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jewelllll

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I need your point of view
« on: December 04, 2019, 07:28:17 am »
I need your point of view.

5 months pa lang ako dito sa bago kong work, so wala pang friends dahil puro Managers ang kasama, so kailangan may distansya pa din kahit papaano. Now, 4 floors away lang ang sister company namin and mas madalas may transaction ako because nandoon ang accounting and HR.

Now, this girl, from my first month, biniro nya ako once, smile and tawa lang nabibigay ko, at first wala naman akong balak pa magkaroon ng bagong friends, kumbaga work work muna ako.

3rd month, nagkakaroon na kami ng conversation paunti unti (thru online chat), and gusto ko na din sya maging friend, bukod sa hindi kami nagkakalayo ng age, we also have a lot in common. Pero may kakaiba kasi, I mean parang hindi normal yung conversation namin as friends, like, we chat allday hanggang sa bago matulog, may mga sweet messages na hindi ginagawa ng normal friends.

Until now, she's always like this pagdating sa chat, BUT kapag face to face, hindi sya makatingin ng diretso sakin. I asked her why, she said she's shy at hindi daw nya alam kung bakit. Palagi syang umiiwas kapag magkaharap kami. Parating may ilangan kapag may chance na nagkakasama kami (parating work-related lang kapag nagkakasama kami). I asked her to have lunch with me kasi baka kailangan para mawala yung wall between us, pero parati naman nag rerefuse. I mean diba kapag friends kayo, kapag may pagkakataon na magkasama kayo, chika dito, chika doon.

We are so close pag chat, madaming topic to talk about, but we are strangers pag face to face, at wala kaming mapag-usapan.

I'm kind of confused na -_-  pakiramdam ko may kaibigan ako pero parang wala....?   :\

FYI po pareho kaming girl.
« Last Edit: December 04, 2019, 07:48:26 am by jewelllll »

NeilRudecat

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Re: I need your point of view
« Reply #1 on: December 04, 2019, 09:10:58 am »
Crush ka niya siguro.  Just help her deal with her feeling by making yourself more familiar to her.  Demystify yourself.  Kasi nga, dahil hindi pa kayo lubusang magkakilala, mysterious ka pa at naa-arouse ang curiosity at imagination niya (infatuation).  It happens in all gender.   I'm a guy.  Super beshie na kami ngayon ng sobrang crush ko dati na ka-officemate. 
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Re: I need your point of view
« Reply #2 on: December 05, 2019, 09:26:13 am »
I don't think na crush ka nya. More on mahiyain or introvert person un new friend mo. May mga tao kasi na mas comportable makipag usap sa chat. Makilala ako na ganyan pag s chat machika pero pagkausap mo na halos di magsalita.

 


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