The one that got away

[Red_Riddinghood15]

Hi Ladies!

Ask ko lang, have you ever been in-love to a person while still in a relationship?

Background:
My bf and I, we've been together for almost 5 years now, he cheated on me 3x.
Though nag bago naman na siya and proved again his loyalty to me, I was indeed very happy.
however, there are times that I somewhat still feel the so called "woman's intuition a.k.a Kutob ng Babae", IDK really what to feel, di ko na lang binigyan pansin hangang sa nasanay na ko.

Now, I've always been curious about getting to know other people, so I tried this social app, my bf doesn't even know this, tinago ko lang sa kanya.

I met this guy, he's the same age as I am...we talked like there's no tomorrow, sobrang saya niya kausap, naging ganun kami for 3 weeks btw, he's in USA and I'm here in Ph, until, one day he said he had fallen in-love with me. I told him about my status, but he insisted that he doesn't care at all and beg to choose him. I'm his the one daw. haaayy

REALIZATION:
I also fallen in-love with him.

QUESTION:
Ano ba gagawin ko? please help, I badly need your advice ladies.

Thank you!

[shinies]

Kalasan mo na yang BF mo kung nageentertain ka ng iba.

[xiannasofia]

I don't think the title of the thread connects to your problem.

Yep, agree with sis shiniess. Hiwalayan mo na lang boyfriend mo because you're already cheating.

[naizlabonita]

Piliin mo yung 2nd guy.

[Girltalker2]

Oh dear, what have you gotten yourself into? This is the typical story of a philandering guy. Yun tipong may reserba (current gf), then flirting around, until magkagusto sa iba then hiwalayan nalang yung gf.

Ts, malamang you're not sure what to do coz you want to come clean. But actually there's really no way to come out of this clean. If say yung guy from US later nalaman mo na inisahan ka lang din, would you go back to your current bf?
Kung lokohin ka ng new guy and you think hinding hindi ka babalik sa bf mo, then I agree sa sinabi nila, break it off na with your bf. Then just focus on this new guy.
However, if sa oras na lokohin ka ni new guy, at babalikan mo ang bf mo, then mag isip ka muna.

Who are you referring to as the one that got away? Your bf? Or your new guy? Or ikaw (sa pov ng bf mo)?

[kvandenhaak]

Sus, you haven't even met the guy in person. Magulo na nga, magdadagdag pa ng gulo. Humiwalay muna sa BF bago lumandi sa iba. Di naman mahirap yun! Kaloka kayo!

[lonely_dad]

di mo pa nameet yung guy + nasa ibang bansa siya

[kaythrielle]

3wks palang na chat at hindi man lang kayo nagkikita pa, in love na agad? "The One" na agad. Huwag ka agad maniwala TS sa mga pambobola ng mga lalaki. hehe

Maniwala ka lang kung pakakasalan ka nya. Tapos makipag-break ka na rin sa bf mo.

Just my pov of course.

[angeljolie]

Medyo hindi nga connect ang title sa story. Anyway, layasan mo na yang bf mong cheater.

[luckysiete]

Is it the result of his cheating why you're doing this? Or you feel bored and unappreciated that's why you are looking for someone to fulfill your boyfriend's shortcoming.

You still love your boyfriend yet you are not happy with him anymore. You are only holding to your 5-year relationship. In 5 years your boyfriend cheated on you thrice and your saying na nasanay ka na lang. Huwag mong hayaan masanay ang sarili mo na masaktan. Kasi kapag ginawa mo yun parang binigyan mo siya ng consent na saktan ka niya, not by cheating kasi siguro nanawa na siya dun, but eventually in a different situation naman.

And now you fell inlove with this new guy, . Do you think your long distance relationship will last?

You have your choice sis. Choose wisely.