I just found out I'm pregnant (unplanned pregnancy thread)

[KrabbyPatty!]

I just found out im preggo 6 weeks ako this week. 24 y/o ako now turning 25 this november. unplanned and di ko pa nasasabi sa mom ko... 7 yrs na kmi ng bf ko...

sana matanggap ko na fully...  mag-eenroll na ako sa law school working student pa naman plan ko... baka 1st sem lang muna tapusin ko then habol na lang ako after i give birth if magtuloy tuloy...

anyone else who found out they're preggo too?

[highness127]

Hi sis^..hugs! ^_^

First pregnancy ko was unplanned also. Sad nga kasi medyo late ko na naconfirm (in denial siguro). Di tuloy nabigyan ng nutrients si baby earlier
My bf (now husband) and I talked and decided na i-embrace fully ang baby since andyan na yan. Though di maiaalis yung kaba especially when letting our parents and families know. Gladly they accepted the situation and the result was overwhelming joy.

Now, my firstborn just turned 3 and he was the life of our lives (actually 2 na sila ng baby brother nya  ).

My unsolicited advice would be to talk to your bf on what steps you should take next.
Let your families know kasi whatever their reactions will be, kayo-kayo pa rin ang magtutulungan in the end.  
Take care of your baby and yourself - means give up the stress and yes, medyo matatagalan yung career progress, but you'll get there.
Don't mind the 'judgers' if meron man. It's your life and choose to be on the bright side
Lastly, always pray and give thanks. Additional inspiration and motivation si baby for you to be more successful in life.
Always remember that everything has a reason

Goodluck sis and God bless sa inyo ni baby  <3

[KrabbyPatty!]

^ thank you so much sis! huhu. ok naman sa bf ko na ituloy.. sabi niya susuportahan niya naman ako and inassure niya ako na he'll be with me no matter what.. ako yung di pa sure sa wedding agad-agad kasi medyo maarte ako gusto ko sexy ako sa wedding day ko HAHA!

Yung iniisip ko lang now yung mom ko since eldest ako and kakapromote ko lang sa work... and ang expectation niya mag-law school ako and then get married. Pero i hope matanggap niya ako pag sinabi ko na situation ko... im planning to tell her after na lang ng transv ultrasound ko...

What age ka nagka-baby sis highness? ano experience mo? im happy may nagreply sa thread ko and thank you sa advice mo. gumagaan loob ko knowing na kakayanin naman.

[highness127]

Sis, I'm the eldest also so I know how you feel - the expectations and stuff hehe. Difference siguro natin is I was 31 turning 32 when that happened so medyo nasa edad na rin, but still unplanned talaga siya and I have so many plans of helping my family.

We're blessed to have partners na total support sa atin and never nagsecond thought na ituloy ang baby. Another thing to be grateful for.

Regarding your mom, well as a mom myself, kahit ano pang initial reaction nya, di ka nyan matitiis hehe We also told our families after confirming through TVS.
There will be disappointments, but I believe this situation won't be a total hindrance for you to continue your goals in life. Also, di rin mawawala mga 'side' consequences, ginawa natin e so we just have to bear with it and accepting it fully will make things a lot lighter. 

I remember I was so worried or afraid of many things especially sa anong sasabihin at iisipin ng iba. But guess what, when we told our friends and family, there was this enough feeling of acceptance na kakayanin namin kasi pati support nila e andyan. Keber nalang sa mga negang tao hehe.

About naman sa marriage, you don't have to rush. Dapat lang na may mutual decision kayo ng bf mo regarding this.

Mahirap sa umpisa sis, especially if kakaconfirm mu pa lang. Kung ano ano na siguro naiisip mu ngayon hehe. But I'm telling you a simple truth, God will provide and guide you

[KrabbyPatty!]

^ super thankful ako sa advice mo sis! Baka nabubulagan lang ako ng takot at worry ngayon pero sana malampasan din in the future. huhu.

[highness127]

Kapit lang sis When do you plan to have your TVS?

[ayami]

Hi TS, lahat ng pregnancy ko unplanned (even yung kids namin after marriage)  .

Only child ako so di talaga ako natiis ng parents ko, haha! First baby nung 19 ako. Graduating na sa college. Buti hindi ako maarte sa wedding lol kaya civil lang kami nung 7 months preggo ako -- pinush ng parents namin (well, in your case nasa edad ka na so you can opt for that later). Sa min nag work out naman marriage. 5 years na kaming magjowa (since high school) when we got married.

Yung second kid, before graduating college ulet haha! Nung nagquit ako ng injectable contraceptive (didn't work so well). Nagmarch pa ko sa college graduation while 9 months preggo. 

Third kid, last year lang. I had to quit oral contraceptives kasi may breast mass akong tumubo (after surgery and a few weeks later-- baby no 3 was conceived! Lol).

So now, 10 years later we have 3 kids na. Before we turn 30. I think nasa support ng parents ang success sa unplanned pregnancies. Financial AND emotional support (lalo sa case namin na teenagers nung nagsimula). Now pa lang kami magsasarili. Mag move out pa lang (after living with my mom for 8 yrs) late this year.

PS: Yung husband ko got a vasectomy last year haha. Sure na sigurong wala nang babies sa future.

[Mahalko03]

Ako din unplanned.. Literal na unplanned.. Im a nurse namn na 25 just turned 26..

I got my first bf nung 24 ako and we broke up nung nalamn niang buntis ako aiun 25 n ako. 9 months plng kmi nun hahaha..

Wag kaung magtaka kung bkit nia ako iniwan.. Hndi po kami nag sex ever.. He respect me na ayoko pa..

So the thing is pano ako nabuntis! I did not cheat haisst..

I went to saudi a few days ng ngng kami ni bf.. After ilang months ko dun.. A married man ka work ko,  i thought was a friend pinakitaan ako ng nice he helped me surpised my bf para pag umuwi ako gigitarahan ko cia kabooom ng tinuturuan nia ako.. Aba aba.. He tried to penetrate me.. I cant shout i just froze..

Then he stopped.. Then umalis ako..

After weeks.. Ang alam ng lahat mag kaibigan kami. Para walang makahalata na may ganun na kahihiyan n nangyari kunyuri wala [textspeak!] nangyari...

Aiun.. Until oneday nahubad nia n [textspeak!] shorts ko.. Yes its my fault bkit hndi ako nag sumbong..

Lapitin kc ako ng ganun bata plng ako.. I always froze.. Sabi ni mama hndi nia daw alam bkit napaka duwag ko..

Ang alam ng lahat ng sa saudi ako ang lumandi ako ang bumukaka..

Inamin ko sa bf ko ang nangyari ngaun [textspeak!] actually 2 days ago..

Kc natakot ako bka kung anong gagawin nia..

And syempre hndi cia naniwala..

I have no choice... He nids to be happy..

Siguro karma ko to dahil nanahimik ako.. I am really scared now.. Lalabas na ito sa october..

Since january iyak ako ng iyak.. Iam nio [textspeak!] feeling na ang tagal nio inagatan ang isang bagay ( virginity)

Tas nawala [textspeak!] sa inyo basta basta..

[textspeak!] feeling na.. Ilang beses mong pinagdasal (career and love)
Nawala ng parang bula..


I am not a homewrecker i am not malandi.
My life is ruined
Dont know what to do..

[hushush]

^so technically sis nirape ka kasi nabuntis ka despite sa claim mo na he just tried to penetrate you. Kahit nasa bukana lang yun at natuluan ka ng semen/premature ejaculation enough to impregnate you lalo na kung fertile ka.. The fact na hinubaran ka at pinwersa ka e malinaw na pangmomolestya/rape yun nangyari at dapat mapanagot yung gumawa sayo nyan.