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The Lioness

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Yaya Problems and How to Deal
« on: March 15, 2017, 06:30:21 am »
(** Paki merge na lang po if may ganito ng thread*)

What to do if you accidentally saw your yaya's fone and she has more than 5 browsers na puro porn sites? And she's yaya to your 2-year old son.

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Re: Yaya Problems and How to Deal
« Reply #1 on: March 15, 2017, 07:14:21 am »
grabe ang horny naman ni yaya

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Re: Yaya Problems and How to Deal
« Reply #2 on: March 15, 2017, 08:45:50 am »
^^kung ako yan, i will not allow him to be near my son.  di bale nang mawalan ng yaya, basta hindi ako nag-iisip na baka me gawin (gawing victim ng yaya yung anak ko) or di gawin (dahil sa pagiging horny nya napapabayaan na yung bata).
And there comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular but because conscience tells one it is right.

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Re: Yaya Problems and How to Deal
« Reply #3 on: March 15, 2017, 09:31:39 am »
Matagal na ba si yaya sa inyo? How is she as a yaya in general?
...all adventurous women do.

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Re: Yaya Problems and How to Deal
« Reply #4 on: March 15, 2017, 11:10:32 pm »
more than a month pa lang si yaya samin sis. close sa kanya anak ko. madali lang din naman kasi lumapit kahit kanino ang anak ko eh. as far as I can see naman, she takes care of him well. kaya lang since nung incident na yun, hindi na ako mapakali everytime I hear her say "kiss muna ate" if my son asks her anything. madami kasi ako nababasa at napapanood ngayon how some nannies can rape really young children so paranoid ako.

ayoko din naman sana mag confront dahil nahihiya ako. and yaya is a distant relative of my husband so ayoko din sabihin sa kanya. also, 2 weeks ago, nag day off sya. I think kasama nya boyfriend nya that time. but Im not 100% sure. maybe the bf yung nag open ng mga sites na yun. hindi ko na alam. it's hard when there's no one you can really tell your problems to.

though naman, I've seen my brothers open porn sites and I know a lot of girls do too. especially for 20 somethigs. I know I've opened a few sites before din with my hubby pero sobrang iba pakiramdam when other people do it and they're close to your kids.

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Re: Yaya Problems and How to Deal
« Reply #5 on: March 16, 2017, 12:40:27 am »
^No one will protect your son from predators but you as parents. Tell your husband right away and talk about this issue without delay. Baka di mo alam pinapanood na yan ng mga porn kapag wala ka. If I were in that situation, she is fired right there and then. He is only 2-years old!
« Last Edit: March 16, 2017, 12:45:04 am by kvandenhaak »
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Re: Yaya Problems and How to Deal
« Reply #6 on: July 04, 2017, 12:48:11 pm »
becareful of ELLEN MAGASO VILLAMERO.
just learned that she's living with a married guy in bulacan and may iniwanan siyang utang sa previous employer niya. at sakin din. she was even disrespectful sa mga naging amo niya and afterwards sisiraan niya pag umalis na siya. i know because she was very direspectful pag kausap niya ako.
though okay naman trabaho niya sa stay niya sakin, di ko lang natake yung demands niya na uuwi every weekend saturday then babalik nang monday at ayaw ipakaltas sa sahod.

just double check with her previous employer lagi pag nagapply siya sainyo.
again ELLEN MAGASO VILLAMERO ang name.

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Re: Yaya Problems and How to Deal
« Reply #7 on: July 09, 2017, 09:51:18 pm »
I would find that really awkward lalo na if she doesn't wash her hands after  :P  I'd find another yaya pero mommy, why are you snooping around yaya's phone?

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Re: Yaya Problems and How to Deal
« Reply #8 on: July 12, 2017, 07:51:56 am »
okay naman helper namin, trustworthy, maganda ang performance and all.. kaya lang problem ko is she decides on small things without asking me/Us... small things lang naman pero alam niyo yung umuulit lang at nakakasakit rin ng ulo.  Napagsabihan ko na madalas and I said na maayos lahat ng ginagawa niya,  one thing lang talaga di ko gusto, yung nauuna mag decide on her own paulit ulit sinabi ko magtext or pag nandito ako sa bahay pwede naman magpaalam muna.

Napagsabihan ko siya kanina, may guilt feeling lang rin ako. ayaw ko ma-stress matuto sana naman siya.

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Re: Yaya Problems and How to Deal
« Reply #9 on: January 17, 2018, 08:34:53 am »
Sobrang matakaw haha! Parang umaabuso na.. Dati marunong pa mahiya pero ngayon wala na ang hiya 😂 Minsan mahuhuli mo pa na bongga yung breakfast niya, yung ulam na naka-ready pang Lunch ang kakainin. Anyways ewan ko ba.. mabait naman kung sa mabait pero minsan nasisira ang budget pag malakas masyado kumain. Sa sobrang busy ko hindi ko na maalala minsan na mag separate ng breakfast niya. Akala ko kasi alam na niya yan eversince naman nag start siya dito sinabi ko naman kung ano ang kakainin lalo pag madami pagkain sa ref, yung pwede pang ulam sa tanghali ay wag gagalawin. 

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Re: Yaya Problems and How to Deal
« Reply #10 on: March 19, 2018, 08:32:24 pm »
Sa akin naman mga sis, may dyslexia ang katulong ko kaya di marunong magbasa, magsulat at mahina ang comprehension.. i taught her alphabet at ngayon, tinuturuan ko ng abakada.. i have 8 month old baby kaya di ako mapakali kung iiwan ko sa kanya.. so ako ang namamalengke, nagluluto kasi puro prito lang ang alam, bantay ng baby round the clock.. mabagal din sya magwork kaya kung minsan ako nalang gumagawa... ang work nya ay hugas ng pinggan at linis ng bahay, nakaautomatic naman ang washing machine kaya di na naglalaba.. sarap nga buhay may time pa sya to nap sa hapon habang ako nagbabantay ng bata... ngayon, babakasyon daw at di na babalik... hay! Hanap na naman ng bago.. hirap na maghanap kasi may 4ps na natatanggap sila..

 


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