Husband looks at half naked women in social media

[seriouslyhilarious25]

I recently found out that my husband of 13 years is looking at almost nude photos in Instagram, he's not following the accounts but his recent searches shows a few of these girl's accounts. These are random almost naked women who poses on different sexy clothes to almost nothing and they not celebrities, ito lang talaga  laman ng accounts nila. I never saw my husband as that kind...yes the occasional glancing of women outside na maiksi shorts...or maybe a revealing cleavage...un yung  akala kong natural lang sa lalaki. Pero to search and feast your eyes with these accounts in social media for some reason I got hurt. I started questioning myself, how I look, insecurities ko to the highest level na. ANd I am one of those wives na hindi ko na na-prioritize yung magpasexy and magpaganda to an extent na gagastos ako ng malaki to still look hot after having 2 kids. I felt that tanggap naman ako ng asawa ko and i know he loves me for what I am..and what I look like right now. Hindi naman ako nagpabaya...hindi ko naman matatawag  sarili kong losyang, I still keep up naman with what I think looks good on me.
I confronted him about it sabi nya tumitingin lang daw sya, wag ko nang i-complicate pa, hindi na raw namin dapat pinagtatalunan un. Lalo ako nasaktan, I felt na my feelings are invalid...walang bearing...and now, I felt he is not anymore interested in me which makes me feel much worse. Maybe you can help me understand, OA ba ko? should it be something na I just let go?

[kaythrielle]

You cannot control your husband whether he wants to look at those naked women or not online. 
What you can control are your own actions and thoughts. So instead of being insecure about it, do something instead. Mag-exercise ka at magpa-sexy. Not for your husband but for your own self-esteem.
Cheers to a better and a more confident you!

[Kalessia]

I understand how unpleasant and painful it was for you to find out about this, but unfortunately you can't control your husband.

[ShaoCans]

Pretty sad situation. The same here

[andreeacrst]

I understand your situation, really sad.

[AlexaAlly]

This situation is also familiar to me, but after several conversations with my husband, I realized that this is not done for cheating. My jealousy is very pointless in this case. After many years I realized that Instagram is just a game, a social network for those who want to show their life in the most beautiful way. All those girls are just scamming the number of their followers to seem more popular and exciting people. Personally, I would not do that because I have many other advantages besides a beautiful body and attractive underwear. For example, I cook a lot and love to do it. Unfortunately, this is not mainstream, so I attract interested people by turning to services that offer buying followers on Instagram