Online Dating (Thread 2)

[fastlove]

Meron ba  ditong ma  date.. pre ako ..

[young_maiden]

Girls, kapag hinihingi ba ng mga guys sa dating apps yung number nyo kahit kakasimula pa lang ng pagchat nyo, binibigay nyo ba agad?

[mysterioza_me]

^^Si athlete ba to?

[Girltalker2]

Walang ganap here?

He told me something today which sounds like he isn't taking it to the next level anytime soon. Oh well...

That?s fine
Baka naman interpretation mo lang.
you?re still open pa naman in meeting other guys Di ba? Then just be there for his friendship and move on to seek the guy for you.

[angeljolie]

I forgot to ask, how are things recently @angeljolie

Ilang ulit ko na inattempt na mag post hehe kaso sobrang busy ng lola nyo. I'm taking a new role at work kasi. Anyway, ok naman ang mga bagay bagay. Finally unfriended/unfollowed the first guy on social media. So he's totally out of the picture now (whew!). I'm happy with the decision to let go of him. Medyo napagod ako sa roller coaster ride with him.

Si new guy naman, we're doing good. Getting better every day. We're still getting to know each other at this stage. Last week he had a bout of insecurity. Pero naayos naman na (hopefully).  Naisip ko tuloy, do I have an unconscious attraction to insecure men? Kasi hindi naman ako maganda (ako yung kumbaga sa pagkain, "acquired taste"), but somehow most of the guys I had been with, lumalabas ang insecurities despite me trying so hard to make them feel secure. Etong si new guy, sabi nya bakit ko daw sya pinagtyatyagaan eh maganda ako, matalino, at madaming magkakagusto saken na mas bata at walang health concerns. Gusto ko na nga hiritan ng Notting Hill line ni Julia Roberts eh. But long story short, he said he's just really insecure. I just hope he overcomes that insecurity. Right now, I just want something relaxed. 

Walang ganap here?

He told me something today which sounds like he isn't taking it to the next level anytime soon. Oh well...

Anong sinabi nya?

Girls, kapag hinihingi ba ng mga guys sa dating apps yung number nyo kahit kakasimula pa lang ng pagchat nyo, binibigay nyo ba agad?

Kung pumasa sya sa first screening, yes.

[kwang sun]

Parang ikaw na lang may ganap sis hahhaha .... malapit na akong mag ive up halos kahat nasa online manyak or di kaya babaero hai

[mysterioza_me]

^Owww. Medyo kinabahan din ako sa linyahan niya pero baka nagooverthink lang tayo haha.

[young_maiden]

Nag-install ako ng coffee meets bagel (CMB). Mas marami decent at cute guys sa app na iyan. Suko na ako sa tinder talaga. Sana sa CMB may mahanap akong matino. :-)

[kutitapkiss]

Girls, kapag hinihingi ba ng mga guys sa dating apps yung number nyo kahit kakasimula pa lang ng pagchat nyo, binibigay nyo ba agad?

yes, viber. hehe. pero most of them kasi (based on my experience) usuallt fb or ig ang unang hinihingi. i dunno pero i dont give my socmed right away, feeling ko mas may invasion of privacy. so yep chat muna on viber pag loko, eh di block nalang the number.

[young_maiden]

Ako kasi di ko binibigay agad. Mas prefer ko mag-usap muna kami nung guy ng matagal sa dating app bago ko ibigay number ko. Kaya siguro turn off sa akin. tee hee!.

[kutitapkiss]

^ dati kasi sa tinder, ang hirap mag log in, haha. dunno kung ok na ngayon, pero ayun na nga. kaya ang hirap pag dun lang, after ten years bago ako makapag log in ulit, sayang naman kung ok yung naka match then ang tagal ng follow up hahaha, kaya ata nauso yung hingian ng phone no and socmed accounts.

[mysterioza_me]

^Haha malaking bagay yun na di ka niya makakalimutan kasi hahanap-hanapin ka haha

[kwang sun]

Try date in asia hahahhahaha

[LisaSupe]

hi sisses! yeah i give mine to potential dates but chat or text muna. Then if I feel na medyo bastos o iba ang habol I automatically block his number.  hehe

[Travelionbabe]

Has anyone tried bumble? My friends keeps pushing me to make one but I?m not too sure yet.. hope u guys can share your experiences tia

[young_maiden]

Boring na rin ang coffee meets bagel. Gustuhin ko man mag try ng bumble, hindi pwede dahil android ang cp ko. Sa apple lang daw may bumble.

[kvandenhaak]

^Wala bang web version?

[young_maiden]

Parang wala rin sis.

Ang hirap talaga maghanap ng bf sa online dating apps. Nakaka-inggit mga kakilala ko na doon nakahanap ng bf. I have a friend who met her bf via tinder. Husband na nya ngayon. Another friend of mine also found a bf thru tinder din. Engaged na sila. May isa pa akong kakilala na nakahanap sa CMB ng bf.

Ako naman two years na nasa dating app wala pa rin. LOL.

Somehow fault ko rin. Tamad ako patagalin ang conversation eh. Ayoko kasi talaga ng small talks. In short, there are times na ako ang nanggo-ghost. Minsan naman sila.

I also do not give my number agad.

[Travelionbabe]

Biggest fear ko [textspeak!] ang makita someone I personally know sa app, parang awkward Lang hahah

[sturmfrei]

I tried Tinder before when I was still single and living abroad, nako, marami akong na-meet pero madaming di ko naka-match ng personality, walang connection! And most of them, alam ko na agad kung ano lang ang gusto. In short, wala akong naging bf from that. Ang hirap din ng online dating no. Although I have friends na nagkaroon ng success stories from there. One got engaged & got married in such a short time after meeting that guy, ngayon very happy naman sila.

I also tried tinder sa Pinas, nakita ko yung asawa ng friend ko, yung isa naman bf ng friend ko. After that sabi ko hopeless na talaga