Divorce over Relocation?

[g1ilcas1]

My wife is saying she wants a divorce if I refuse to move 1000 miles away. She says the location will be better for her and I should support her. We have been arguing about this off and on for a few months. I have a job that I like that pays all the bills, has health insurance, and a 401k. My family and support system are all here. She is a social media influencer and her family is not in this country. I love this woman but I don't want to move and feel it will be a backwards step. Originally we were going to pay off some bills and buy a house. Then she decided moving far away was better. I feel like she is not considering me in any of this. And I am worried if I do move, I will end up resenting her for it.