What do you think of the saying once you stop looking you will find someone?

[galilio1]

I think it's more about not putting pressure on yourself rather than not looking. I went into my first date with my now spouse telling myself that it wouldn't work out and was just a practice date since I had so little dating experience 10.0.0.0.1 192.168.1.254 . I was pretty comfortable since I figured I'd never see her again.