Need advice from you

[snowhite_12]

I have been single for almost 7 years and I have a boyfriend now for 1 year and 6 months who really wants to marry me. I am in my 30's (wala na sa calendaryo age ko) i am in the right age to get married.problem... my parents are not yet ready for it. ang isip nila sa akin teenager. my parents are over conservative. My boyfriend is having a hard time to court them. He tried to reach out and made effort for my parents.  can anyone relate on this issue and how you guys handle it.

We can't get married if there is no blessings from them.has anyone encounter this kind of issue?

[mimiku]

Why can't you get married without their blessings? Legally you are ok naman na to not seek any consent from your parents. Unless you are looking for their approval. Well I guess it's your choice naman whether huwag mong ituloy or what. Talk to them. Baka naman may nakita sila sa bf mo na di nila nagustuhan?

[three8one]

nun  una, akala ko mahihirapan ako sa parents ng wife ko. nbsb wife ko  pero nakikipag date naman siya before until naging kami. nasa tamang edad na kami pareho pero nun bf/gf days namin never ako nakapasok sa house nila since yung parents nun wife ko nasa province. kesyo baka daw pag bumisita yung parents nya may mga makakating dila sa kapitbahay nila mag chika, himatayin na lang sa galit parents nya. nun ma meet ko parents ang ginawa ko inobserve ko sino sa dalawa ang pwede ko maka sundo and ang nfeel ko that time is yung father ng wife ko. ginawa ko yung makipag vibes kahit isa man lang dun sa dalawa magulang ng wife ko para kahit papano when my wife will discuss sa parents nya yung plan namin may magiging kakampi or should I say may katulong magpapaliwanag dun sa isa para medaling matanggap. ayun, nun napaliwanagan at siguro na convince din nila yung mother ng wife ko wala ng pagtutol na naganap. at sa ngayon okay naman kami ng mga in laws ko.

tyagain nyo lang ng bf nyo na kahit isa sa parents mo may makapalagayan ng loob bf mo. para kahit papano may padrino/backer siya bukod sayo sa family ninyo. at siempre dapat Makita rin ng parents mo na worth it naman talaga na ipaubaya ka na nila sa bf mo.

[snowhite_12]

Ldr kami ng bf ko maliit lang yung time nakilala ng parents ko ang bf ko. As my observation nakikita ko naman nag effort yung bf ko. Ayaw din kasi namin walang approval at blessings if we get married mas mabuti kc maganda treatment from the start. I have told my parents all the good things about my boyfriend.

[three8one]

sakto, ldr din kami ng wife ko.. alam mo yung namanhikan ako sa inlaws ko thru phone call lang? pero sabi ko nga since nakasundo ko yung father inlaw ko siya ang una ko kinausap then nun okay na, pag kausap ko sa mother in law ko wala na sya nagawa pero sang katutak na tagubilin at payo ang binitiwan sa akin. dapat lang madiskarte lang si bf manuyo sa  parents mo and you should help him by giving him some tips ano yung likes and dislikes ng parents mo para alam ng bf mo kung paano nya didiskartehan yung parents mo kung sakaling mag meet sila.

[mimiku]

Ldr kami ng bf ko maliit lang yung time nakilala ng parents ko ang bf ko. As my observation nakikita ko naman nag effort yung bf ko. Ayaw din kasi namin walang approval at blessings if we get married mas mabuti kc maganda treatment from the start. I have told my parents all the good things about my boyfriend.

LDR din kami ng hubby ko before and super fast ang engagement namin. Whirlwind romance. Effort lang and huwag tumigil sa kasusuyo. At the same time Communication is the key. Tell them how you feel. They would warm up naman to him once they get to know him better.

[Girltalker2]

Baka feeling ng parents mo di pa sapat ang pagkakakilala nyo sa isa't isa (ldr) para mag asawa kayo. Tsaka ano plans nyo after wedding - ldr ulit? or mawawalay ka sa parents mo?