trust issues

[minikeyklush]

mga sisses have you experience being in a relationship and you found yourself having the same trust issues you had on your previous beau? How does it affects you? And pano nyo naworkout na ilearn ulet magtrust sa partner nyo? Thanks and appreciate your stories to share ☺

[badw33d]

^why is it the same? same scenario? or is it just you being un-trusting?

[Girltalker2]

TS, I find your questions here a bit disturbing. First is the fb issue na ayaw ni bf magpost ng pics Nyo.

Then asking frequency ng text messages. Usually when you're in a good relationship, di mo namamalayan Ito. You just text messages when you want to or just don't since you don't want to. I never analysed this until I saw your topic.

And now this question. Gaano katagal na ba kayo? I'd say anywhere in your relationship, you should never be left insecure about your relationship with him. If you are, something is wrong.

My one and only relationship in the past was full of this s*** - doubting, insecurities, etc. At the end, I gave up and never have I regretted walking out of that marriage. Now I'm with someone special for over 5 years now. Masasabi ko na ganito pala dapat ang relationship. Never ako nakaramdam ng duda, sarap matulog sa gabi... total opposite of what I had before.

Seems to me what you're experiencing now are some signs on what I've experienced before (in my first relationship). There were signs I doubted myself, but in hindsight, I was right all along. Now in moving to the next relationship (coming out from a past relationship na naloko ka).... ako naging sobra akong maingat when I started Dating again. I was always guarded. I DID NOT get into a relationship if I STILL HAD the slightest DOUBTS. Yes I've dated a few men, just for company and enjoy the friendships, but I never committed Nor be intimate with them. And it took one great guy to break into my heart, before I totally agreed to just date him exclusively (not yet bf). Doon ko unti unti inallow ang feelings ko for him to grow.... just in case he turns out to be any typical philandering guy. But as I get to know him, he turned out to be the best guy I've met and that's the time I realised he deserves my love and this is also the only time I decided to be his gf.

In your case, either you're not ready to move to the next relationship pero pinasok mo agad at ngayon Ang dami Mong issues

OR

You are just with another *sshole, di mo kinilala muna bago mo pinayagan feelings mo to develop. Now na mag bf na kayo tsaka all these questions coming. Not easy. Not ideal. 

[Ms. Undecided]

I agree with sis Girltalker 2. Ikaw din pala nagpost about sa fb post thingy. Parang for me if may trust issue ka sa past bf mo na dala mo until now sa new bf mo, baka naman you're not ready pa para sa bagong relationship na 'to. Gano na ba kayo katagal ng bf?