I'm married and I want to be with someone else

[empress]

I don't know how to start...

Married for 3 years, no kids, and about to start building our dream house. Lately, I've been feeling that I don't love my husband anymore. Nasa familiarity stage na kasi and yung feeling na stuck ka. Maraming beses ko na din na winish na sana single pa rin ako. Namimiss ko yung days that I was single -- partying, traveling, dating. S

Just sharing my dilemma. Baka sakaling may maka-relate or may gustong mag advise.

[TomHansen]

Ang pagkakaalam ko normal lang makaramdam na hindi ka na masaya sa relatioship lalo na married dahil araw araw kayong magkasama(unless ldr kayo).  You want excitement and attention, pero nabanggit mo na ba ya sa husband mo? For me kasi parang mali na dahil bored ka hahanapin mo na agad sa ibang tao yung needs mo - nasa marriage kayo and responsibility niyo na gumawa ng paraan to spice up your marriage kung feeling mong matumal. Tigilan mo pagiging selfish empress dahil ngayon pa lang ang laki na ng kasalanan mo sa asawa mo. Ayaw mo siyang masaktan pero nasa edge ka na at ang kulang na lang is malaman niya na may kalandian ka na. I know it's your life at ang habol mo lang is maging masaya but please sana sa tamang paraan. Sana itigil mo na communication sa fling mo, try to work on your relationship tapos kung ayaw talagang magwork then saka mo hiwalayan at saka ka humanap ng iba.

At yung ka fling mo, sana wag mo masyadong purihin dahil di siya nag-oopen ng conversation tungkol sa sex - hindi naman kasi talaga yun ang dapat. And to think nilalandi ka niya knowing na married at nagsasama pa kayo ng husband mo, yan ba ang kapalit palit sa asawa mo?

[kaythrielle]

Dapat hindi mo na sineseryoso yang chat chat na yan. Natural nakakakilig kasi umpisa pa lang....just like your relationship with your husband of 3 years. Nag-umpisa rin naman siguro kayo sa kilig stage... pero look at you now, bored.
What makes you think this will be any different?

The grass isnt always greener on the other side.