Open Relationship

[naizlabonita]

I don't know kung may forum na about the same topic pero I would like to know if anyone have or had experienced to be in an open relationships? Ano yung naging limitations or restrictions kung meron ba? or Ano yung advantages nya..of course.. alam na natin yung disadvantage hehe. Just curious though and Im at the verge of considering this kind of relationship.

[kaythrielle]

Why are you considering this sis?
That means you're both open to date other people. Advantage siguro is you won't be restricted to one person lang. (but what's the point of being in the relationship pa anyway?)
Wait, is s3x going to be part of it too? Or pwede siguro part ng limitations.
But i think isa yan sa main reason why others do open relationship, right?

Then if you're in an open relationship, are you okay with talking about it to your partner the following day? Or listen to how his date night went? OR you prefer not to know? Dapat din hindi kayo seloso/selosa kung may kalandian sa phone or chat kapartner nyo.
Tapos pano kung may makakita na friends or kamag-anak sa inyo dating someone else, okay lang ba? And then, may time frame lang ba kayo being in an open relationship or hanggang kelan lang?

These are just some things you might need to think of. Ang daming kailangan iconsider.

This kind of relationship is definitely not for me.

Good luck sis

[kvandenhaak]

I once talked to a guy online who was in an open relationship. Chismosa mode so I asked him why and what's an open relationship. His story was that he loves his wife, but because of his depression and other health conditions, he's unable to fulfill daw his marital duties so he allowed his wife to date guys. I said, how does it feel seeing him going out with other guys? He doesn't like it but that's just the way he is. And when I asked why then he is considering dating other girls. Eh kasi daw the wife doesn't like him going down there. It drives her nuts daw....lol! It's definitely not for everyone but for some people, it's okay. Sex is definitely part of the deal. Not really for me but whatever floats your boat. Even in western countries tough sell pa rin ang ganitong set-up.

[khaleesiCersei]

Parang magulo yan sis hehe.. better end the relationship na lang so you can date other people at ganon din yung sa partner mo, para wala na kayong pakelam sa isa't isa and you're both free to date whomever you want. Pag ganyan kasi may selosan pa dyan magaganap at malamang competition din kasi kung yung isa may dinedate eh papadaig ba yung isa ng wala siya? Hehe

Parang dagdag stress pa yan eh imbis na makapag focus kayo sa dapat nyong gawin--kung may anak kayo eh to be better parents, magiging distracted pa kayo sa mga extra curricular activities ng isat isa. Maybe just make an arrangement na lang about how you can do co-parenting kesa intindihin ang open relationship nyo. Maghiwalay muna kayo, mas ok pa yun atleast mabibigyan nyo ng chance ang isat isa maging masaya on their own or with someone else. Tsaka malay nyo yan pala maging way para maayos ang relationship nyo. Sabi nga nila love is lovelier the second time around

[angeljolie]

I don't see the point of getting into this kind of relationship. Seriously. Do you guys really want to date other people or are you just being selfish you want to have the best of all worlds? LOL

Feeling ko lang, open relationship is just a transition. Maghihiwalay din kayo later on. Sorry! Negastar alert!