How To Know If A GIRL IS INTO GIRLS TOO?

[itslawvely]

To start with, I consider myself a "straight female" in some aspects. Mahirap ipaliwanag pero babae ako manamit, gumalaw, pero hindi yung ubod ng kikay. Then recently, I came to realize that I get attracted to both men and women. Dati patingin-tingin lang talaga ako sa mga girls na hot, attractive, sexy. Hanggang doon lang. And lagi kong sinasabi sa sarili ko na never akong maffall sa girls. 

But everything has changed when I met this colleague of mine. Maganda, matalino, mabait. Basta I know for sure that I have this "thing" towards her. Like I wanna try "it" with her. I wanna be in a relationship with her. So hindi lang siya infatuation. Eto yung problem. Sometimes, kapag napapatingin ako sa kanya, nahuhuli ko ring nakatingin siya sakin. Minsan nagkaka-eye contact kami for a few seconds. She compliments me as well! We talk pero not too often. We're just acquaintances, really. We're not very close to each other kasi. She doesn't know that I am a bisexual. Konti lang nakakaalam pa kasi.  I tried stalking her facebook and I found in some of her very old pics (4-5 years ago) na she's very close with this girl na close friend niya before. Then ang sweet ng mga captions and comments nila. But I am not sure if they were in a relationship before and whether she's a bi too.

I'm not yet ready to admit na I like her kasi I want to know first whether she's into girls as well. I have a feeling na mapapahiya ako kapag umamin ako and nalaman kong straight as a ruler pala siya.     Help guys!! 

[alexsy]

chill lang sis.  start mong yayain. mag coffee kayo or tea, sabay kayong mag christmas shopping.  madaming pwedeng gawin. get to know her, spend time together.  kung di man sya into girls, at least nagkaron ka ng friend. win-win

[itslawvely]

chill lang sis.  start mong yayain. mag coffee kayo or tea, sabay kayong mag christmas shopping.  madaming pwedeng gawin. get to know her, spend time together.  kung di man sya into girls, at least nagkaron ka ng friend. win-win

It would be very awkward kasi we are not close talaga. More on acquaintances lang. So ang hirap niyang biglang yayain kumain kasi magiging suspicious na siya doon palang.

[BicuriousGS]

Hi my advice to you, just go on with the flow. Cherish mo lang yung kilig moments nyo. Then have courage to ask her out for a coffee. Casual conversation lang, thats it. Nurture to grow the friendship. Kasi if you both feel each other, everything will flow smoothly to what you are expecting beyond your imagination. Whoa! Fyi: Base on my experience yan. 😁

[super bratinella]

sis kahit naman straight that does not mean close doors na sila sa girls if she find the relationship interesting or worth a try kahit girl or gay they will give it a shot, only one way to find if you will approach her and make friends with her then just say how you feel..

[emmenemss]

Iba ang kilig nyan compare sa lalaki haha
Nangyari na din sakin yan sis, na-fall ako sa co-worker ko, ang kaibahan lang natin, close kami, as in friends kami, nag assume ako na pareho kami ng feelings dahil ang sweet ng gestures nya, iniinvite ako kapag weekends to have lunch with her and her family, nagbibigay ng gifts kahit walang occasion, pinagbabaon ako ng lunch sa office, sometimes breakfast, nagtanong na nga yung isang officemate namin kung kami daw, eventually umamin din ako kasi mabigat na sa pakiramdam. Ayun naging kami     (pero for 1 year lang) ang sarap ng feeling, exciting sya na challenging.

Work out mo muna kung papaano kayo magiging friends tapos pag ok na, enjoy mo na lang muna, mahirap nga umamin lalo na kapag hindi naman open minded yung tao, pakiramdaman mo muna

[BicuriousGS]

Yeah right, I super agree with you. Iba ang kilig nya at mas softer ang lips hahaha

[Rainbowbrite888]

Hi! Am not sure if this is the right thread to ask this - is there a thread for single and discreet bifemme or lesbians?

[Yani5798]

[textspeak!] na kaya nangyari dito lol  umamin na kaya hahaha

[BicuriousGS]

follow up TS story.