Nasaang point ka na ng buhay?

[Ms. Undecided]

Since napapanahon ang ganito hahaha.

Ako nasa point na ako ng buhay ko na kapag may umalis ... hihingi ako ng pasalubong. hahaha Joke.

-- Nasa point na ako ng buhay ko na NANINIWALA AKO SA DIYOS PERO HINDI NA AKO NANINIWALA SA RELIHIYON. Yung Faith ko, nasa puso ko nalang.

Sorry not sorry, for me lang yun

[kvandenhaak]

Nasa point ako where:

1. Hindi sarili ko ang inuuna ko.
2. I enjoy small but significant things like hugs, text or call from very close friends and him.
3. Giving is a rewarding.
4. I put serious effort in being kinder. It's not always easy but I am trying.

[Shadow Angel]

Nasa point ako ng buhay ko na:

1. Happily married
2. Focus on my own family
3. Happy yes but not yet contented that's why I'm setting new goals for my family and career as well.
4. Learning and enjoying as being new mom.

[TysLolakins]

I'm in between Grihastha and Vanaprastha, more towards the latter.

[glamorosa_09]

Nasa point ako ng buhay ko na I have a deeper and clearer understanding of my worldly and existential anxiety.

1. With existential anxiety, this is where my commitment to religious discipline comes in to give form and shape to my spirituality. Mga simple disciplines lang naman, everyday prayer, scripture readings, regular mass, being mindful of God's presence and the likes.

2. Next to spirituality is my commitment to my family. To be a loving and mindful wife and mom. Savoring life's simple joys with family (and sometimes as an individual).

3. Then next is my commitment to others and my ministries. This is where career, volunteer works, and further education come in.

But sometimes, when worldly anxiety and #3 gets high, sadly, I forget my 1 and 2... Kaya I need to be mindful. If it gets out of order, it's okay. I don't need to be hard on myself. I just need to start again.

[plumpolka]

nasa point ako ng buhay ko na gusto ko na din magka-baby pero alam kong di ko pa afford kasi nagbabayad pa ko ng car loan ko. ayoko naman na sapat na sapat lang ang pera ko para sa lahat including a baby.

gusto ko na din ng family. yung iba kong ka batch, buntis, may asawa, pang nth child na nila. ako, ngangey. nakiki-baby na lang sa mga pamangkin.


bf ko naman may anak na din sa ex nya so feeling ko di na din naman nya gusto pa kasi nga meron na sya. alam na nya yung feeling, naexperience na nya.

[shinies]

NANINIWALA AKO SA DIYOS PERO HINDI NA AKO NANINIWALA SA RELIHIYON. Yung Faith ko, nasa puso ko nalang.

Theist ka Di ka naman nagiisa.

Nasa point ako ng contentment. Proud ako sa mga achievements ko.
Alam ng mga mahal ko sa buhay na mahal ko sila (words and action).
No regrets kung oras ko na..

[Ms. Undecided]

^ nakakatakot naman yung NO REGRETS KUNG ORAS KO NA, hahaha

Theist pala tawag dun. hehe. Wala eh, andami ko ng napuntahang church, mas lalo lang akong naguluhan. Kaya yun wala na akong pinaniniwalaan, basta alam kong anjan siya.

[shinies]

^ nakakatakot naman yung NO REGRETS KUNG ORAS KO NA, hahaha

Theist pala tawag dun. hehe. Wala eh, andami ko ng napuntahang church, mas lalo lang akong naguluhan. Kaya yun wala na akong pinaniniwalaan, basta alam kong anjan siya.

Wag matakot kasi death is part of life at lahat dun naman papunta 

Ok lang yan sis. Man-made ang relihiyon at magkakaiba talaga sila. Mas importante yung sinusubukan maging mabuting tao kesa naman relihiyoso sa salita lang

[glamorosa_09]

True, religions are organizations made by men, thus these are imperfect. Kung perfect ang hanap, wala talagang makikitang ganun...

Nakakalito... Yes I agree din... Dumaan din ako sa pagkalito, lalo na nung maramj akong binasa... They all made perfect sense to me... And mahirap nga talaga mamili...

I would also like to make a point that believing in God is different from loving God. Love needs to be expressed. If you have a partner, it won't be enough for you if he tells you, "basta mahal kita, alam mo na yun." You would want to see actions, and as loving someone, you would want to express that love. One may say that, "but I'm loving my family." But then family is jusz one of the gifts, and the gift is different from the Giver.

Religions can provide structure of how to express that love and faith... Parang education systems, they provide structure to learning. Pero yun nga, kung walang structure at teaching na swak sayo, mahirap din talaga. Ang iniisip ko na lang, no religion can completely describe all aspects of God. Sabi nga, He's beyond human understanding. Pero namili na rin ako, LOL!

[nessy]

Nasa point na ako ng buhay ka wherein wala na akong nararamdaman  or ayoko na makabalita ng kahit ano tungkol sa ex ko. Pinipilit ko na ring maging dedma sa kahit anong sabihin ng common friends namen sa kanya. At higit sa lahat nasa point na ako ng buhay ko na ayaw ko nang makasama ang mga so called "friends" ko na puro palibre lang ang alam!!! Hello hindi  ako mayaman no!!!

[hisana]

Puro planning for the future ang ginagawa ko lately, more careful with my time and money, looking at the much bigger picture in life, definitely less YOLO moments (which is a bit sad in a way, if you really think about it) and less kababawan. Parang bang I'm trading being carefree with being secure, yun ang feeling ko. I can't have both lang kasi right now.

[amethyst028]

i'm in a great place right now.

- i've forgiven my mortal enemy ( dad of my son) hehe! we are civil now. i can see that my son is happier because both his parents are present in his life.
- i'm with an amazing guy. siya yung tipong pag na paralyze ako or nabulag aalagaan niya ako at hindi ako papabayaan. ganung klaseng tao siya. 
- everything i need i already have.

i guess the key is to always be grateful. whether you are single or with someone you always have to be grateful. i count my blessings, i always start my prayers with a thank you and i don't ask for anything. i am just always thankful and positive.

[simang]

- everything i need i already have.

i guess the key is to always be grateful. whether you are single or with someone you always have to be grateful. i count my blessings, i always start my prayers with a thank you and i don't ask for anything. i am just always thankful and positive.

It's nice to hear something like this I remember 5 years ago siguro I was also at this point, yung feeling na I've done my role in this life. Hehe.

[amethyst028]

^haha! Took me a long time to get here. For all the pieces to finally fall in place. I know it?s not permanent kaya i?m just enjoying it for as long as i can.

[Miss Granger]

- adulting duties
- mas gusto matulog/at home/netflix kesa gumala hahaha
- enjoys homecooked food
- bills anywhere

[Evolet027]

Nasa point ako ng buhay ko na :

- bongga ang career, sobrang olats ang married life
- I do not know what to do with my life

[three8one]

nasa point ng buhay na nakakalito... di makapag desisyon kung ano ang uunahin at di makagalaw freely dahil bukod sa limitado lang ang pwede galawan hindi pa nakasalalay sa sarili mong mga kamay.

[three8one]

nasa point ako ng buhay na lahat na lang ng nasa paligid ko nagmamahal. siguro panahon na para ako naman ang mag mahal.

- fishball

[red_yesha]

Nasa point ako ng buhay ko kung saan ayoko ng makinig sa drama ng ibang tao na paulit ulit pero di naman nakikinig sa payo. Ako ang nastress e haha.
Bukod dun, nasa point na ako ng buhay ko kung saan gusto ko nalang mag ipon ng mag ipon kesa gumala haha.