ang t**** ko

[Girltalker2]

i felt like i wasted half of my life when from the start dapat nakita ko na wala na talaga pagasa.

Kaya sis dapat lang na lumayo ka sa kanya. You wouldn't want the same thing happening to you again and again hanggang sa pagtanda mo di ba?

it's been years, hindi ko alam paano pupulutin na naman sarili ko. madami akong questions. magkakaroon pa ba ng guy who will love me? hindi na ako bata. wala na ako sa dating scene for years hindi ko na nga alam paano magkaroon ng bf

When you say di ka na bata, what age are you referring to?

70yo?? 😄

Cmon age is just a number. Ang importante, magheal ka muna. Be at peace with yourself. Pursue your dreams. Hindi purkit walang bf/asawa/love life ngayon eh palpak na buhay mo.
As you e said, nag focus ka sa kids mo, and gawin mo din iyan sa sarili mo. Gain the confidence you've lost. Set yourself free from him.

Regarding dating, dadating din iyan. Huwag muna ngayon at fresh pa ang sugat. But you will know eventually when you will be ready.

I started dating when I turned 40. Never really had a real get-to-know-you date before kasi Yung ex hubby ko was my childhood sweetheart. So sobrang Bata pa Kami when we meT.

Nung gusto ko humiwalay sa ex ko, ang iniisip ko naman is if meron pako mahahanap na matino na guy kasi halos lahat naman manloloko.

Then after some years tsaka ko nahanap current partner ko. Ang layo sa ex ko in terms of ugali, God-fearing etc. Sometimes di mo Ma imagine na you will still be able to love someone. Feeling ko naman in time, kusa lalapit talaga ang para sayo.

[kvandenhaak]

Wala namang age limit to date? I am in my 40s and still very much in the dating scene.

[angese10]

hello mga sis..i feel better now.

i got depressed kaya nawala ako. sorry if hindi ako nakareply agad.

clear na sakin ngayon na wala na. tanggap ko na hindi na talaga kami. i finally learned how to value myself though naguusap pa kami but i now refuse to let him use me. i stopped giving him too much attention.

may point na I thought nagbago siya and that ako lang naman itong nasosobrahan pero when he asked a favor from me and hindi ko nabigay, bumalik na naman yung dati. then he felt sorry and nakipagbati. pero stop na yun. i saw a lot na, ayoko na magpakatanga pa sa kanya.

ngayon we share a project together. ito yung project na dati pa pero this is the last na din. funny lang kasi nung kinuha namin cash, hindi man lang nakaisip to spare some change para sa mga anak ko. he keeps on complaining na wala sya pera. kesyo he's so broke na daw.

i saw some photos ng ex niya. they were a family. i realized na if he really was into us, siguro dapat dati pa binalikan niya kami. but bumalik lang siya when they separated. when he was down, saka lang niya naisip kami.

im slowly learning to close this chapter of my life. but i must admit im dealing with depression so i know may mga times na i'll look back and feel sad again pero i will push through. wala din ako mapagsabihan, isa pang factor why balik ako ng balik. wala ako makausap about my issues. sa family ko naman kasi im always seen as the strong one. akala nila wala ako issue na sa husband ko. they thought nakapag move on na talaga ako when in fact all those years, i kept on crying pa din. pero yun nga, i will move on na.

[minabey]

Good luck to you, sis. I wish you the best. I can only imagine the difficulty of what you're going through but I hope after this passes,  you will come out of it stronger and more empowered.
God bless!

[Evolet027]

ako din, ang t**** ko 10 yrs ako, ang t**** t**** ko din 7 yrs ago.

Move on  sis. Kaya yan!r

[red_yesha]

Hugs angese10. Kayang kaya mo yan sis! Nalagpasan mo na ang pagsubok dati sa kanya, mas malalagpasan mo ito ngayon. Magtiwala ka makakamove on ka.