my friend is marrying the wrong guy

[otra_vez]

here's the thing, though- no one really knows what goes on in a relationship other than the people in it. so while you're getting all these information from your friend, you're only getting her side of things. you may well be right and you're definitely entitled to your opinion and you can give her advice and listen to her but ultimately, you can't steer her in your preferred direction. like the other girls said, just let things unfold. people have a way of figuring things out for themselves. and the thing is, you don't want to be saying bad things about her fiance. just give her financial advice. tell her to make sure to be smart about her money. end of the day, that's what it all comes down to-- money.

[amethyst028]

well she is actually asking for advice and venting out for hours on end. anyway  she is pushing through with the wedding. talked to her yesterday she said her fiance is taking care of the wedding preps already coz the wedding coordinator has been bugging them about it. she also told me to book a flight na.

yeah at the end of the day it is their decision. i really wish her all the best. right now i don't ask her about it hinahayaan ko na siya kasi she would call me and complain pero wala naman siyang ginagawa to change her situation. hindi naman siya mag hihirap or magugutom kahit magpakasal siya sa guy. the problem is her expectations, hindi niya matanggap na ganun lang ang kaya ng guy. she wants more from him kasi. kaya goodluck talaga.

[tomatostellar]

^ if she's asking what she can do, maybe recommend them going through those seminars for couples to wed like Discovery Weekend