Someone is being too nice to my B! What should I do?

[prettyrian]

Hi guys!

Me and my B are just starting for like 6 months or so, and I wanna keep our relationship smooth and with less issues as much as possible. Initially, nag search sya for a condo unit to rent here in Manila, (he's a foreigner, btw). So basically he has an agent to make contact with. So, after that, ok na ang condo and all. Naka settle na din sya sa unit and I'm with him most of the days naman. Here comes the agent, kept on being extra nice and too friendly to my B. She's like sending random stuff like alcohol drinks and food for him to try and even volunteers to make a search for my B for a trip/travel. My B didn't know that I've read their chat (accidentally when he left his phone open). In fairness to my B, I think he's being nice to her and just giving the normal reply a gentleman would do. My concern is actually the agent. Sabi nga nila, pag ang palay na ang lumapit sa manok, hindi malabong tumuka. In my opinion, the agent is being too leechy/linta. I was thinking it's too much for her and why is she being that extra nice? Does she want anything? She has a bf too btw. But as a woman, I have this instinct na may motive sya and I want her to stop sending my B unnecessary stuff and so. What should I do? Or am i just being overthinker/paranoid? What you think guys?

[plumpolka]

i believe na bilang babae, you know how to differentiate yung talagang mabait lang sa may motibo. instinct natin yun e. my advice is pag nagchat ulit si agent girl kay bf mo, tell your bf na ang isagot nya parati is lagin may "gf". like kung sabihan ng place na kakainan, parang "sure i'll try it with my gf" or kung ano mang i-involved ka. at least subtly, he's telling the girl na may gf ako, at i dont do things without her or without her knowledge. tignan lang natin kung di mapagod si ate girl kung makita nyang wala naman interes sa kanya si bf mo at hindi papatol.

[hisana]

Pwedeng may ulterior motive din si agent na non-romantic (because I've encountered agents din na determined talaga to make a strong connection with certain clients pero related lang sa trabaho talaga), but if your gut says nanlalandi sya, then maybe meron nga. Well, bottom line is, depende talaga yan kay bf if papatol sya. Bring up mo na lang siguro kay bf your thoughts about this woman, and maybe sya na rin mismo gagawa ng paraan so that you don't have to worry or feel uncomfortable about that agent.

[kvandenhaak]

If you instinct says she has a dirty motive, listen to it. At pwede mo namang tapatin si BF. Tell him you are not comfortable with her being too friendly to you. Madaling kausap yan especially foreigner kamo sya.

[baliwsayo]

Mas maganda ba si agent sa yo?

[Girltalker2]

Hay naku, dami kaya ganyan. Pag foreigner, laglag panty haha

When I left Manila, separated, Sabi ko if ever makahanap ako ng Bf or hubby, I told myself We would never ever live in Manila Nor would I allow him to stay in Manila long without me. I don't trust the women there! Period.