Should I let go or hold on?

[glamorosa_09]

Looks like you're leaning toward a certain decision na rin sis, and that is to stay, tama ba? Kung baga, basing from the last part of your first post, you want to know what to do for that other woman to stop. But since that's not gonna happen, maybe you can just start taking care of yourself to keep the constant emotional pain in control and for your sanity's sake na rin. And maybe, work on acceptance na rin.

Your husband is having the best of both worlds by having both of you, while you, on the other hand, couldn't get what you truly deserve. You just have to content yourself kung anong maibibigay nya sayo, that is financial security and an intact family, but not complete loyalty and faithfulness.

[plumpolka]

shesgullible onga sis? naniwala ka? the fact na di naman nya naiwanan yung kabit nya, goes to show kung anong decision nya. iba sinabi nya sayo sa ginawa nya. di naman pwedeng he gets the best of both worlds di ba? we cant tell you to leave him kasi hindi kami ang nasa position mo. pero pag-isipan mo ding mabuti kung ano bang gusto mong maging role sa buhay nya. right now, kahit ikaw ang asawa, kung mas mahal nya yung kabit kasi di nya maiwanan e, what does that make you?

[gullibled]

Mga sis, shesgullible here. Di ako makareply, kaya nagtry ako magcreate ng another account. Anyway, as of this writing, nakapacked na mga gamit nya and sinabi ko na sa kanya kahapon na pakuha nya na lang. He said yes, pagod na din daw sya na ipaglaban ako at palagi naman akong bumibitaw. He always text and calls me daw for me to know his whereabouts, para di na ko nagdududa. Nagagalit pa sya. Ang hirap kasi mahal ko sya and it hurts so much like hell.

[drinveilside]

I hope it works well for you to be honest i know its hard because my wife is saying the same thing to me but i dont have "kabit" just attitude problems siguro talagang nangyayari na ang babae gets fed up taking care of the kids.

[ficklemind]

^^ wow sis, siya pa ang pagod. Lakas mang guilt trip ng asawa mo eh no. Lagi sinusumbat sayo na pinili ka, pinaglaban ka, ikaw etong bumibitaw, napaka***** ng asawa mo, manipulative.

In the first place he created this mess, kung hinde siya nangaliwa eh di sana peaceful &  loving environment ang meron kayo, walang pagdududa, walang pilian, walang bibitaw.
Tapos ngayon parang ikaw ang lumalabas na masama. Sarap ihagis!

Eto ang consequences ng kasalanan niya, pagbayaran niya.

Hinde sapat yung pinapaalam niya sayo whereabouts niya eh ok na lahat, kulang pa yun sa kasalanan niya sayo. Tsaka kahit sabihin niya kung nasan siya at ano ginagawa niya, totoo ba yun?