This is regarding my sister and I will try to make the story short.
My sister had a very troubled marriage that led to separation. She has 3 kids. She had a boyfriend, also married but separated and childless (the ex wife of the guy has a live-in partner with 2 kids). This guy somehow supported my sister with her financial needs although i must say that my sister is a very hardworking person. She was able to acquire her own house though not that big in a private subdivision and she has her won car. I know for a fact that the guy was so sincere with my sister.
Lately, my sister discovered (through her boyfriend) that the kids of the ex wife carries his name. Of course, my sister got hurt upon knowing this. The father of the kids is in jail since 2010 and their first child was born 2009 and the second child was born 2013. The explanation was the relatives of the wife requested the bf of my sister to carry his name because of "kahihiyan" and they dislike her live-in partner. The ex wife regularly visits the bf in jail together with the kids but lately, the ex wife has another boyfriend. Please also take note that the bf of my sister told his own family that the father of the kids is him.
Although I must say that the bf of my sister has been a loving, responsible and supportive bf to my sister (he even sent my sister to college, my sister graduated at 30) but upon learning all of these issues last March 2015, my sister got confused. My sister stopped talking to the guy for a month. After that, my sister realized that she has to accept the situation.
Yes, this guy loves my sister so much. He spends on their dates, provides financial support from time to time, even provided my sister a small capital for a small business, but he is also a very jealous guy that sometimes, he tends to say hurtful words to my sister when they have arguments. She also noticed that after she learned about "the very complicated situation" of her bf, suddenly the guy becomes quick-tempered.
One Sunday last January 2017, they were supposed to meet somewhere at 12nn, the guy texted my sister saying "can we move it at 1pm?". My sister said no and upon exchange of text messages, the guy got upset and again, he said a lot of hurtful words and he was even taking back the investment that he entrusted to my sister and broke-up with her. My sister retaliated and blurted out all her resentments. After 2 weeks, my sister deposited all the investment to the bank account of the bf.
Before Valentine's Day, the bf texted my sister and he apologized. He invited my sister to celebrate Vday but my sister rejected. Everyday, my sister receives messages from the guy like "i miss you" "i love you" "sorry" and "patawad". My sister did not reply. After a few more weeks, they met. The guy was apologetic but my sister was still full of anger. My sister even walked out while they were eating. This was February. By March, no text from the guy.
By April, the guy texted my sister again saying sorry. Apart from the text messages, he sent email messages to my sister. My sister kept silent and one day, she responded to the email and decided to officially end her relationship with the guy.
My sister realized that she was waiting for nothing. Btw, she offered the guy several times to have her marriage annulled bu nothing happened. My sister said that when the guy read her email, the guy cried and realized about his mistakes but my sister made her stand.
What do you think about this complicated situation.
