The Worst Date You Ever Had

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Hi ladies,

Valentines is coming soon! What's the worst valentine?s dates you?ve ever had?

Some answers will be included in an article.

Happy sharing!

[mimiku]

A couple of years ago my friend set me up with her former officemate. The guy added me on Facebook and we sort of chatted for probably 2 weeks. We were able to have a few conversation online. He sounded normal and my friend vouched for him that he was a good guy. He was also so eager to meet me as he kept on bugging me all through out the week for a date. So after that we agreed to have dinner in a resto in Shangrila Mandaluyong. First and foremost, he was late. But the worst came after that. During our dinner, he barely asked me anything. I was the one who kept on initiating the conversation. What irked me the most was he kept on texting and calling his friend and yes he did that IN FRONT of me. The last straw that made me storm out of the resto was when I heard him say over the phone -Pre, kita tayo later, malapit na matapos ito. I said afterwards, I am done with the dinner and to hell with him and walked out. He ran after me and apologized and I said to him - if you found me really unattractive to your liking you should have at least had the courtesy to put down your phone and tell it straight to my face that you don?t fancy me and that dinner is over. He said he was nervous and that this was his first time to date after so many years (he recently broke up with her long-time gf). I told him that this was the worst date I had and that he made me the ugliest woman in the planet. I hailed a taxi then went straight to my friend?s apartment. He kept on texting me, apologizing, but I did not answer him anymore. The next morning, I deleted him on Facebook.

[young_maiden]

Valentine's Day 2011 was the worst!

Two weeks before Valentine's Day, a guy whom I met through a common friend asked me kung pwede daw ba ako date nya sa Valentine's Day. Akala ko naman nung una nagbibiro lang. Kasi I just met him. I barely knew him. Parang less than a month pa lang kami nagkakilala ng guy na yun.

Then nung malapit na Valentine's Day, inaasar namin common friend namin na walang date. This guy joked to him na mabuti pa siya may date na at ako daw yun. Ako naman sinakyan ko lang, thinking na baka joke lang talaga. I was so naive then.

Pagsapit ng Valentine's Day mismo, this guy texted me kung saan daw kami magdi-date. I was surprised. So he really meant it when he asked me out. Ako naman naiilang because di ko pa siya lubusang kilala. Pero since single naman kami both at wala naman kami naapakang ibang tao, pinagbigyan ko na lang. We agreed to have dinner after my class. Iniisip ko na lang "friendly date."

Habang nagdidinner kami, that's when the guy asked me if pwede daw ba siya manligaw. Gulat na gulat ako. Wtf di ba. Halos 1 month ko pa lang siya kilala tapos ganun na. Ang naive ko at hindi ko nahalatang type nya pala ako.

Ilang weeks ko siya iniwasan after that night.

[hisana]

The worst one is yung pagka-manyak pala yung ka-date ko. Yung pasimpleng hawak ng hawak kung saan-saan, kung makatitig sa boobs, even tried to kiss me agad, etc. Ewan ko ba bakit ako sumama dun. Friend of a friend kasi kaya feeling ko naman okay sya. He kept trying to steer the conversation to not-so-wholesome topics, gusto pa ako mag-take ng sex quiz from a magazine that was lying around in his car and wanted to know my sexual history!!! Tapos he wanted to take me shopping kasi sabi ko pwede bang ibaba na lang nya ako sa mall. Andun sya nakatayo sa labas ng fitting room, handing me things na isukat ko na sobrang skimpy, ibibili daw nya para sa akin. He just wouldn't leave me alone. Napaka-degrading para sa akin nun at that time yung nangyari.

[hushush]

This is one of the worst dates ive ever had so far dahil sa embarrassment na nafeel ko that time. Til now pag naaalala ko parang naisip ko bakit ba ako nakipagdate sa spoiled brat na lalaking katulad nya.

He looked nice at mukhang may breeding dahil anak daw sya ng manager ng isang malaking company, he was 3 years younger than me (27yo ata ako that time) di naman gwapo, puro pimples nga ang mukha nya..matangkad lang. Pero di naman ako tumitingin sa pisikal na kaanyuan. Basta hindi jerk ok lang kahit may pagka-jeje.ganun sya, may pagka-jeje kasi mukhang spoiled ng parents. Pano ko nasabi? Kasi sya ang panganay pero sa 3 magkakapatid, yun 2 nya siblings may work na pero sya nun time na yun nagkawork lang kundi dahil sa connection ng dad nya. Panay laro ng guitar hero at kung ano-anong computer games, he was spending (or maybe his parents) alot for his luho for the sound system at latest gaming consoles.. Nagustuhan ko sya kasi kwela sya kausap. Masayahin at hindi sya boring kasama.

Nakilala ko lang sya sa isang techie forum. Nagchat thru ym kami then dun ko sya nakilala nang konti. We've met twice, yun 1st time it went well, nag-star city kami, nasuka pa nga sya dahil sa ride na panay ikot. Helicopter something ata yun. Basta outdoor ride..Nahilo. E andaming kinain hahaha!! Kaya isinuka lahat.. Hiyang-hiya sya sakin then may time na tinutukso ko sya sa chat nuon. Mapang-asar din kasi akong tao e..
Then akala ko naman ok lang sa kanya na inasar-asar ko sya.

Then 2nd date namin, akala ko kami lang pero yun pala may ininvite syang 2 girl friends nya. Dun na nag-umpisa ang nightmare ko at embarrasment. E mga sosyalin mga barkada nya then halos di ako makakain while they were making kwento and yabang about their latest travels abroad and shopping. Gosh! Ganyan ang mga alta mag-usap.. Mga grad daw sila ng College of St. benilde (alam ko naman beforehand) at they have this cursing habit na "takte!" At kapag ginagaya ko sila, the guy was making saway sakin na kung hindi daw ako CSB grad indi daw bagay sakin ang magsabi ng "takte!".  Then they were asking me if nakapag-travel na daw ba ako abroad. Oo naman. yun nga lang asian countries lang unlike them na sa europe daw sila nagtatravel pinangangalandakan. O di wow!.. Then panay piga pa sila sakin ng kung ano-ano, naghahanap ng way siguro para ipahiya ako (narealize ko lang pag-uwi ko). Parang sinadya na isama yun 2girls na yun para kilatisin or gisahin ako..
Then sabi ko sa guy humiwalay na kami kasi diba date namin yun e , naiilang ako sa mga sosyalin nyang friends. Then i forgot what happened, next thing i knew nakasakay na kaming lahat sa car nun guy together with the 2 asungot na girls. Para bang mas gusto pa nyang kasama yun dalawa kesa sakin..Sabi ni guy ida-drop off lang daw nya yun dalawa somewhere. Ok while driving, ayun humirit na naman yun dalawang girls ng kayabangan how rich they are, i was not talking then, tho super OP na talaga ako. bahala na kayo magpabayangan dyan. Basta ako parang gusto ko magteleport para makauwi sa bahay namin.. Aargh!
Feeling ko napagkaisahan ako o ginantihan ako dahil sa ride incident.. Nainis ako at dinedma sya ng ilang araw after the date then inaway-away nya ako sa mail kasi di ko sya nirereplyan. Then he warned me na kung di ako sasagot e hinding-hindi na daw sya magpaparamdam sakin ever again after that last mail. Then di ko nga nireplayan. After that, wala na talaga, hindi na sya nagparamdam. Good riddance.

[mimiku]

^Oh my! Just when I thought I had it worst, yours was a catastrophe! Naku Siguro pag ako yan, nagwalk out na ako. Hahaha.

[pattyfrenzy]

Kasama namin ni BF yun friend niya na supposed to be kami lang ang ganda ng timing eh. Inakay niya na din, kasi kadarating lang from province para makagala na din daw eh first time ko na meet yun friend niya kaya awkward ang dating. I know wala naman masama dun, pero sana pinagpaliban na lang at sa ibang araw na lang na lang sila nag gala.

[hushush]

^Oh my! Just when I thought I had it worst, yours was a catastrophe! Naku Siguro pag ako yan, nagwalk out na ako. Hahaha.

Mismo sis! Mapapawalk-out ka talaga pag di matibay ang loob mo sa mga ganyang klase ng tao/guy.. Pero ok nga maexperience kung pano sila mangdown ng ibang tao. may karma naman yun. Saka  sa part natin, we shall learn a good lesson how to deal with those kind of situations or how to avoid it... Like, next time you shoud make sure na walang asungot, or kung mag-eb kayo, wag muna dinner date, kasi sayang ang food kung magwalk out ka bigla hahaha! (wala na kasi akong next time dahil married na ako hahaha!)

Siguro park muna, kung may matinong park dito sa pinas then lakad-lakad while talking. Then kung maamoy mo na may pagkajerk yun guy e takasan mo agad. Mag-cr ka kunyari then lumusot ka na sa exit hahaha!

[airish_2]

I have to date this guy kasi barkada niya yung ultimate crush so ang suggestion ng mga friends ko eh makipag close ako sa kaniya so ayun na nag yes ako para nga naman makalapit ako kay crush, so, kahit hindi bukal sa loob ko nakipagdate ako inaaya nya ako sa clubhouse pool nila iyun yung non formal first date namin andoon yung friends niya pero kami yung magkasama all the time then biglang dating yung mga brother nitong guy na ito hindi naman sa panlalait pero hindi kagwapuhan si guy mayaman lang so tinawag niya friends and brother niya nung kumakain na katatapos lang nila mag swimming tapos biglang bulong si isang brother niya pero yung rinig naman.
"Tol siya ba 'yun? Akala ko si (insert my friend name) yung kadate mo."
"Oo, nga si (insert my friend name) din ineexpect ko." Si isang brother.
Tapos awkward kasi nakatingin na yung ibang friend niya.
Nagpaalam talaga agad nun kahit tanghaling tapat sobrang nakakahiya at awkward lang kasi mas pretty talaga si friend ko compare sa akin. Hay! Memories!

[Miss Granger]

The worst for me is yung date with a chat mate way back nung college, haha. Umpisa, sa fare okay lang ako nagbayad, tapos eto na kainan na ang daming order then he approached me "Bayad kana!". Shocked ako, ang kapal ng mukha, grabe naman to! After that, di na ako nag reply sa mga messages, sobrang off talaga sakin nung ganun. Natatawa na lang ako pag naiisip ko. 

[apocryphos]

The worst for me is yung date with a chat mate way back nung college, haha. Umpisa, sa fare okay lang ako nagbayad, tapos eto na kainan na ang daming order then he approached me "Bayad kana!". Shocked ako, ang kapal ng mukha, grabe naman to! After that, di na ako nag reply sa mga messages, sobrang off talaga sakin nung ganun. Natatawa na lang ako pag naiisip ko. 

takte yan (CSB grad din ata ako hahaha) ito yung pinakamalupit na lalaking nabasa ko dito sa thread na ito hahahaha. napakakapal ng mukha, walanghiya hahahaha. the rest bastos lang, mayabang, at wrong ang manners towards girls eh or dahil sa they were inexperienced in dating with strangers pero malupit itong si koya hahaha. pagkatapos lumamon nang napakarami, sasabihin, "bayad kana." iba talaga, malupit hahahahaha

[ayi0119]

The worst for me is yung date with a chat mate way back nung college, haha. Umpisa, sa fare okay lang ako nagbayad, tapos eto na kainan na ang daming order then he approached me "Bayad kana!". Shocked ako, ang kapal ng mukha, grabe naman to! After that, di na ako nag reply sa mga messages, sobrang off talaga sakin nung ganun. Natatawa na lang ako pag naiisip ko. 

Scammer ata tong naka-date mo sis. 

[ayi0119]

Not my personal story pero sa friend ko.

Yun akala nyang romantic date eh aayain lang pala sya sumali sa MLM. hahaha

[HAYLEELOVE]

The worst for me is yung date with a chat mate way back nung college, haha. Umpisa, sa fare okay lang ako nagbayad, tapos eto na kainan na ang daming order then he approached me "Bayad kana!". Shocked ako, ang kapal ng mukha, grabe naman to! After that, di na ako nag reply sa mga messages, sobrang off talaga sakin nung ganun. Natatawa na lang ako pag naiisip ko. 

Sobrang tawa ko dito. Di ko tuloy alam kung anong iisipin ko kung baliw lang talaga si kuya or talagang pinagtripan ka lang niya. Naku!

[clouds_1028]

The worst date I ever had was with an officemate in my previous company. I really don't know him kasi [textspeak!] naman kami magka-team and he only knows me through my manager. So because of my manager at sa tuksuhan, we went out and had a dinner. Nung una okay [textspeak!], mdaldal [textspeak!] so mejo nalilibang ako because sometimes gusto ko ano naman yung nakikinig. Kaso nung tumatagal tagal [textspeak!] date namin, I can only hear him talked about himself - His music, his hobbies, blah blah blah. Kaya after our date kahit na ngmmsg [textspeak!] s office messenger, dmdaan s area namin, ngmmsg s facebook messenger, dedma na ako sa kanya. He's even very fast forward wanting to meet my parents kahit isang date pa lang kami. 

[kilometer]

It was with a guy I met on Tinder. Our first meet after few weeks of chatting and talking sa phone, naglakad lang kami sa Ayala for about an hour kasi gabi na rin naman, wala nang mapupuntahan. The second time, he invited me to a - if not Tekken, a Street Fighter nationwide match in TriNoma. I was able to meet his friends and hangout with them. Since decent naman siya and cool din naman friends niya, I agreed to a third date. He brought me to a sketchy place in Sta. Mesa na nagiinuman sila ng friends niya sa kalsada. Never ko naimagine sarili ko na magiging muse sa inuman ng mga lasinggero. Like what most of you girls felt, parang napahiya or nadegrade pagkatao ko. Sorry kung medyo oa. But I dont think deserve ko maexpose sa ganong environment na nakakatakot especially my parents made sure I didn?t. I left immediately and never spoke to that guy again.

[three8one]

up ko lang tong thread na toh. sarap basahin ng mga confessions. nakaka aliw! sana may mag share pa...