Paano magalit ang S.O. niyo and how do you handle it?

[oshiawase]

Panno magalit ang husband/wife/significant other niyo and how do you handle it?

May boundaries ba kayo on what he/she can/cannot do when they are angry? Like, di ka pwede sigawan, magdabog, etc.?

I'm asking kasi fear ko talaga mapunta sa relationship where my partner has anger management issues like nangbabato ng gamit or nananakit. Paano ba malalaman early in the relationship yung signs na meron nga siyang issues?

Thank you!

[kaythrielle]

Paano magalit? Nagtataas ng boses. We?re the same and pareho din kami hindi mahilig maghagis/ magsira ng gamit. Lol we stick to the issue and no mean words to each other.


Early signs? I think you will only know once you have an argument. Dapat mag-boyfriend/girlfriend pa lang kayo alam mo na yan.

Mababaw na reason nagwawala na ba agad?
Observe mo how he reacts and be honest to yourself if his actions are acceptable or not.

If not, be clear about it right away. Kung papalagpasin mo, mauulit lang. kung ganun pa rin, don?t expect him to change.

Don?t tolerate things that are not acceptable to you. Better hiwalayan mo na because mas magiging malalala lang yan once nag-asawa na kayo.