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Would You Take A Cheater Back?
« on: June 29, 2018, 10:02:42 am »
Hi Ladies,

We all know that in a relationship, somebody cheating on you is one of the most painful ways to end your time together. But what if he asks for forgiveness? Would you take a remorseful cheater back?

We'd love to hear about your take and experience on the matter. And some of the answers may be included in an article on FN to also help other ladies who may be under the same situation.

Thank you!

Guada from FN

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Re: Would You Take A Cheater Back?
« Reply #1 on: July 30, 2018, 01:44:18 pm »
Cheating is the most traumatic scene sa bawat couple, lalo na sa part ng mga girls. Pero everybody  deserves naman a second chance. So for me, kung nakikita ko yung pagsisisi niya,papatawarin ko pa rin.

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Re: Would You Take A Cheater Back?
« Reply #2 on: July 30, 2018, 04:40:57 pm »
Sometimes you have to lose it all to realize the worth of a circumstance. I always thought of looking on to the right things over the wrong ones that my significant other do. We often overlook the right things they do over that one mistake they have done. I believe on second chances. Everybody deserves a chance to make it right, but that does not mean that you can always have that chance all the time. That way, I'll have no what if's. I'll have no regrets at the end of the day.

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Re: Would You Take A Cheater Back?
« Reply #3 on: July 30, 2018, 05:48:56 pm »
If I was ever cheated on by my boyfriend, I would forgive him but I would not take him back.

Cheating is a conscious choice and knowing that he broke my trust and wasted all my love for him only shows that he's definitely not the right guy for me. Knowing myself, I could never fully trust him again if I decided to stay in the relationship so better just to end it. I will always wonder what went wrong, why I am not good enough and I don't deserve this kind of emotional torture.
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Re: Would You Take A Cheater Back?
« Reply #4 on: August 08, 2018, 05:33:44 am »
Nope, never. I believe in forgiveness but there's no coming back from infidelity. You can never fully trust the other person again and life is too short to be spent wondering & worrying if the other person will cheat on you again, which is highly likely.  Relationships and marriage-- they're wonderful, don't get me wrong. But it take two complete, conscientious, self-sacrificing people to make it work. There are many steps to cheating. It's not a mistake, it's not an accident. People who cheat are out to destroy their relationships, whether or not they want to admit it.

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Re: Would You Take A Cheater Back?
« Reply #5 on: August 09, 2018, 11:31:40 pm »
NEVER! Once a cheater is always a cheater...kapatid ng taong sinungaling ang taong manloloko.

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Re: Would You Take A Cheater Back?
« Reply #6 on: August 14, 2018, 12:00:37 pm »
I guess it depends on the amount of love you have with that person and how much is he willing to give and do to make up on you. If you still find him sincere in wanting you back and you could still see that you could still trust him (in the future) and you are also willing to work things out with him, then you could give it a one last shot.  :)

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Re: Would You Take A Cheater Back?
« Reply #7 on: August 31, 2018, 04:36:09 pm »
Never. When it comes to cheating, i don't believe in second chance. Nagloko ka, bahala ka na sa buhay mo. Kahit gano ko kamahal yung tao, mas mahal ko pa rin ang sarili ko.

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Re: Would You Take A Cheater Back?
« Reply #8 on: September 20, 2018, 01:42:39 pm »
NEVER.
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Re: Would You Take A Cheater Back?
« Reply #9 on: September 25, 2018, 04:35:00 pm »
Nope. Cheating will always be a choice. Kung hindi ka masaya sa relationship or kung hindi mo na mahal yung tao, then end the relationship kesa magcheat.

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Re: Would You Take A Cheater Back?
« Reply #10 on: September 30, 2018, 04:04:17 pm »
Not again. There will be a guy who will not risk losing you.
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Re: Would You Take A Cheater Back?
« Reply #11 on: October 01, 2018, 07:05:09 am »
No.

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Re: Would You Take A Cheater Back?
« Reply #12 on: October 02, 2018, 04:31:49 am »
Never. No second chance.
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Re: Would You Take A Cheater Back?
« Reply #13 on: October 02, 2018, 11:56:20 am »
Never! Once na niloko ka, malaki yung chance na uulit pa yun.

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Re: Would You Take A Cheater Back?
« Reply #14 on: October 02, 2018, 04:14:28 pm »
Hard NO. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

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Re: Would You Take A Cheater Back?
« Reply #15 on: October 11, 2018, 12:01:18 am »
I've never experienced being cheated so I don't think I can give too much justice on my answer.

I might say NO right now. I don't think I can handle the pain and the constant reminder of that memory.

However, I may still take him back depending on how much love I have given for that person.
"Life is short. Even if Patience is a Virtue, Time is still Gold."

 

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