Why do men pay for sex

[amendoza85]

Men are different from girls, they have high testosterone levels and need nila ilabas ito usually. Kaya minsan hanap sila ng girl to pay para ilabas.

[luckysiete]

@naizlabonita - facebook gamit niya sis. We talked about it last time at pinaninindigan talaga niya na wala siyang ginagamit na ibang babae. Sa mga friends daw niya un na nagpapahanap ng chicks. But ofcourse I don't believe him. Magaling gumawa ng istorya ang partner ko kaya oo na lang ako pero deep inside I'm not okay with it.

[naizlabonita]

@naizlabonita - facebook gamit niya sis. We talked about it last time at pinaninindigan talaga niya na wala siyang ginagamit na ibang babae. Sa mga friends daw niya un na nagpapahanap ng chicks. But ofcourse I don't believe him. Magaling gumawa ng istorya ang partner ko kaya oo na lang ako pero deep inside I'm not okay with it.

Hi sis I suggest follow your instinct and yes magaling na sila magpalusot or story..nahuli ko yung partner ko with an account sa isang prostitution site (manilatonight.com) so dinedeny nya na kanya yun eh may mga comments pa about sa girls.. tapos sabi nya apat daw silang may ari nung account hinde lang daw siya yun at may iniivestigate daw sila..oh diba biglang naging CIA or SOCO siya hahaha, which is obviously hinde naman totoo at nagrarason lang to get away with the issue..kaya be vigilant and don't believe him hehe. Halos gustu kong matawa sa pinag sasabi ng partner ko pero syempre nanaig ang galit ko. hahaha. Nakakabaliw talaga pag may asawang sinungaling.

[luckysiete]

naku sis ganyang-ganyan din sinabi ng partner ko, Hindi lang daw siya gumagamit ng account na yun. Madami daw sila. Huling-huli na nga lumulusot pa. Nakakainis lang kasi ginagawa pa kong t****. Kaya nakakawalang gana e. Gusto ko na lang pag gising ko wala na kong feelings sa kanya para hindi na ko affected sa mga ginagawa niya.

[naizlabonita]

naku sis ganyang-ganyan din sinabi ng partner ko, Hindi lang daw siya gumagamit ng account na yun. Madami daw sila. Huling-huli na nga lumulusot pa. Nakakainis lang kasi ginagawa pa kong t****. Kaya nakakawalang gana e. Gusto ko na lang pag gising ko wala na kong feelings sa kanya para hindi na ko affected sa mga ginagawa niya.

So talagang ayaw umamin? Kasi may ibang lalake talaga hinde aamin pero be observant..syempre ayaw naman natin na he goes around sleeping or flirting with other girls diba. Sobrang disrespectful on our side.
Yung partner tumindi na away namen kasi he is paying for sex and ayoko non mamaya mahawa pa kame ng kung anong sakit, im still breastfeeding kaya sobrang galit ko pinag susumbong ko siya sa parents namen.. tapos umamin siya kaso paunti unti parang every other day kelangan ko talagang pilitin so ayon napa amin naman sabi titigil na daw..kasu nahuli ko kumontak naman ng home service na may extra na naman edi warla diba so naglayas na ko..dun lang natauhan nung naglayas kame kaya ngayon mukang okay naman na siya but I'm still vigilant talaga, baka mamya pag tulog ako tumatakas lol. nakakparanoid na nga eh.. nakakasira ng pamilya.
Ang hirap kasi idemand na tumigil siya kung ayaw nya umamin diba.

[luckysiete]

oo sis, ayaw talaga umamin. Kaya nga gusto ko ng evidence para isasampal ko na lang sa mukha nya. Pero sa tingin ko wala pa ko makukuha sa ngayon, malamang mag lie-low muna siya tapos mga ilang buwan yan nanaman. Kaya dapat ready na ang plano ko.  Buti  sis umamin sayo? Sana nga good boy na asawa mo.

[naizlabonita]

oo sis, ayaw talaga umamin. Kaya nga gusto ko ng evidence para isasampal ko na lang sa mukha nya. Pero sa tingin ko wala pa ko makukuha sa ngayon, malamang mag lie-low muna siya tapos mga ilang buwan yan nanaman. Kaya dapat ready na ang plano ko.  Buti  sis umamin sayo? Sana nga good boy na asawa mo.

Ipon ka pa proof sis..haha..pero wag ka masyadong maging stalker.. pag napansin mo lang may kakaiba kay mister mo dun start ka ng pag iinvestigate. Pag kating kati naman eh hinde yan makakatagal ng buwan babalik yan days palang. Akala ko nga addict na partner ko nun eh.

Wala na siyang kawala sis pati yung mga girls pinag memessage ko na eh kaya mas naconfirm ko pati yung grab history nya nakalagay yung spa and nakita ko yun dun sa site tapos gumawa din akong account dun sa manilatonight.com kaya talaga kitang kita ko lahat. Saka sinabi ko sa parents namen nahiya siguru sa pinag gagawa nya.  Sana nga wag na bumalik dun pag nagbalik siya dun sa tulfo na kame magkikita. 

[glamorosa_09]

Meron sigurong cheaters and liars manual, at nagkakapareho sila ng sagot. They also follow the same principle na wag aamin hangga't maaari. Ang stressful emotionally and mentally para sa wife.

[simang]

This I will never understand. Why pay when there are a ton who's willing to do it for free? May difference ba pag professional at pag hobbyist lang? Lol pero seriously di maabot ng utak ko yung reason ng pagbabayad for sex

[naizlabonita]

Meron sigurong cheaters and liars manual, at nagkakapareho sila ng sagot. They also follow the same principle na wag aamin hangga't maaari. Ang stressful emotionally and mentally para sa wife.

True sis and most of the time we girls blame ourselves for it thats why most of the time the emotional toll on us is so high di na kinakaya. So sad to see new stories here na kapareho ko na niloko ng partners.

[naizlabonita]

This I will never understand. Why pay when there are a ton who's willing to do it for free? May difference ba pag professional at pag hobbyist lang? Lol pero seriously di maabot ng utak ko yung reason ng pagbabayad for sex

Sis simang i think guys like paying for sex because first it sets the requirements na sex lang talaga and no emotional attachment involve. Plus the fact that they can choose girls who they want to have sex with at di na nila kelangan pa suyuin..kung baga down to business agad. Kasi on a normal setting wala naman atang gurl na makita mo lang e sex agad kayo diba..minsan kelangan mo pang lasingin o kaya ligawan or kunin yung kiliti..saka for those na may partners o asawa na..less guilt ata kasi for them nothing serious just sex makarelease lang okay na sila pero love talaga nila misis nila..pero of course it is still out of our normal values...usually mga lalakeng mahilig talaga yang nagpa pay for sex at madame silang pera kaya afford.

[alyssa.online]

Sis simang i think guys like paying for sex because first it sets the requirements na sex lang talaga and no emotional attachment involve. Plus the fact that they can choose girls who they want to have sex with at di na nila kelangan pa suyuin..kung baga down to business agad. Kasi on a normal setting wala naman atang gurl na makita mo lang e sex agad kayo diba..minsan kelangan mo pang lasingin o kaya ligawan or kunin yung kiliti..saka for those na may partners o asawa na..less guilt ata kasi for them nothing serious just sex makarelease lang okay na sila pero love talaga nila misis nila..pero of course it is still out of our normal values...usually mga lalakeng mahilig talaga yang nagpa pay for sex at madame silang pera kaya afford.

True agree kasi somettimes guys just want sex with no drama then tapos na

[simang]

But may mga girls din naman who are willing to do it without drama diba

[Girltalker2]

Maybe this makes them feel more powerful?

Kung baga - I hired you to do the job for me. Feeling boss and to be followed, unlike in other aspects of their lives, they need to follow their wives, or bosses sa work.

[patchuchai]

Sis simang i think guys like paying for sex because first it sets the requirements na sex lang talaga and no emotional attachment involve. Plus the fact that they can choose girls who they want to have sex with at di na nila kelangan pa suyuin..kung baga down to business agad. Kasi on a normal setting wala naman atang gurl na makita mo lang e sex agad kayo diba..minsan kelangan mo pang lasingin o kaya ligawan or kunin yung kiliti..saka for those na may partners o asawa na..less guilt ata kasi for them nothing serious just sex makarelease lang okay na sila pero love talaga nila misis nila..pero of course it is still out of our normal values...usually mga lalakeng mahilig talaga yang nagpa pay for sex at madame silang pera kaya afford.

I'm with a partner right now. And life niya nung bata bata pa siya, Yes mahilig talaga siya. Siguro sa modern time natin ngayon if check ang testosterone level niya mataas talaga. Sabi niya in a week nakaka tatlo siya at kapag hindi daw sumasakit ulo niya iba ang feeling. Not paying for sex pero sa nature ng work niya and he is handsome, madaming pumapayag pero no strings attached at aware din ang mga girls na he is married. Well, hindi naman niya pinagmamalaki ito pero on another view point, men are men. Mabuti nga nung dumating ako, ako na lang talaga and btw he is 60 yrs old na and im 44.

[simang]

Plus the fact that they can choose girls who they want to have sex with at di na nila kelangan pa suyuin..kung baga down to business agad. minsan kelangan mo pang lasingin o kaya ligawan or kunin yung kiliti..saka for those na may partners o asawa na..less guilt ata kasi for them nothing serious just sex makarelease lang okay na sila pero love talaga nila misis nila..pero of course it is still out of our normal values...usually mga lalakeng mahilig talaga yang nagpa pay for sex at madame silang pera kaya afford.

Makes sense. Lalo na yung pera part, hehe, kung afford nga naman why not. Siguro some do it for the experience lang, hanggang sa nakasanayan na. Oh well.

Maybe this makes them feel more powerful?

Kung baga - I hired you to do the job for me. Feeling boss and to be followed, unlike in other aspects of their lives, they need to follow their wives, or bosses sa work.

Siguro, so would you say those people who pay for it are insecure?

[naizlabonita]

Makes sense. Lalo na yung pera part, hehe, kung afford nga naman why not. Siguro some do it for the experience lang, hanggang sa nakasanayan na. Oh well.

Siguro, so would you say those people who pay for it are insecure?

I read somewhere na guys who cheat are insecure so since paying for sex is counted as cheating kapag may jowa na eh siguru nga somehow may part din na insecure sila..but not all naman siguru..hhmm.mostly i guess. Meron din naman sa mga walang game kasi di sila lapitin ng gurls kaya walang sex life eh obviously needs some release hehe kaya they pay for sex.

[chiccn714]

I have a friend who does this. He's not good-looking, and aminado siya nito. NGSB siya, kasi nga of his looks. Since he has the money naman, he just pays for sex. Masaya na man siya kasi nasasatisfy needs niya, pero gusto niya pa rin magka gf someday.

[cupcakejane]

I'm not sure but i feel its common for husbands with low self esteem.  Why pay for it?  I see the photos of the girls and squatter talaga ang peg sorry.   I dont believe they are better, at the end of the day, depende yan sa willingness mo to do whatever. 

Ngayon gusto daw makipag ayos asawa ko sakin, really, after everything na ginawa niya? Grabe mga babae na kinuha niya nakakadiri. Sarap post ng link ng bugaw.

[amethyst028]

Sabi ng ibang guys coz of variety daw. Hindi naman everyday adobo. Gusto nila tumikim ng iba and mas ok na daw to pay for sex kasi no need to court the girl or get attached or have an affair. They can have it when they want it.

And i guess it depends on the character and morals of they guy.