When you have no choice but to let go...

[Evolet027]

sis jasme

mag resign ka sa work mo. forget all your reasons para di mag resign. Hindi ka makaka alis jan sa moving on stage gang nakikita mo sila. tamo, nakaka isip ka pa ng bad things na pede gawin sa affair nila.

get out of that company. get out sa lives nila.

yun lang naman...

[jasme1211]

sis jasme

mag resign ka sa work mo. forget all your reasons para di mag resign. Hindi ka makaka alis jan sa moving on stage gang nakikita mo sila. tamo, nakaka isip ka pa ng bad things na pede gawin sa affair nila.

get out of that company. get out sa lives nila.

yun lang naman...

How I wish it's that simple. I can't do that otherwise family ko ang magsuffer. Hindi stable ang job ng husband ko and mataas na rin ang position ko dito. At hindi ako nag-iisip ng masama sa affair nila. I just want to get even sana dun sa lalake. All I want is an apology sana, but it doesn't matter now. Sabi nga nung guytalker natin, i have to live for my family and for the people who value me and forget the ones who don't.

[Evolet027]

Forget na yang "get even" mo,

ang consequence nyan, ma expose yung affair nyo before.

let them be.

move on ng tahimik na lang ang choice mo.

[Shadow Angel]

Mahina siguro comprehension skills ko kasi di ko maintindihan  bakit need mo ng apology from him diba dapat ikaw nag aapology sa family mo. If ever ba mag apology sya may peace of mind ka na? What next na after nya mag apology? Sa nakikita ko kasi di mo lang tanggap na may iba syang babae bukod sayo. If gusto mo talagang makamove on lilipat ka ng work for sure hindi lang naman iisa ang company na may same position mo ngayon. Para kasi tanggap mo lang na stuck ka na sa situation mo at wala ng way para makapagresign. Mas nagfofocus ka sa kanya instead na gumawa ka ng ibang option para makamove on.

[jasme1211]

Mahina siguro comprehension skills ko kasi di ko maintindihan  bakit need mo ng apology from him diba dapat ikaw nag aapology sa family mo. If ever ba mag apology sya may peace of mind ka na? What next na after nya mag apology? Sa nakikita ko kasi di mo lang tanggap na may iba syang babae bukod sayo. If gusto mo talagang makamove on lilipat ka ng work for sure hindi lang naman iisa ang company na may same position mo ngayon. Para kasi tanggap mo lang na stuck ka na sa situation mo at wala ng way para makapagresign. Mas nagfofocus ka sa kanya instead na gumawa ka ng ibang option para makamove on.

Mali nga na mag expect pa ako ng apology sa kanya. Whether kabit ka or hindi, kapag may tao na na nakasakit sayo, iisa lang naman ang expect mo eh, apology. Pero sa case ko, tama na hindi ko dapat yun expect.

Yes, tama ka. Di ko nga tanggap na meron na siyang iba at kaibigan ko pa. Again, mali na naman ang expectation ko na matatapos kami at babalik siya sa family niya. Kasi nga akala ko iba siya.

[mysterioza_me]

^Sabi nga forgive other people maski di nag-sorry for your own peace of mind. Wag mo na isipin to get even - focus on your family. Time na para bumawi ka. Kung iisipin mo pa na gumanti at gaganti din sila sayo baka gumulo lang family mo.

[sweet_maldita]

Last Friday, I sent him a message. I don't know if it was because of Valentines or nakita ko with my 2 eyes kung gano siya kasaya. Sinabi ko lang na yun nga ang sakit nung ginawa niya. Nagreply naman siya, sabi niya hanggang sa huling text eh pambuwisit pa din ako. Sa susunod daw eh muurahin na niya ako.

Virtual hug sis. Please tama na..Ako mismo yung nasaktan nun sinabihan ka nyan. 

[ultraman]

Guy here. I won't judge you. Been there done that, fall in love with another woman which then gave up on me and fall in love with another.

Give him up is the best choice. The process is hard, very hard. We tend to attach ourselves to the other person or even things.  Emotional connection is hard to break. That's human nature. It's a long process. First grief, do not go and take a rebound partner... JUST GRIEF! you need this. Take a breather!  Do things that will make you feel good. Go to the gym or run or bike or do other hobbies. You will feel great! In fact you need to love yourself first. Gain your self respect. When you regain this, you will feel better. Go and have fun with your family... focus on them na hindi ka iiwan... na alam mo na nandyan para syo. Your husband reminisce how you fall in love... go back to memory lane. You will find him more attractive, eliminate his flaws. This is the reason why you go and find another....you will find your self healed, this is the next step acceptance. Life goes on now at this point.

To do: DO NOT CONTACT the other guy. I said, DO NOT CONTACT! no viber, no facebook stalking, no talking about him with common friends. This will hurt you. Block if you need too. END this. I you cannot do this you will be stuck in that pit.

Don't worry you will be fine... Let me know if you need more advice...

[Girltalker2]

Last Friday, I sent him a message. I don't know if it was because of Valentines or nakita ko with my 2 eyes kung gano siya kasaya. Sinabi ko lang na yun nga ang sakit nung ginawa niya. Nagreply naman siya, sabi niya hanggang sa huling text eh pambuwisit pa din ako. Sa susunod daw eh muurahin na niya ako.

It?s been a year na since your first posted your story. Didn?t it occur to you na ayusin mo nalang family mo? If you?re not anymore interested sa husband mo, at least man Lang sa Anak mo. 8 years sya Lumalaki and your attention is on to your lover.

Tsaka your ex lover is really an *sshole. May Asawa rin sya at naghanap pa talaga ng ibang May Asawa din. He even say next time mumurahin ka Na nya? Sa pananalita nya talaga ng kita mo no respect to women at all.
Why do you want to stoop down to his level? Hindi ko Na tatanungin pano kayo nagtagal ng 8 yrs. pero Why do u need to text him pa? Oo break na kayo but please leave some pride to yourself at iayos mo sarili mo. Yes masaya sya now, hayaan mo Na. Ang importante how you can be happy without him, how you should move on - dyan ka mag focus.


right now is a perfect time not to be involved with This guy at all. I mean sa sinagot nya Na text Sayo, I?m Glad I haven?t met anyone like this, asal squatter, in fact kadire so I gentleman of him. Naawa lang ako sa friend mo Na kabit now. Close friends pa ba kayo?

[jasme1211]

It?s been a year na since your first posted your story. Didn?t it occur to you na ayusin mo nalang family mo? If you?re not anymore interested sa husband mo, at least man Lang sa Anak mo. 8 years sya Lumalaki and your attention is on to your lover.

Tsaka your ex lover is really an *sshole. May Asawa rin sya at naghanap pa talaga ng ibang May Asawa din. He even say next time mumurahin ka Na nya? Sa pananalita nya talaga ng kita mo no respect to women at all.
Why do you want to stoop down to his level? Hindi ko Na tatanungin pano kayo nagtagal ng 8 yrs. pero Why do u need to text him pa? Oo break na kayo but please leave some pride to yourself at iayos mo sarili mo. Yes masaya sya now, hayaan mo Na. Ang importante how you can be happy without him, how you should move on - dyan ka mag focus.


right now is a perfect time not to be involved with This guy at all. I mean sa sinagot nya Na text Sayo, I?m Glad I haven?t met anyone like this, asal squatter, in fact kadire so I gentleman of him. Naawa lang ako sa friend mo Na kabit now. Close friends pa ba kayo?

No communnication at all na kami before pa ng ECQ. Though he sent me a message after nung reply niya pero hindi na ako nagreply.

About my friend, we are in the same group of friends sa office. Honestly, hindi ko alam kung pano ko siya pakikisamahan. Hindi naman niya alam na alam ko e. At hindi rin naman niya alam yung about sa amin nung guy. Aaminin ko, may awkwardness talaga. Sana bumalik sa dating closeness kasi labas naman ako or siya sa kung anuman meron sila nung guy.  I think kapag totally ok na ako. Yung tipong naalala mo na lang yung guy pero wala ng bitterness or feelings.