahil nung times na yun, she can't bear hubby na din and can't stand seeing me often crying. thats cool atleast may npaglabasan ka ng sama ng loob and you carry it well...

Did you regret it?
- nope.

Did you confess it to your partner?
- will never.

What was his reaction?
-

Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
-yes were still together and got stronger. because nung time na ok na si hubby and he's trying to talk with me na and have conversations, and got sweeter, ako na mismo [textspeak!] umiwas dun sa chat-mate ko, dali [textspeak!] naman eh, 

Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?
- i think he never will if he learned.

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
- it's fun  feeling pretty ka  but seriously, im sure you'll learn something which i dont know excatly what it was, but you'll know, it'll change you. and you'll even realize how important and how much you love your partner, even after betraying him. i think that's it.

[loveden]

^thats cool! atleast may napaglabasan ka ng sama ng loob.. and you carry it well...

[angel07]

No and i will never do that

[princess fiona]

yup,,,yung exbf ko i cheated him like twice yata...bf1 ko [textspeak!](province),nagke 2nd bf(manila) ako, then bf 3(abroad). i broke up with bf 2, then with bf 1. while bf 3 is abroad i went back with bf1 then constantly seeing bf2 if im in manila..

[princess fiona]

Ok. NO judgments please. Definitely no "name-calling". We're all mature people here. We use this forum to LEARN and not to bash other people.  If you are sensitive to this topic, just leave. Generally they say men cheat for seks and because they're a$$. Women has other reasons. They also say, before a woman cheats, she knew in her life she would never do it until she has done it. Let's try to understand it.

• Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?

bf yup

• What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?

curiousity

• Did you regret it?

yup

• Did you confess it to your partner?
• What was his reaction?
• Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
• Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?
• What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?

love the person, accept him for what he is

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[PinKisH_23]

* Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever? Yes, nung bf ko palang sya (as in sex)

* What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Hmm.. bago palang kami nun, wala pang nangyayari sa amin, so nung one time my ex told me to come over to his house, accidentally may nangyari. hehe

* Did you regret it? Yeah

* Did you confess it to your partner? No. He never asked so I didn't tell.

[cher.liman]

Women have other reasons. They also say, before a woman cheats, she knew in her life she would never do it until she has done it.

Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
yes, the works but no sex involved, not even torrid kissing.. just romance

What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
we have been experiencing problems, i believe kasama na ang weak spirituality. i told him many times about it which would always lead to arguments but now he claims i should have said something to which i did naman talaga

Did you regret it?
mixed feelings.. i somewhat agree with the quote at the top. i feel guilty for succumbing but i know id feel guiltier if i didnt take the risk.

Did you confess it to your partner?
yes, i couldnt live a lie, some people can, but i couldnt. hes so good to me, he deserves to know. i do feel bad telling him but it would be worse if he heard it from another person.

What was his reaction?
he cried, he said he's split in half. he still loves me (so do i) but he is hurting

Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
he did, i couldnt forgive myself. we were supposed to start anew then i realized we needed time apart to asses our feelings for each other. i feel his anger towards me, the self respect was an issue too.

i decided that we should take time apart to which he tearfully agreed in hopes that all will be well soon enough, he said he will wait for me, i promised to come back but i dont know when. he said hes hoping before christmas, i dont know when il be ready to forgive myself.

Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?
he did forgive me, its me.. i cant forgive myself. im crushed and lost, i feel i dont know myself anymore (im crying as i answer these questions)

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
to live a life without regrets, everything happens for a greater purpose, we all have choices and decisions to make.

[mitch03536]

     Big no no. No reason to, happy naman pareho.  as of now, he! he!
     Before i got married and while engaged, i met all my previous bf's one after the other on a group date to check my feelings para wala ako mapagsisihan. one bf i still like and may chemistry pa, but i realized i love na talaga my fiancee. so no regrets.
     with work naman, before i found someone intellectually stimulating but on a mind level lang. and i kept that friend on that level, office friend and nothing more. and he transferred office already.

[satya]

never...i just love him so much...i dont think im capable of doing that

[jzle]

Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
-NO!!
What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
-No reason to do it at all..
Did you regret it?
-No!! We're very happy and very much in love with each other..
Did you confess it to your partner?
-Nothing to confess...
What was his reaction?
-No reaction at all since i dont have something to confess..
Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
-We're very much together..
Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?
-So happy and contented..
What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
-Dont do unto others what you dont want others to do unto you.

[annegelly]

Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
-Yes
What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
-Hindi ko alam why
Did you regret it?
-Yes, Big Time!
Did you confess it to your partner?
-Yes.
What was his reaction?
-Naghiwalay kami ni hubby and nagkaroon na siya ng gf after 2weeks.
Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
-He did. Right now mas careful kami and sensitive sa needs at concerns ng isat-isa.
Did he not forgive you? How are you doing now?
-So happy and contented..
What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
-Dont do unto others what you dont want others to do unto you.

[mitch03536]

     no talaga and no pa talaga, he! he! takot ako sa golden rule: Dont do unto others what you don't others to do unto you.

[c0oki3witch]

Have you ever cheated on bf or hubby ever?
-I tried not to but still lead to it
What were the circumstances that led you to doing that? Reasons?
-naging [textspeak!] sya sa work as in todo before were together everyday pero nung times n yun every sunday n [textspeak!] to attent a mass lang wala pang two hours yun
tpos may nangungulet sa aken sa office i thought he was just joking so nakiride naman ako pero totoo pala sa kanya pero i enjoyed his company kasi he knows what i what and he does what my bf dont

Did you regret it?
- yes, pero what an experience din hehe

Did you confess it to your partner?
-Yes.

What was his reaction?
-he cried. and his angry on his self and the demands on his work but he never shown any anger on me.

Did he forgive you? Are you still together? What did it do to your relationship?
He did. He still accept me. were still together and it made our relationship stronger

How are you doing now?
-So happy and so lucky to have him

What's the best lesson you ever learned from this if there's any?
do what ever you think that will make you happy but you must learn to accept the consequence on your actions or decision.

[grumpybear]

Nope. Ma-pride kasi ako eh. I don't like doing things na tinatago or kinakahiya. I'm also on the arrogant side of the spectrum so it just does not seem to consistent with my personality.

[lheng06]

         

[jowney]

i don't see the need to cheat when i can just get out of the relationship if wanna go out with other people.

i believe it's all about making decisions.

[mayie]

No. I don't want to hurt the person whom I love so much and love me more. But temptation is just around the corner. My ex-officemate trying to flirt with me and asking for a date (watching movies, eat out). It's a matter of saying "NO". Wala naman magagawa yung mga yun if hindi mo sila papatulan. Also, takot din ako sa karma. Lastly, the golden rule: Dont do unto others what you dont want others to do unto you

[daybreaker]

never... and never will!

I owe it not only to my husband but most importantly sa only daughter ko.  I can't afford to give my daughter a shameful memory na she will carry for the rest of her life.  May takot din ako kay Father God so that alone can keep me distant with temptations.

[aaron]

nope!..but i'm not closing my doors to the idea...na pag ginawa sa akin ni hubby, gagawin ko rin sa kanya..yan ang panakot ko sa kanya..mas masakit kaya sa kanya yon syempre babae ako..laking kahihiyan sa kanya yon..

i'm the type of person na ayaw kong naiisahan ako..kung ano gagawin nya yon din ang kabayaran..o sobra pa..kaya umiiwas din sya sa mga ganyan kasi alam nya palaban ako..