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AnnieSBR

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Caught my husband availing "services"
« on: June 22, 2020, 10:05:57 pm »
We're a newly married couple with 1 child. Since nag 1 yo yung baby namin, napansin ko na disinterested na sya sakin sa bed/sex. I shrugged it off kasi busy din naman ako mag-alaga sa baby namin. BTW we're both working millennials and 8 years kaming mag bfgf bago kinasal. Then eto na nga, napansin ko medyo di siya mapakali pag hawak ko cellphone nya. Lagi nya kinukuha agad. Nung nakahanap ako ng tyempo, naginvestigate na ko. And tama nga ang hinala ko! I found numerous chats nya sa mga p*kpok, asking for "services". I confronted him, pero di ako nagbunganga. Nagtanong lang ako, he said he was sorry and promised not to do it again. I was just confused kasi tinanong ko sya kung anong kulang, anong mali, kasi willing naman ako magtry kung ano man yung kailangan gawin or whatever. Kaso sagot nya lang sakin "wala". Haaay. Kung wala, bakit sya naghahanap ng iba? :(

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Re: Caught my husband availing "services"
« Reply #1 on: July 02, 2020, 10:53:19 am »
You don't know what's going on their mind.

You have to consider, maybe ayaw nya ma-hassle ka. Ayaw nya masaktan ka. Ayaw nya maabala ka. After child delivery, baka at least 3 mos di kayo pwede mag sex. If pwede man, i don't know if it will feel good. Kinda mga ganung bagay. So maybe yun yung inisip nya kaya humanap sya ng way para ilabas ang pangangailangan nya. I'm not condoning his acts. Mali sya. Mali talaga. Pero yung everytime na sasabihin nya na "walang problema at walang kulang", yun pa lang may problema talaga. May mga bagay na hindi mabanggit ng lalake, na hindi sya maka demand ng ganito or ganun kasi nahihiya sya sa sitwasyon, dahil alam nyang pagod ka, at baka natatakot din ma-judge kahit na asawa mo na sya. Baguhan pa lang kayong mag asawa kaya malamang may mga "hiya" moments pa rin kayo. I hope na mapagusapan nyo yan.
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