why do i feel my wife value her friends more

[drinveilside]

Hi Everyone,

Honestly i don't know where to start, i guess i can start by giving you guys a background. I am 35 married with 3 kids one is turning 13 on June 3 the other is 10 and youngest is 4 my only son.

We've had our ups and downs as usual, but lately i feel like she sees the future without me.
I will admit i had my own faults but i make up to it by being the cook and the laundry guy during weekends. I don't have vices only a gamer when we were starting but now she took over my account and that's where the issue start.

I will admit i am not the best because i can only provide what we need and not everything what they want. okay going back my wife took over my gaming account and met new friends. I see nothing wrong with that but my question is why is it that i feel as got fed up by staying at home and taking of the kids.

I am probably not making any sense but lately because of her desire to work she has also created a bit of space between us, you know privacy and all she knows my facebook and my cp password but i don't know hers. I know there is no 3rd party but lately she has been vocal about the fact that she feels sad for not being able to go to a friends celebration or what not.

I am not preventing her from being with her girl friends but there are times that she doesn't even send a text message to me and if i try to talk to her about it, it would be an argument that id rather not have. I also want to say that is it wrong to ask your wife for sex when you only get it once a week or sometimes twice a month

I really don't know if i am making any sense but i feel like my wife got fed up already taking care of the kids and just being at home anyone please help thank you

[Shadow Angel]

After married and having a kids now na lang ba ulit nagkaroon ng freedom or privacy misis mo? Hindi ba iisa ang circle of friends nyo? For me lang ha mahalaga pareho alam or kilala and at the same time nakakasama or iisa circle of friends nyo new or old friends man yan.  Nakausap mo na ba wife mo regarding dyan? Kami mga babae once in awhile gusto namin may kagirl bonding dahil iba pa rin kapag ang usapan kapag pang girls kahit naman kayo mga boys ganun diba may for the boys lang talaga. Bago ka mag conclude ng kung ano better na kausapin mo muna sya kausap na hindi tipong inaakusahan mo na sya on something para mauwi sa away or lumala pa. Mas ok na malaman mo nasa isip at anong opinion nya sa ginagawa nya ngayon.

[khaleesiCersei]

Just wanna share bro, kami ni hubby, we each have our own set of friends pero we make it a point naman na ipakilala sila sa isa't isa and to get to know each of our own group. Mine kasi puro girls lang. Sa kanya halo. Pareho kami nag eeffort na ilapit yung mga friends namin. Like ako i let him get to know my friends, minsan sinasama ko siya sa lakad namin, tapos siya ganon din. Actually madalas niya ako isama sa mga lakad nila ng friends niya, kahit nga boys night out minsan kasama pa rin ako, taga picture nila lol!

Pero pag may mga lakad kami with just friends, hindi kami mahilig magtext. Actually ako yung ganon, medyo nahawa na lang siya sa huli hehe. Reason is so simple, ang focus ko is nasa mga kasama ko, nag eenjoy ako with them. Nasanay na siya. Siya din naman pag lumalabas hindi ko din naman siya tinetext. Hinahayaan ko din siya mag enjoy.

 Kasi di ba magkasama naman kayo sa bahay, kelangan pa ba mayat maya magtextan? Hehe pede naman tsaka na kayo mag usap pag uwi ng isa sa inyo.

Ang importante kasi samin 2 eh alam namin kung san kami pupunta, sinong kasama at anong oras uuwi. So wala ng text in between. Unless may kelangan sabihin na importante or emergency or minsan pag may ipapabili hehe.

My point is, we trust each other and we make it a point na walang ikakaduda ang isa't isa. Pareho kami na ganon. Transparency kumbaga and pag may sinabi kami ginagawa namin like anong oras uuwi, sakto sa usapan.

About naman sa password. I suggest ask mo siya anong password niya. Tanungin mo kasi siya na bat siya alam password mo tas ikaw hindi. Pag defensive siya eh di baka may something hehe. Not necessarily na may iba siya ha. I mean baka kasi may mga conversation sila ng friends niya na ayaw niya mabasa mo. Baka sa kanila siya nag vevent out pag may away kayo mag asawa